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    Still learning what upscale really is.

    So today I got ghosted by a traveling lady. Someone I had prebooked in at least a week in advanced. Now I thought traveling lady’s appreciated prebookings as it shows weather the trip would really be worth it. So like I said. Prebooked and then the day before confirmed for when to txt the next day to confirm the appointment. Got a reply with how long before appointment she wanted a confirmation I was going to show. So I followed all the rules everything to a T. And well got ghosted. Then see her post on LL a half hour after said appointment. Now I’ve seen this lady once before and everything went fantastic. Good chemistry and everything. Am always polite and kind. Now I had reviewed her last time I saw her. And left a raving review. She is amazing at what she does. One of the best when it comes to playing in the sheets. I haven’t been doing this all that long. But am now starting to figure out that just because a sp is a magician with what she does doesn’t really hit the bar of being a upscale provider. Well at least I didn’t have to send a deposit that I lost out on so could be worse. I leave this as I’ve always said. I take the whole experience into account. And that starts with the communication. Guess I still have a bit to learn. Wish I would have booked someone else now. Probably won’t book in the future. How’s that go. Fool me once shame on me. Fool me twice. Fool won’t get fooled again. Anyway there’s my rant. Enjoy the rain.

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    Intersting. Want to know who it is? DM?

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    Just because they claim to be a high end provider, means nothing from past experience.
    I've been stood up last minute by them as well. Heck i booked one two weeks in advance once, because I was going to be in the city on business. She then confirmed with me a day before to make sure that our date was still on, and I assured her it was.
    When i tried her an hour before to get the address...crickets.
    I tried twice more over the next hour...nothing...
    Hours past our appointment time, I got a text from her saying that she was now ready...I didn't even respond.
    I've had so many flakes I couldn't begin to keep track of them all...supposedly high end girls, are no different than the $150/hour girls in this respect.
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    Yeh. If u want to know who. Just pm me. If you’ve ever read anything I write I don’t normally broadcast the lady’s name as it is their livelihood so out of respect I don’t sorry guys but I will answer the messages

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blowy82 View Post
    Yeh. If u want to know who. Just pm me. If you’ve ever read anything I write I don’t normally broadcast the lady’s name as it is their livelihood so out of respect I don’t sorry guys but I will answer the messages
    I don't understand. She didn't respect you by ghosting, you don't owe her any respect in return. You shouldn't be concerned with her livelihood, she obviously isn't if she's not going to honor her appointments. The spirit of this forum is to offer your experiences whether good or bad so other members can make informed decisions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blowy82 View Post
    ...How’s that go. Fool me once shame on me. Fool me twice. Fool won’t get fooled again. Anyway there’s my rant. Enjoy the rain.
    I get what you mean. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
    Even though there are days I wish I could change some things that happened in the past, there’s a reason the rear view mirror is so small and the windshield is so big, where you’re headed is much more important than what you’ve left behind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grizzly View Post
    I don't understand. She didn't respect you by ghosting, you don't owe her any respect in return. You shouldn't be concerned with her livelihood, she obviously isn't if she's not going to honor her appointments. The spirit of this forum is to offer your experiences whether good or bad so other members can make informed decisions.
    Well u say I don’t owe her respect. But the fact of the matter is. I just give a certain amount of respect in the world of all this because it’s a very sensitive industry. Given what these lady’s do. I didn’t say I wouldn’t share her man and have answered a lot of pm’s today. Not all of us need to be shown respect in order to give it. That’s where my standards are at. And will stay.

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    It’s sad thi happened to you.i wonder she may had a wellied reason should have been communicated to yuh. That would have been more courteous

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    I have had same experience.
    These can very quickly deteriorate into he said/she said.
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    While there are a few "High End" ladies out there who provide a session sent from heaven, this has unfortunately become a very generic term used by SP's who basically charge a lot. LOL!
    In most cases you'll be very disappointed.
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    It is when a Butcher puts her thumb on the edge of the scale when weighing your salami. The price is higher, and often . . . like a scale, it seems very mechanical. In the end you still get screwed and wonder why you chose upscale over the Provider in your community whose reputation is built on service.
    I would choose Classy Intelligent and Respectable over Upscale, every time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jethro Bodine View Post
    While there are a few "High End" ladies out there who provide a session sent from heaven, this has unfortunately become a very generic term used by SP's who basically charge a lot. LOL!
    In most cases you'll be very disappointed.
    Isn't that the truth.
    I've been sucked into paying for the really expensive ones, terrible service from some stuck up hag is what it got me.
    $350/hour is my maximum and it has to include everything!
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    I think Mr Blowy was describing the experience of having someone you thought you could depend on do a 180.

    It happens sometimes and is hard to take. It can be devastating depending on how well you thought you knew them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by westwoody View Post
    I think Mr Blowy was describing the experience of having someone you thought you could depend on do a 180.

    It happens sometimes and is hard to take. It can be devastating depending on how well you thought you knew them.
    That’s exactly correct and though I haven’t seen her enough to had a good reference to her “norm” I think this type of thing is likely out of character for her. Another reason I didn’t mention her name as past reviews would speak volumes to this one incident. People make mistakes. Life isn’t perfect so if ur thinking anything that will come up in this fantasy land we have here is perfect then keep looking.

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