Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 26

Thread: Have I worn out my welcome here?

  1. #1

    Have I worn out my welcome here?

    Just wondering if it is still appropriate to be advertising here or not since I have been so outspoken?
    I always ask my clients where they found my ad and of late none are from perb.
    Just wanted some honest answers to an honest question so that I could make an informed decision with regards to finance and marketing?
    Hopefully without getting into a mud slinging session we can have an adult conversation?
    Before I am ousted, please know that I have appreciated and valued every client from perbs (unless you are of course the guy who tried to rob me I have, no idea where he came from).
    Laugh at your problems, everyone else does.

  2. #2
    I only discovered you because of perb recently, and hoping to meet you in the near future. Not sure if one person's feedback is much help but here it is.

  3. #3
    That helps very much! I always advocate new clients who are like babes in the forest to come to perbs for providers because of this community and its ability to weed out the fakes and the robbers and will continue to do so despite the low client count
    Laugh at your problems, everyone else does.

  4. #4
    I also discovered you here as well and it sounds like most of your reviews are positive. It makes me want to meet with you, so I do believe that it works. I hope this helps

  5. #5
    most? i have been waiting patiently for a negative since my start 6 months ago
    Laugh at your problems, everyone else does.

  6. #6
    Registered User
    Join Date
    May 2018
    Location
    Everywhere in BC
    Posts
    190
    The only thing negative thing I can say, is that I haven't met you yet....:P

    But really, sifting through your post history, past your ads, I have to say I wouldn't label you as "outspoken".

    I come to PERB for insight on the trade scene in Vancouver. I love to hear from other clients and SPs who have opinions and insight to share, so it can help me with mine to make an informed choice. You're also well-reviewed and that's the kind of thing I come here to study up on, as I make my next flight-plan through the big city.

    I'd say nothing you've said in the past is a turn-off, imo.

  7. #7
    Many have worn out their welcome yet are still here. You're a paying member which buys you preferred status. Stick around put your feet up and get comfortable.

  8. #8
    I read a lot, maybe too much and I find it hard to be just seen and not heard. My thoughts are mine alone and do not force or judge as much as humanly possible. I admit that the overly liberal sensorization has gone way too far.. to the point where freedom of speech has taken a back seat in favor of feelings. I have been labeled a rasict mostly by white women and miss gender far too many folks.
    That being said I have pissed off a few home ice ladies who are telling regulars untruths that I refuse to give much more energy too. I was raised to believe that by defending yourself you only look more guilty.
    A rock and a hard place have nothing on me.
    Laugh at your problems, everyone else does.

  9. #9
    Abby. I found out about you on perb.I haven't seen u yet, but I definitely will. As I mentioned before hand. I get more into as the weather gets warmer and nicer. Late spring / summer is my time .

    Besides, I'm looking forward to my light fantasy play with u ��. If u recall it, that is . Dont be shy to pm me lol.

    Ps...a lot may not admit to you about perb because they don't want to reveal their handle name. That could be of many reasons. Just saying.G

    Good night.

    Ps....I love it that you are on perb. Hope you stay!!

  10. #10
    Ok.. luv 2 lick and you guys thank you. i am happy to be here.
    Laugh at your problems, everyone else does.

  11. #11
    Cunnilingus Connoisseur
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    The beautiful Fraser Valley !
    Posts
    1,066
    Quote Originally Posted by Abby Ryds View Post
    Just wondering if it is still appropriate to be advertising here or not since I have been so outspoken?
    I always ask my clients where they found my ad and of late none are from perb.
    Just wanted some honest answers to an honest question so that I could make an informed decision with regards to finance and marketing?
    Hopefully without getting into a mud slinging session we can have an adult conversation?
    Before I am ousted, please know that I have appreciated and valued every client from perbs (unless you are of course the guy who tried to rob me I have, no idea where he came from).

    Just my 2cents Abby...

    But, from my perspective, I too became aware of You through your PERB Ad !
    I loved this Ad, because I thought it was an interesting approach to marketing yourself.
    https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...oker-and-proud

    It also demonstrated to Me, You're a Woman, who's comfortable being yourself!
    Which is also appealing to Me .

    As far as being outspoken goes, I too again, haven't seen anything You've posted being a deterrent .

    As far as Handles go, I personally rarely use my PERB Handle for my introduction to a new Lady I intend to persue .

    I prefer to have fresh canvas, with no preconceived impressions, before my first Visit .
    Just repeating previous expressions, that lots of Perberts prefer not to use, or mention their Handle .

    I hope You continue to participate on the Board !

    It's just a matter of Time, if You're enjoying yourself, before You build up your regular Clientele .



    Hope it helps...

    Cheers
    Last edited by Mr Quim; 04-14-2019 at 09:25 AM. Reason: Typo

  12. #12
    I use Perb as a tool to cross reference. The more plastered all over the internet one one is, including Twitter, the more credible a girl is and cuts down the chances of an ambush, bait and switch, a total rip off, scam, etc. There is no way in hell I would meet a LL girl if that was the only place I could find her.

    My MO to find an SP is to scan the plethora of LL ads, pick one that speaks to me that day, then start the cross referencing . I start with LL cause there is always something or someone new and interesting. Twitter is good too but it gets to be a bit of a convoluted endless wild goose chase and I always get distracted and redirected to something entirely different from my original mission. Twitter. Best used as another cross reference tool.

    The whole review process doesn't even make sense to me. I've trusted glowing reviews on here only to be utterly disgusted by what I see and/ or experience. Too many reviewers have hidden agendas or too many white knights doing there thing too. I take all reviews with a grain of salt and only rely on the ones that warm of total scams and rip offs trying to pass themselves as high class.

    I will tell you, yes I have seen you and followed this 'protocol' , so yes Perb does help. $ well spent

    It's true, a lot of guys wont tell you they found you on perb. I can see why. I won't and don't either. Why would one want to, I don't know. Isn't it all about being anonymous?

  13. #13
    Found you on LL, checked you out here. On my absolute must TDL. Can't wait but must.

  14. #14
    😎
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Lower Mainland, BC
    Posts
    680
    There has been some reluctance as of late, from members, to disclose that they are perb members. I certainly tend to avoid it and there have been a few threads about that recently.

    Perhaps perbites have been seeing you, but they just tell you they saw you on LL. I would.

    Also, I only found about you because of this thread - I'm tempted to see you now.

    cheers.

  15. #15
    Making memorabe moments
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Vancouver, BC
    Posts
    365
    Quote Originally Posted by WandErection View Post
    Also, I only found about you because of this thread - I'm tempted to see you now.
    +1

    Having said that, I don't hide the fact that I am a perb member. Despite it's weaknesses it has an important role for the "cross reference" capability mentioned above.

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •