I have seen a wonderful gentleman twice now. Both times I thought to myself “wow he is not what I was expecting”, I have just realized why!
When I asked what he wanted to do with our time together he said “I am seeking a non rushed sensual GFE rendezvous with a twist. I'm open to most adventures and might need some of your guidance. I enjoy kissing and hope you do too.”
Well! Spanking (everywhere), biting, hair pulling, cock slapping, facials and more (so much more) had me laying there after feeling like a damn porn star! Being perfectly honest that’s right up my alley, but it does bring up the age old question, what is the difference between gfe and pse? Perhaps we should all talk about the activities we want to partake in and avoid acronyms
?
Do you like to plan out your get togethers or just wing it and why?
Xo
Katey
Had your SP name been
HumbleHelen, then I could better understand your post, but in this case I am guessing this great guy (perhaps
eroded like a smooth rock at the beach by both time and {fully pleasant** vanilla sex** )... had
interests he'd not fully explored... or
thought he had such interests, and wondered about them... (thus the need for your guidance).
YOU didn't expect to be swinging from the chandeliers with him... and
he was glad for your experimental ways, while he was genuinely open to being vulnerable to your (guidance) ...
So I think that's why it was so eye-opening.
(planning vs. winging seemed a distant factor in what you describe)
YOU... presented yourself on the board quite accurately... and as a result you drew the interest of somebody who was interested in
experimenting.
(some
kinks are a function of long-ago misdeeds done onto or around them, where this was likely a vanilla,
unaffected person just experimenting... thus perhaps he was more open to whatever you inspired)
(my sense OF) the contrasting client being one who has some fetish/kink that is seared into his psyche, (perhaps as a result of misdoings done unto him years ago), where all he wants to do is ______ on/at you, with the
deeply-set-in-his-ways urgency that (I perceive to be more typical of many of your clientele), and which, while usually tolerable, does tend to have you in close proximity with a person who may have quite an
edge to him). (take away that
edgy persona, and open both parties to true experimentation with eager interest, and it's bound to be eye-opening)
(I'm exaggerating when I say)
This could be as simple as a person in a long relationship where sex is only allowed in bed on Saturday mornings, and occasionally on the couch on Wednesdays after dinner while watching Vanna White... (a person
could grow to love that relationship, and be eager for both Wednesdays and Saturdays each week, with plenty of
incentive to get him to each. BUT in his mind it might even seem bold or kinky to race home for a
quicky at lunch time on a Monday!
I just sense that the decent guy you describe has created a long lifetime of decent normalcy, but that you helped him to explore whatever he thought he didn't know, on the other side... (AND that it was something which was a pleasant alteration for you, with a client not hardwired into his own, narrow kinky needs)