Newbie and very Curious!

CoolPal

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Just to make it short, I'm at my late 20s and new to this kind of thing. just wanna know what age you guys started going to SP's ? What made you do it as well?

Thanks!

PS : never tried one and im itching to try.
 

Oldfart

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State of confusion
I was in my 40s, had been married for nearly 20 years, and was no longer getting laid at home.
 

licks2nite

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Age 23, a year after my fiancée decided to live in the States. For all I know she was an SP too doing security check for my employers.
 

OneLuckyGuy

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I was 30. Went to on a mini gambling trip to Reno with a group of coworkers and ended up going to the Mustang Ranch. The rest as they say is history.
 

m_clock

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I was 22. Saw a few girls then stopped after I had kids.
They have all moved out now and I’m right back at it. Started up again about a year ago.
 

CoolPal

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Appreciate the response fellas!

Probably the average age for this kind of thing is around 30ish and I would assume that most people that tried this for the very first time is they really want to try this out of curiosity, the feeling of no strings attached and probably got addicted to it.

I myself too is very curious to try this, i dont want to blew my first try so im trying my hard to read many threads and comments.

Also, does Service Providers care much about the size of your manhood? I mean i got small deek like 4inches erect and it would literally put me in the shy/shame zone.
 
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Appreciate the response fellas!

Probably the average age for this kind of thing is around 30ish and I would assume that most people that tried this for the very first time is they really want to try this out of curiosity, the feeling of no strings attached and probably got addicted to it.

I myself too is very curious to try this, i dont want to blew my first try so im trying my hard to read many threads and comments.

Also, does Service Providers care much about the size of your manhood? I mean i got small deek like 4inches erect and it would literally put me in the shy/shame zone.
Myself, I do not worry about cock size, unless its the size of a Coke can.
 

CoolPal

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@VanessainVictoria, coke can beats my deek like 0.8 inch difference, which makes me very sad.sob
 

Newb808

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I started dabbling in my mid 30s, and would only do so abroad due to paranoia. For me it was initially somewhat out of curiosity. It had also been too long and between not being able to find anyone NSA I was interested in online, and my never ending work week, it seemed like a perfect special “excursion” while vacationing. After a few tries abroad, I took it up here and would definitely concede that it is a somewhat addictive behaviour.
My first attempt was probably the least satisfying, but they seem to just keep getting better the more I experiment and then repeat ladies I connect with. Even though round one sucked, I don’t regret it or recommend an extended delay to research and get it right if you know in your heart and mind that you want to. If I could redo my first session, however, I wouldn’t get a happy ending HJ from a non English speaker in a resort town lol. I would shortlist a few highly praised ladies in the $300-$400/h range here in town, reach out to them stating my interest and that it’s my first time, and any anxiety or insecurity issues I may have. I had some of my own when I first started in town and they were always put to rest in a comforting way.
Four inches should be more than enough to achieve penetration so you’ll be fine. I can’t imagine any highly regarded provider intentionally humiliating or shaming a client unless it was requested. I’m only guessing but I think what the lady meant was that a cock the diameter of a coke can would be too much, and not saying that the height was too short.
Good luck man!
 

Newb808

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She’s an Instagramer, Canadian mind you, but I’d bet 20 sessions that the ad is shady. If that’s the look you’re going for try west coast angels or something. No bait and switch.
 

CoolPal

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She’s an Instagramer, Canadian mind you, but I’d bet 20 sessions that the ad is shady. If that’s the look you’re going for try west coast angels or something. No bait and switch.
Holy crap it does look shady when you put it that way. I dont have Instagram account or other social media account other then facebook, I guess it puts me at a disadvantage for not knowing some popular people. Anyway thanks for the heads up!
 

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masterblaster

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Appreciate the response fellas!

Probably the average age for this kind of thing is around 30ish and I would assume that most people that tried this for the very first time is they really want to try this out of curiosity, the feeling of no strings attached and probably got addicted to it.

I myself too is very curious to try this, i dont want to blew my first try so im trying my hard to read many threads and comments.

Also, does Service Providers care much about the size of your manhood? I mean i got small deek like 4inches erect and it would literally put me in the shy/shame zone.
Like the old joke. I only got 4 inches but some girls like it that wide.
 

islander1-1

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I started at it when I was in my early 40s... Marriage was going sour... Then back into it about 4 yrs ago .... menopause..... It was a learn as you go experience the first time, and I made several bad mistakes. This time around only one bad experience cuz it was a TOFTT. The rest were good really due to all the great folks here on this forum. My advice is find an SP that suites your fancy.. (Fits your preferences for looks, services provided, and perceived personality.. Does she have Email and website. Do any of her pictures in her ads show up elsewhere using tineye and google image reverse lookup? And does she have a website. Then Does she have some good reviews on here.
If all is good so far then contact her, BUT explain to her its your first time. Also tell her a bit about yourself, Age, height weight, ... any health issues.. etc Don't worry about having a small "deek" I am sure she has seen more Deeks than you have. Ask if she is ok with this. Also let her know ahead of time what special services you might be looking for. If all is good book her for a 1 hr session.. 90% of the time I find this the perfect amount of time to get settled in, relaxed, not rushed, enjoy the pleasures, and wind down before departing.

THEN Don't forget to leave the rest of us a review on here... in the appropriate area of course.

Have a good one..
 

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I was 25 and had thought about it for awhile as I looked at it as a hassle free way to have no strings attached sex. After striking out at the bar one night I made a call and had a hell of a time with a awesome SP
 
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