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    What to expect on a first visit.

    Hello,

    I am going on my first visit to a SP, and I was wondering what I should expect. From the first greeting to the end. I know the common sense stuff, of don't be an ass/rude/disrespectful. But the things like, the business part, after the first introductions, how soon to offer donations? Is there small talk, and how much have you found there to be? Do we discuss what we're looking for in the visit? what do I call a visit? Incall, Outcall, request your company? What's a good amount of time to spend with a lady on the first visit? 1 hr/90 mins/ 2 hrs??

    If a SP could give me there POV, that would be nice as well as from a customers.

    Thank you.

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    What to expect on a first visit

    Hello,

    I am going on my first visit to a SP, and I was wondering what I should expect. From the first greeting to the end. I know the common sense stuff, of don't be an ass/rude/disrespectful. But the things like, the business part, after the first introductions, how soon to offer donations? Is there small talk, and how much have you found there to be? Do we discuss what we're looking for in the visit? what do I call a visit? Incall, Outcall, request your company? What's a good amount of time to spend with a lady on the first visit? 1 hr/90 mins/ 2 hrs??

    If a SP could give me there POV, that would be nice as well as from a customers.

    Thank you.

    PS: I also posted this in the Lounge, and I apologize if there is already a thread, but I couldn't find one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelAngus View Post
    Hello,

    I am going on my first visit to a SP, and I was wondering what I should expect. From the first greeting to the end. I know the common sense stuff, of don't be an ass/rude/disrespectful. But the things like, the business part, after the first introductions, how soon to offer donations? Is there small talk, and how much have you found there to be? Do we discuss what we're looking for in the visit? what do I call a visit? Incall, Outcall, request your company? What's a good amount of time to spend with a lady on the first visit? 1 hr/90 mins/ 2 hrs??

    If a SP could give me there POV, that would be nice as well as from a customers.

    Thank you.

    This might point You in the right direction .

    https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...-point-of-view

    Welcome to the Board !

    We look forward to your 1st Review .

    Cheers

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    If you are going to a non-Asian independent sp, this is what I suggest;

    Stay quiet and low profile while entering the incall. Knock very gently. Don't say a word till you are inside. She opens the door and stays behind it. Say hi. Read her body language. If she offers a hug, hug her back. Some just say hi and shake your hand. Don't force yourself on her. Small talk like how is your day going etc. I hand in money within a minute or two simply because I am getting old and I want to get it out of the way before my blood starts to gravitate towards my little brain.

    The way I do it is, I take out the cash and while she is looking, I place it on a table in clear view of her saying something like, "here is the donation" or something similar. Some girls are very specific e.g. they want you to put it in an envelope etc. But I did that only on my first trip. After that I just place the cash on a table. If you want you can have small talk. Wine is a good ice breaker. Ask her if she wants you to bring some wine. Sometime you make out a bit while you are having wine. But don't just pounce on her. Experienced ladies know what to do. Read her body language.

    She will ask, suggest you take a shower. Don't say no. Take a shower, clean thoroughly. You will find mouthwash on the sink. Make sure you use it and clean every possible private part you can. When you step out, chances are you would find her in the bedroom half undressed. Just join her and ... enjoy.

    Bottom line is respect her as a woman. Respect her boundaries. Don't be rude. If you want her to do something, ask her. Don't assume. If she says no, don't push it.

    Your body clock can easily tell you approximately how long you have been there, so ask her what time it is. Do not try to overstay. Veteran girls will hint that time is nearing. Jump in the shower and leave. The norm is that your time starts when she sends you the buzzer code and it ends when the scheduled time ends. Tip, if you feel she deserves it.

    Oh yes, last but not the least, write a review.

    If you are going to an Asian place ....... good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by take8easy View Post
    If you are going to a non-Asian independent sp, this is what I suggest;

    Stay quiet and low profile while entering the incall. Knock very gently. Don't say a word till you are inside. She opens the door and stays behind it. Say hi. Read her body language. If she offers a hug, hug her back. Some just say hi and shake your hand. Don't force yourself on her. Small talk like how is your day going etc. I hand in money within a minute or two simply because I am getting old and I want to get it out of the way before my blood starts to gravitate towards my little brain.
    The way I do it is, I take out the cash and while she is looking, I place it on a table in clear view of her saying something like, "here is the donation" or something similar. Some girls are very specific e.g. they want you to put it in an envelope etc. But I did that only on my first trip. After that I just place the cash on a table. If you want you can have small talk. Wine is a good ice breaker. Ask her if she wants you to bring some wine. Sometime you make out a bit while you are having wine. But don't just pounce on her. Experienced ladies know what to do. Read her body language.
    She will ask, suggest you take a shower. Don't say no. Take a shower, clean thoroughly. You will find mouthwash on the sink. Make sure you use it and clean every possible private part you can. When you step out, chances are you would find her in the bedroom half undressed. Just join her and ... enjoy.

    Bottom line is respect her as a woman. Respect her boundaries. Don't be rude. If you want her to do something, ask her. Don't assume. If she says no, don't push it.

    Your body clock can easily tell you approximately how long you have been there, so ask her what time it is. Do not try to overstay. Veteran girls will hint that time is nearing. Jump in the shower and leave. The norm is that your time starts when she sends you the buzzer code and it ends when the scheduled time ends. Tip, if you feel she deserves it.

    Oh yes, last but not the least, write a review.

    If you are going to an Asian place ....... good luck!
    Absolutely perfect advice!

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    Thank you, Vulva Man, for the link that was very helpful.

    Thank you, take8easy, for your experience and willingness to share that information to us rookies.

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    ... And spoil the fun? Rob you your courage and confidence?

    Seriously though, in my opinion the fun is in facing whatever fears you have with your heart beating out your chest, your pants are around your ankles, and no idea what's going to happen next. Choose a safe environment, a well reviewed SP, muster some courage and have fun my boy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by take8easy View Post
    If you are going to a non-Asian independent sp, this is what I suggest;

    Stay quiet and low profile while entering the incall. Knock very gently. Don't say a word till you are inside. She opens the door and stays behind it. Say hi. Read her body language. If she offers a hug, hug her back. Some just say hi and shake your hand. Don't force yourself on her. Small talk like how is your day going etc. I hand in money within a minute or two simply because I am getting old and I want to get it out of the way before my blood starts to gravitate towards my little brain.

    The way I do it is, I take out the cash and while she is looking, I place it on a table in clear view of her saying something like, "here is the donation" or something similar. Some girls are very specific e.g. they want you to put it in an envelope etc. But I did that only on my first trip. After that I just place the cash on a table. If you want you can have small talk. Wine is a good ice breaker. Ask her if she wants you to bring some wine. Sometime you make out a bit while you are having wine. But don't just pounce on her. Experienced ladies know what to do. Read her body language.

    She will ask, suggest you take a shower. Don't say no. Take a shower, clean thoroughly. You will find mouthwash on the sink. Make sure you use it and clean every possible private part you can. When you step out, chances are you would find her in the bedroom half undressed. Just join her and ... enjoy.

    Bottom line is respect her as a woman. Respect her boundaries. Don't be rude. If you want her to do something, ask her. Don't assume. If she says no, don't push it.

    Your body clock can easily tell you approximately how long you have been there, so ask her what time it is. Do not try to overstay. Veteran girls will hint that time is nearing. Jump in the shower and leave. The norm is that your time starts when she sends you the buzzer code and it ends when the scheduled time ends. Tip, if you feel she deserves it.

    Oh yes, last but not the least, write a review.

    If you are going to an Asian place ....... good luck!
    This is basically everything but I’ll add this- be yourself.

    If you feel nervous- say so in an honest way. If you feel intimidated because she’s beautiful and staring at you in a way you rarely experience- give her a compliment.

    On my first date what broke the ice was the lady gently touching my hand and holding it. That was the start of the magic, do the same to start yours. For the shower, ask her before she asks you, ‘may I jump in the shower to freshen up please?’ Then make yourself squeaky clean particular your crotch, balls and penis and ass crack. Do it twice! An extra minute in the shower is not going to ruins a session.

    One more thing- if she kisses you don’t stick your tongue down her throat.

    PS

    If you shoot early- it’s all good. If you can’t shoot at all it’s totally normal don’t fuss, don’t panic. Just ask her if she can help you do it together. Some of my best orgasms have been that way and just as hot.

    Be kind, then be kinder and after ask her if she wants a review and how detailed it can be. Be the client every lady wants and you will really enjoy your time with them.

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    2 rules : make sure they are not a cop or party friendly .

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    With sufficient funds and the resources of this board, you shouldn't have trouble finding a good sp who will give you an enjoyable experience. No directions needed. Only rule I would venture is: Don't delay the transaction of business. Once you've said hello and perhaps taken off your shoes, pay the fee.
    If you want to be a bit classier about it, put it in an envelope before you get there. You might even put it on a hall table and say (so there's no missing it), "This is for you. I'm just going to go wash my hands." Then, they know they're paid, you've left them time to count it, and they know your hands are going to be clean when you touch them. Nice move.

    If, on the other hand, you don't have a pile of money to waste, I'll offer a different rule and one bit of advice.
    Advice: Don't go more than an hour. I wouldn't even do that. 30 minutes is enough for kissing, undressing, and sex. Unless this sp makes explicit that it's massage as well, I would stick to 30 min for any first visit. -- A good massage can justify an hour or more. Or, if you're a multi-shot guy, and the sp promises MSOG, then don't let me hold you back. Otherwise, why fork over more than $200 for something that may be effectively over in 10 minutes?
    The rule--again, if you DON'T have money to burn, and so you're not choosing exclusively from the more expensive and most reputable sps--would be: Hold on to your money for about 90 seconds when you first enter. Smile and say hello, ask her how she's doing, take your shoes off, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom...and when you're in the bathroom, ask yourself: Is this what I came for? If something is off, just walk.
    It could be that she's twitching, that you don't like how she looks, that she's not the girl in the picture, that she's acting rude or uninterested (big red flag!), that the place is filthy, etc. Whatever it may be, you have a right to walk away.
    You probably won't do this on your first session, and if you pick right you won't have any reason or wish to. But you should be prepared to stand up for what you want and leave situations you don't want to be in. The way to make this easy is to hold on to the "donation" for a minute, in order to give yourself time to assess those first impressions. Once you've handed it over, you've lost your leverage.
    As to the rest, girls are different--you'll find out!
    Last edited by Beastie; 09-11-2019 at 04:33 PM.

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    First off, amazing advice, you all sound like wonderful gentlemen

    As for duration, incall/outcall and discussing details those are all personal preference.

    Most ladies prefer incall as it allows them to get their space and “supplies” in order, same with discussing details before the get together, some things take some extra preparation and discussing them once you are there simply won’t do If you like small talk, maybe a drink, long passionate foreplay and a good connection before the “main event” 2hrs is probably best. And of course... don’t be a hero no toftt until you have some experience under your belt. The last bit of advice I have, when you contact the lady simply tell her you have never done this before, I am sure she will happily guide you through it in a way that makes you both comfortable.

    Xo
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    Quote Originally Posted by KinkyKatey View Post
    bit of advice I have, when you contact the lady simply tell her you have never done this before, I am sure she will happily guide you through it in a way that makes you both comfortable.

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    I had My First meeting last weekend . We met for Dinner first , Ms wanted drinks only but my timing put me in no drink without food !!!
    The Lady picked the spot , I reviewed the menu on the web , good for me to eat , we had a great meal and chat , way long say 1,5 hr + just being us !
    Then the Lady said this is my Addy and push ### in 20 mins so Im ready ,, I had NO IDEA what was to happen ,, Ms Lady knew i was lost and had not traveled this route , Door opened as above posted , then as above posted ,showered with warm towels (WOW ) Im not shy to naked, seen 60+ years 3 holes in me externally inflected , many broken bones, As for the rest , I have NEVER experience the rest , My review / comment was yes she is a real lady , and is not a bot .
    The rest is a Kiss & Tell as I see it .
    What I experienced was between us , so yours might vary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelAngus View Post
    Thank you, Vulva Man, for the link that was very helpful.

    Thank you, take8easy, for your experience and willingness to share that information to us rookies.

    You're very welcome !

    I should have included this, to improve your chances of a successful 1st Visit !

    https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...t-The-Mustard-!

    In my experience, 1st impressions set the Stage, for wonderful possibilities !

    Good luck !

    Cheers

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