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    Chronically ignored?

    Iím wondering if anyone else gets their communications to SPs chronically ignored? I find it very odd because there seems to be so much competition out there. But the last 3 texts or emails Iíve sent (to different ladies) have been completely ignored. Iím starting to get a complex lol. The thing is, itís kinda a lot of work sitting through hundreds of ads, narrowing down who is fake or real, who youíd like to see, reading reviews etc. and when you finally do all that, you initiate contact and are totally ignored. Frustrating... especially since I really have to plan ahead as my situation makes it extremely difficult to disappear for 3 hours without explanation.

    I guess Iím just wondering if Iím the only one this happens to?

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    Hmmm seeing as you have done your research I would guess these ladies all have a good reputation? How long do you give them before you feel ignored?

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    Forever. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niderian View Post
    I guess Iím just wondering if Iím the only one this happens to?
    Yes.

    Jokes aside, you have to consider a possibility something is wrong with your initial message. Maybe not; 3 texts/emails is not statistically significant.

    Very briefly, SPs hate pointless short messages ("hi", "are you avail?"). But long multi-paragraph life stories are also a red flag. It helps to show an intention to book with a defined time window (asking questions won't get as many replies), follow any instructions in the ad, treat it as a professional appointment.

    Timing is important. One thing I like about Leolist is you see when an ad was recently bumped, logically that's the best time to get a reply.

    Some SPs don't do prebooking well. Others would be offended if you try to book the same day. If you need a same day appointment, you could try an agency, they should be replying to any normal potential client.

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    Thanks....I did exactly as you said though, tried to book at a particular time, paid attention to the instructions in the ad, if they wanted a short “little bit about yourself” thing (kept it short as I hate doing this). Also looked at their posted schedule of available to see when they’ve indicated they’re working. So ya I’m no dummy and everything you said makes perfect sense to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niderian View Post
    I did exactly as you said though, tried to book at a particular time, paid attention to the instructions in the ad, if they wanted a short ďlittle bit about yourselfĒ thing (kept it short as I hate doing this). Also looked at their posted schedule of available to see when theyíve indicated theyíre working.
    Maybe it's not you, it's them then.

    I understand at least one of the three has "party friendly" in her ad, doesn't she? You probably know drug users are generally not reliable people, appointment-wise as well.

    Geography may be a factor, as well as the rate range you are targeting. There's big concentration of SPs in Downtown Vancouver, but some suburbs are notoriously unreliable.
    As for rates, you might find some good company at a wide price range, with the understanding your business is not as valuable at lower rates (lower supply and higher demand).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niderian View Post
    Iím wondering if anyone else gets their communications to SPs chronically ignored? I find it very odd because there seems to be so much competition out there. But the last 3 texts or emails Iíve sent (to different ladies) have been completely ignored. Iím starting to get a complex lol. The thing is, itís kinda a lot of work sitting through hundreds of ads, narrowing down who is fake or real, who youíd like to see, reading reviews etc. and when you finally do all that, you initiate contact and are totally ignored. Frustrating... especially since I really have to plan ahead as my situation makes it extremely difficult to disappear for 3 hours without explanation.

    I guess Iím just wondering if Iím the only one this happens to?
    Op, have you seen these sp's before?
    If so, it could be that they simply do not want to service/see you again.
    You need to understand that sp's share and record our info, just like we do on this site.
    Our cell numbers are recorded and used to help sp's know of potential threats - only fair.

    Dont take it personally. Simply keep reaching out and sooner or later youll find someone willing to see you.
    Thats the great thing about vancouver, is theres so many sp's to choose from!

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    Honestly though it may just be bad timing. Sp's get flooded with texts daily, so if you text her on a day when she's already planned who is visiting, or has decided to turn down for the night, or it gets sent to back of the line and she never gets back to responding it. Some sps will not text back after a certain time for privacy reasons as well.

    Just keep messaging and eventually you'll get a visit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niderian View Post
    I guess I’m just wondering if I’m the only one this happens to?
    Happens to me a lot at AMPs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by volvoguy1979 View Post
    Op, have you seen these sp's before?
    If so, it could be that they simply do not want to service/see you again.!
    I havenít, no. I havenít really done this enough to be a repeat with anyone.

    Anyway... one of the ladies did eventually get back to me last night! So cool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jamasianman View Post
    Honestly though it may just be bad timing. Sp's get flooded with texts daily.
    Good point. Thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niderian View Post

    But the last 3 texts or emails I’ve sent (to different ladies) have been completely ignored.*



    Maybe name some Names, and You might get some better Feedback on what You're experiencing ?

    As has been mentioned, lots of smart Women take a Holiday hiatus, to recharge their Batteries .

    You might have fallen into that lapse ?

    Cheers

    P.S. As long as, as You stated, You don't fall into this Category.

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