What's with all the threads and peeps calling it quits??

Fact: no one that is on here and has accumulated more than twenty encounters will ever be able to quit. No matter how strong they think they are, no matter the perfect woman they find. Wife, children, caught cheating, cancer - you’ll always be back to the hobby. And let’s be straight - it’s less a hobby and more an addiction.

You guys are looking way too into this.

New year -> New Years Resolutions. Simple!

Whether they stick with it is another thing entirely.

I wish my favourite reviewers will never quit. Reading good reviews is a great joy even when the lady being reviewed is not my cup of tea.

WashboardAbs said:

Fact: no one that is on here and has accumulated more than twenty encounters will ever be able to quit. No matter how strong they think they are, no matter the perfect woman they find. Wife, children, caught cheating, cancer - you’ll always be back to the hobby. And let’s be straight - it’s less a hobby and more an addiction.

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Yes yes yes! Definitely would fall into the “addiction” category for me. It’s less of a “life choice” and more just what I’ve been doing for the last 20 years, my brain has been wired this way now (good way to put to deathspanker), so it makes it impossible to just quit cold turkey. Yeah, I could quit, but it would probably involve a real “program” of some sort, or years of therapy or something. White-knuckling it to just stop is impossible at this point.

Honestly I would have no problem with it if I were single and just enjoying all these wonderful women. But married to a woman I love and have great sex with for over a decade, plus children in the mix....that’s what makes me WANT to quit. But damn, it’s hard.

have to agree it will be nearly impossible for most pooners to quit. i've never tried to quit, as i know i can't and don't have a real need to anyways. although i am certainly spending far too much money on SP's lately, i will definitely tone it down out of necessity

I'm 63. Quit this hobby a few times when gor married orin a relationship. Butt last 20yrs single and except 4 a brief time have prefered this lifestyle.

New Year's resolutions I say
maybe add Holiday credit card bills on top of that

Maybe take a break but never quit.

Seriously who the fuck could ever get tired of having great sex with gorgeous women.

I quit in this country at least. I go to Colombia 3 or 4 times a year. Even adding airfare which is cheap, an airbnb which is also cheap I think it is more economical for me. Pretty much anyone here I would want to see is at least $300/hr. Thats half my plane ticket right there.

I don't know. I'm thinking for some, the hobby has become quite a hassle for something that should be so simple. Most pooners have this, "wah wah wah, I'm taking my ball and going home" mentality. So they profess to quit all the time.

I haven't quit, but I can't remember the last time I saw an escort. I think it's been about 3 years. I've always had a healthy sex life outside the industry and presently the industry has nothing to offer that interests me.

I don't think quitting this 'hobby' is as hard as you might think. I am a living proof of that. I have quit over 50 times since I started 5+ years ago. In last year alone, I quit about ten times. If I can do it, anyone can.

On a more serious note, I have not really quit because I am still enjoying it. But I have slowed down, a lot. From three or four every month in 2014, I gradually cut it down to once every 3 weeks in 2017 to once a month now. I have managed to stay off for over two months at least three four times.

Based on personal experience, I feel that it is not easy to quit, but you can certainly manage it better.

Touching sexy women of all sizes and races from this hobby has been one of the best memories of life.

zippy45 said:

I quit in this country at least. I go to Colombia 3 or 4 times a year. Even adding airfare which is cheap, an airbnb which is also cheap I think it is more economical for me. Pretty much anyone here I would want to see is at least $300/hr. Thats half my plane ticket right there.

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Nice! I've been to Medellin twice but haven't been back in 8 years. I thought the scene had slided due to chat cams and sugar daddies? What's your favorite city?

I just realized a pooner who I've met has moved on and had his posts removed.

I hope everything is ok :thumb:

wetnose said:

Nice! I've been to Medellin twice but haven't been back in 8 years. I thought the scene had slided due to chat cams and sugar daddies? What's your favorite city?

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I got a few messages so I will just reply on here.
Medellin is my go to city, less expensive then Cartagena better weather than Bogota. Prostitution is legal in Colombia. Price wise 1hour full service in a nicer casa(brothel) runs about 150000 pesos($60) About the same price for 30 minutes from a stripper at the bar. Facebook girls and there are alot in Medellin not so much other cities will run you around 200000 pesos for a few hours. Street girl around 40000 pesos and that is with a room at a love motel included. One big thing is you really need to know Spanish to fully get the best time, mine is very weak but working on it. You can get a nice airbnb for about $30 a night, of course you can also pay $4000 Direct flight from Toronto to Bogota, leaving from Vancouver I usually pay about $700. Flights between cities in Colombia is cheap, think $40 return from Bogota to Medellin.

badbadboy said:

I just realized a pooner who I've met has moved on and had his posts removed.

I hope everything is ok :thumb:

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He was online yesterday, gone today.
I agree hope everything is ok...

I "heard" there's another local [Perb] site which is by invite only for those who are have discontentment with how Perb is running. It's on the "deep web" so it's not searchable. My guess these users may be gone from Perb but haven't given up their hobby.