What are your feelings on “party favours” / “party and play”?

How do you feel about party favours

  • Never ever / deal breaker

    Votes: 104 67.5%
  • Never ever / not a deal breaker

    Votes: 28 18.2%
  • Sometimes when I am in the mood

    Votes: 18 11.7%
  • My favourite way to play

    Votes: 4 2.6%

  • Total voters
    154

KinkyKatey

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Apr 21, 2017
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I get a surprising amount of messages from people asking about “party and play” and “party favours”. I have seen threads on the subject before and was wondering how many people on here are actually partaking in such activities.

Xo
Katey


**disclaimer don’t mention specific illegal party favours**
As ruled by the mods :)
 

volvoguy1979

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Nov 4, 2017
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With the surge in narcotics/street drugs, I guess it's only a matter of time until SP's offer these services (or are expected to).
I'd imagine certain SP's would get more/different clientele as a result.

Personally, they are not my cup o'tea
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LADY-VIA

I get up early, and often post early. Today I posted at 6 something, and I had 4 people ask me about such activities.. One asked me what I was doing, and I told him I was cooking. He responded with " you dont sleep at night " I told him I already did. I don't often sleep more than 5/6 hours. Most people who I respond to early in the morning somehow think I'm "still up from the night before" when I actually kind of enjoy watching the world wake up, and feeding the birds.
 

islander1-1

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Oct 9, 2015
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I had... note had, many vices... over the years,, but NEVER drugs of any sort. I have experienced a cpl of encounters where the SP was obviously stoned... WHY was my thoughts.... is it because on my looks, age, the size of my dick or what??? .. for me its a huge turn off, to see someone else under the influence.
 

Cock Throppled

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Oct 1, 2003
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Never Ever/Deal breaker. Immediately close any ad that suggests it.

Can't understand why pooners or SP's would put themselves in even more vulnerable situations.
 
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badbadboy

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Nov 2, 2006
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I partake 420 only with SP whom I’ve already met. I wouldn’t with anyone on a first date.

My days of doing anything harder are long past.
 

lukom

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Dec 8, 2010
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I'm saying never ever/deal breaker. However I understand that party friendly doesn't always mean that an SP partakes in partying, but may host those who want to in her presence, be it on her coffee table or off of her tits (for example). Party girl is where I know 100% to stay away. I also don't mean to come off as judgemental, but I have known a lot of people who were on again and off again addicts. Knowing how unhinged former Addicta may get and how they may fall back into addiction I would probably go as far as saying that I wouldn't knowingly see SP's who have a history of addiction. Especially if they've been sober for a shorter time than time they've spent being addicted.
 

Shanghai

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Mar 22, 2015
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Info from girls on guys that ask about party favours, the implication is that leading with “do you party” implies trading drugs for more time, a better time, or trade drugs instead of cash.

Girls that “party” and advertise by default sometime use that to check if you are a cop (those who do not partake must be a cop). Otherwise, those that use the cash to fund a drug habit, those are the girls more willing to spend more time with a guy if their phone is not ringing off the hook.

Street workers NOT “partying” is a rare exception. In their case, they deal with alleviating drug sick as a first priority, second priority is to load up just before the deed to enhance the experience.
 

MisterMR

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Jan 18, 2009
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Never ever. Nope.

I'm high on life.
 

jgg

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Apr 14, 2015
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Never ever and a deal breaker...stupid things happen to stupid people.
 

Newb808

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I do not partake in such activities and thus far any mention of partying in an ad precludes my interest in the advertiser. I “partied” daily for years on end and gave it all up a long time ago. I assume most ladies who mention it in their ads party daily(surely some don’t)and I just don’t want to be around or contribute to that.
 
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What surprises me, although it probably shouldn't, is when a client shows up for a 3pm appt and half way through the session asks to do some in my home. I'm cool with cannabis but not the other stuff. It's definitely something you should mention over the phone before you book.
 
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lukom

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Dec 8, 2010
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What surprises me, although it probably shouldn't, is when a client shows up for a 3pm appt and half way through the session asks to do some in my home. I'm cool with cannabis but not the other stuff. It's definitely something you should mention over the phone before you book.
Yikes that's just wrong.
 

KinkyKatey

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What surprises me, although it probably shouldn't, is when a client shows up for a 3pm appt and half way through the session asks to do some in my home. I'm cool with cannabis but not the other stuff. It's definitely something you should mention over the phone before you book.
^^^^ This. I have had it happen with gents I have seen several times before, then it just blindsides me.
 

lukom

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^^^^ This. I have had it happen with gents I have seen several times before, then it just blindsides me.
Since you started this thread, what are your thoughts on the whole party girl vs party friendly experience?
 

pepluvs69s

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Jul 9, 2014
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Never ever/deal breaker. I see an ad that says party and play, I close it and move on. I am fine with pot usage.
 

jgg

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"Party friendly" is always a red flag. The one time, long ago, waaaay before online ads, I prioritized drugs over sex when seeing a provider, I ended up in a humiliating situation where I was mocked for my, shall we say, inadequacies, and I was sold some terrible weed.

Those were the days ...
LOL. Coke dick?
 
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