View Poll Results: Why do you visit a lady?

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  • stress release

    4 5.88%
  • relaxation

    7 10.29%
  • pleasure

    36 52.94%
  • temptation (like her look or description)

    12 17.65%
  • out of habit

    1 1.47%
  • other

    8 11.76%
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Thread: Why do you visit a lady?

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    Why do you visit a lady?

    why do you visit a lady?

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    Because I am a man and all men want to be with as many women as they want. That is my belief and I am sticking to it.
    At my age, they all look good and luckily there is a nerve that connects my eyes to my one-eyed monster.


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    I think companionship, not necessarily sexual, should be an option.

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    I think “Why do you visit ladies?” would be a more appropriate title.

    Because men are sluts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by take8easy View Post
    Because I am a man and all men want to be with as many women as they want. That is my belief and I am sticking to it.
    Biologically wired to spread the seed around like a dandelion puff in the wind
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    There's no option to choose "All of the above"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Hunter View Post
    Biologically wired to spread the seed around like a dandelion puff in the wind
    This ^ is the underlying reason lol. Iím not mature, patient or available enough to partake in a serious give and take relationship, and yeah I like(all just instinct and biology, thanks Miss H) variety. I donít do the local bar scene and I am seldom allured by my prospects from online casual sex platforms. Aside from carnal indulgence/gratification, I enjoy the company of females I can unabashedly discuss pretty much anything and live out my fantasies with as well. Being that I donít have a ďrealĒ lover, I enjoy feeling appreciated when repeating with favourites or especially after giving a decent gift every now and then.

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    Curiosity at first, to be honest. Though curiosity is a slow boil event for me. Initially the will be something in a posting that causes me to pause, perhaps read the posting again, look through the images again. The pause cause may be in the words, the phrases or the images. . . . . haven't figured that one out. As time moves along, and the most important thing is that a second (and more) posting also cause that pause.

    When I notice a pattern in my reactions, I'll drop a short complementary note, short introduction, draw attention the posting that ensnared me and why, wish them a pleasant day (or stay if they are traveling plus a safe and uneventful trip home), and sign off.

    I have been gifted with some excellent, usually short, email exchanges with very interesting women.

    Finally, should I be able to make my long and arduous way to Van I'll bring up the idea of meeting.

    So, Vanessa, why do I see theses ladies? By the time I am actually able to see them we have established a bit of a repour. Meeting her, though still imbued with nervous tension, excitement and a schwack of unknowns feels more like meeting an acquaintance than a stranger = warmer intimacy, increased level of trust, a more authentic lover experience.

    A bit wordy and I wandered of topic a bit. My thoughts anyway.

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    Out of the options I chose relaxation but for me that also includes stress release and pleasure.
    My visits are all about leaving my real world at the door. Not in a way where I take on a fake persona but all the stress, demands, duties, responsibilities, etc.
    Its an hour or 2 where I can kick off my shoes, turn off my phone, uncork a bottle of wine and the only 2 people on the planet are the lady and myself.
    While the session itself can often leave me wobbly in the knees or looking forward to bedtime , I leave energized and refreshed.
    I really notice it in my attitude, interpersonal reactions and personality in the days following a visit.

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    Y'hear?

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    ^^^^^^
    Exactly what JB said. Captured my views perfectly. Although a hedonist at heart it is equally more enjoyable if my companion at the time shares in the same pleasure.

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    Other. To explore sexual options not readily available in my daily life. Different ethnicities, suicide girl types, kink, etc.. Now I can happily say been there, done that.

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    Other. Straight up. Because I want it and she's willing to offer it. And, I have the cash.

    OTT.

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    I love being a sexual person again, and all the intimacy that goes with it -- touching, cuddling, talking, sharing memories, and generally letting my guard down in a safe, non-judgmental environment.
    The world moves on a woman's hips

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    https://youtu.be/r7xLfeTytns

    Watch this video and it will explain why a lot of men seek out providers. I've been doing this for many years and I knew that often times the connection with a lady was more memorable than the sex, but I didn't know why. This lady really sums it up.

  15. #15
    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Hunter View Post
    I think “Why do you visit ladies?” would be a more appropriate title.

    Because men are sluts.
    Not necessarily. There are those with enough insecurities that "visiting a lady" is easier. And that doesn't make them sluts. For instance.

    I myself don't like to hurt people (emotionally) and don't like to be hurt, so "visiting a lady" is a pretty safe, noncommittal, clean-cut transaction. I guess that one belongs to "other" in the poll.
    Last edited by Robert Audley; 11-20-2019 at 08:14 PM.

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