Some people have their favorites that they would go see on a regular basis. It pays off in the long run in the kind of services that you receive. But also, there's more of a connection between the two of you, some sort of synergy that plays off each other.
I just found out over the weekend that my regular has moved out of town, without notice. Now, it's her perogative to do so without mention. Maybe she just thought of me as a "client" and nothing more. Don't get me wrong, I didn't have any intentions of dating her outside of our poon relationship. But there was something more there, that I felt at least, and I felt that that feeling was mutual.
Now that she's gone, it's back to the drawing board again, trying to find that connection with someone who can be thought of as a regular. I think that being a regular is more than just physical. It's also enjoying her company on a conversational level. Remember that episode of Seinfeld where Jerry's dating some hot woman, only to be repulsed by her mentally? Same thing here. How can you keep on pooning someone who you just can't stand mentally?
Anyways, enough ranting. Any recommendations on someone who you think makes a good regular?
I just found out over the weekend that my regular has moved out of town, without notice. Now, it's her perogative to do so without mention. Maybe she just thought of me as a "client" and nothing more. Don't get me wrong, I didn't have any intentions of dating her outside of our poon relationship. But there was something more there, that I felt at least, and I felt that that feeling was mutual.
Now that she's gone, it's back to the drawing board again, trying to find that connection with someone who can be thought of as a regular. I think that being a regular is more than just physical. It's also enjoying her company on a conversational level. Remember that episode of Seinfeld where Jerry's dating some hot woman, only to be repulsed by her mentally? Same thing here. How can you keep on pooning someone who you just can't stand mentally?
Anyways, enough ranting. Any recommendations on someone who you think makes a good regular?