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What have you learned

jgg

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Apr 14, 2015
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That I have much to learn.
 

AMG-GTR

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I learned that people can really meet in this hobby, fall in love, and become happy and fulfilled.

I learned that most of the girls in this business aren’t at all the stereotypes that society often places on them.

I learned that my lust for sex is tied more to the emotional desire to be of importance and meaning to another human being.

I learned that looks matter but attitude trumps all.

I’ve learned that Im a very broken soul.
 

tvman

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Jan 24, 2019
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I learned that I am not as undesirable as I think I am

I learned how to really budget my money, because now I have a realistic goal in meeting a great SP. I no longer just spend with a semi-reckless abandonment.

I learned that an escort is mostly not a woman in fishnet stockings, standing on a street corner, with a raspy voice, and riddled with diseases. They are strong, independent business women who loves what they do and take care of themselves so they can take care of their clients.

And most importantly, I learned that if an SP is well reviewed, and has a good social media presence, she can ask for a deposit for her time, and the proper thing for me to do is PAY THE FUCKING DEPOSIT!!!
 

ExpCharlee

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May 17, 2018
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How about you start first and tell us , what have you learned since SP?
I've learned that intimacy can be a tool for healing: both for my clients, and for myself. I've unlearned some sexual trauma and hangups since becoming an SP and am so much more comfortable with myself, and in my relationships to others.
 

Flashmp

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Jul 25, 2016
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Never piss an sp off. She’ll tell all her friends ☹. Be kind, honesty and caring they are the best at what they do... you treat them right.... they’ll treat you right it’s just that easy..
 

Gardener

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May 9, 2017
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Attitude over everything (both client and SP)
I prefer GND’s
GFE over PSE
Initial communication is such a tell, good and bad
So many wonderful SP’s out there
Listening is sexy
I’ve never had a bad experience and I credit this board for that.
 

Lo-ki

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Jul 18, 2011
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Check your closet..:)
When I come home....my cat still loves me and doesn't talk back.
 

jgg

In the air again.
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Varies now

lostviking

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May 5, 2014
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If it seems real, she was just good at her job
 

Amuse0ne

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Jun 29, 2015
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What's the most important thing you've gained from pooning/what's the most valuable lesson one (or many) SPs have taught you?
What I've learned is that it's bitter sweet, I've wouldn't trade anything for the experiences I've had with the sirens here. Yet It will never replace the intimacy that was lost with the woman I love.

note I wrote this immediately after watching the series finale of GOT.
 

felixthecat

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It will never replace the intimacy that was lost with the woman I love.

note I wrote this immediately after watching the series finale of GOT.
(spoiler warning - highlight to see)

<FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: black">Apparently, you need more coin for brothels.</font>
 

Evelyn Rose

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Oct 26, 2018
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What's the most important thing you've gained from pooning/what's the most valuable lesson one (or many) SPs have taught you?
I’m answering from a Service Provider perspective because I LIKE THIS QUESTION! :)

I learned that communication is sexy, and turns me on. I love that openness and honesty, especially when it comes to pleasure.
I had someone write a review (back in my first few months in this industry as a learning masseuse) where there were a lot of assumptions made about what I offer. Had this person done his research —or hey, communicated with me prior to our booking regarding what he was looking for— that probably would’ve gone a lot differently for him. But closed mouths don’t get fed, sadly. If you don’t tell us, we don’t know. Use your words :)
Communication is sexy! Communication is key! It makes for a deeply delicious experience...
 

JM2018

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Nov 4, 2018
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That a fulfilling experience has nothing to do with physical type or certain acts, but trust. I see a very short list of providers (you, Carmen Shakti, Elsi). They are all fairly different in appearance, personality and restrictions. However, they are all people whom I feel comfortable with at all times. People whom I trust and respect, and who in turn respect me.
 

JimDandy

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Always be kind.......... this isn't the easiest gig in the world.

Peace
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I agree !!!

I cannot believe how many times at the end of a date with an SP they will remark something like "you are really nice!". Each time I hear it I am surprised, not because I don't believe I treated the lady with respect, but that the lady implies that I am the exception rather than the rule. As I usually remark back after receiving such a complement "why would I not be nice considering that you are providing such a personal service and have done your best to make me happy?".

JD
 
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