Nope, she didn't. As proof I have the confirmation email plus bank statements.
The whole situation is still quite odd to me and there are still a few open questions. It's also a bit annoying that she can't defend herself publicly here, so I'm careful how I express things as I want to give her the benefit of the doubt. As I wrote before, a lot of people stood up for her and there must be a reason for it.
Personally I'd be satisfied if we'd share the damage by getting at least half of the money back. But one could also argue that she has a huge damage to her reputation which is very problematic for an SP. It's tricky.
I agree... if she is a member here, it would show a lot of merit and valor for her to let us know her side of it, here on the forums. Then again, I do respect if she wants to keep the issue private. You are handling this well (way better than I would), and I respect you - even considering the circumstances that left you short-changed - for giving her the benefit of the doubt.
Your idea of a resolution is more than fair, if you ask me. I'm less forgiving than you, so for me, the damage is done. But as I said, for your sake, I hope you get some kind of compensation. Good luck, Fargy.