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probably not the best place to ask this but does anyone have any tips on how to cut down on the whole pooning thing?

I've lately been spending $200-300 per week on this hobby and I'm not crazy well off to afford that much but it's very addicting and hard to quit.

I've tried leaving my debit card /cash at home but now SPs have been accepting credit card payment. I mostly see SPs because I've never had a gf/fwb and with summer coming around it's hard to resist when you see all the beautiful women out in dresses. I want to cut down to may once every couples months for a special occasion like my birthday etc
 
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It's natural to want sex and hard to cut back. You need other outlets. You should really try to work on dating, even if it comes with a lot of rejection. Join dating sites, take classes where women will be, join groups, teams, etc...
Porn, lots of porn. Nothing wrong with porn. Love Chaturbate.
Consider an escort to be a treat and figure out how often you can afford a treat. Once a month? 3 times a year? Then save up for those very special ladies.
 
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johnnydepth said:
It's natural to want sex and hard to cut back. You need other outlets. You should really try to work on dating, even if it comes with a lot of rejection. Join dating sites, take classes where women will be, join groups, teams, etc...
Porn, lots of porn. Nothing wrong with porn. Love Chaturbate.
Consider an escort to be a treat and figure out how often you can afford a treat. Once a month? 3 times a year? Then save up for those very special ladies.
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yeah I've been on tinder/bumble/pof etc but no luck unfortunately. I feel there's a lot more men vs. women on there

Been on chaturbate as well. I have my bday coming up in a few months but not sure if I can last that long without pooning. I started pooning about 8 years ago when I was 19 so I've never actually gotten it for "free"
 
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tobleroney said:
probably not the best place to ask this but does anyone have any tips on how to cut down on the whole pooning thing?

I've lately been spending $200-300 per week on this hobby and I'm not crazy well off to afford that much but it's very addicting and hard to quit.

I've tried leaving my debit card /cash at home but now SPs have been accepting credit card payment. I mostly see SPs because I've never had a gf/fwb and with summer coming around it's hard to resist when you see all the beautiful women out in dresses. I want to cut down to may once every couples months for a special occasion like my birthday etc
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$200 - $300 a week is $10,000 - $15,000 a year, and that's post tax money.
Masturbating to video porn is $0. Easy solution to impulse urges.

For the real thing, set up a date, say the 15th, of the month for every two months' indulgence for 45 minutes @ $140.
Six times a year. That'll cost you only $840.
 
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Maybe try one of these. https://sexdollcanada.com/

Not quite as responsive but she wont talk during the game and will always be ready to play at half time.

It is tough to book an sp right after emptying the tanks.. Porn can do similar. Then occasionally see the real deal..

But therapy towards having a real date/relationship is a great alternative to as Clementine mentioned.
 
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I hope you don't hit rock bottom- like cash advance on credit cards, home equity loans to pay for this.
My advice is to get a job for to pay for this hobby, like working weekends. That could pay for one trip to a AMP, every week.

After you see how hard it is to make money out there, you may just stop out of exhaustion. Having to work 2 days for 45 mins or 1 hr of fun is a chore.
 
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You might not like this answer but I find this a bit alarming. I think a worthwhile focus for you would be learning and building the social skills to make yourself appealing to women. There is no reason you couldn't be having intimate relationships with women outside of paying for it.

To get good at dating go out with anyone who says yes. Learn to have real conversations, learn what questions turn women on and turn women off. Practice being a fun and creative date. Women are super attracted to personality, kindness, fun guys, and those who offer something different than the piles of guys asking for pics or bringing up sex after 5 min of talking. But, only do this if you are capable of actually working on the social part rather then the fucking part. The only way to get comfortable on dates and flirting with women is by having lots of dates. Then you will be ready when your dream girl says yes to going on a date with you.

For the amount you spend on escorts, you could take girls out on lots of fun dates and be working on yourself at the same time.
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BC BABE - you've probably given Tobleroney the best advice he'll get anywhere. He may have to push himself a little bit but I think most girls are pretty good recognizing, accepting, and encouraging a guy who may be shy or unsure of himself.

Just "Do It ! " Tobleroney
 
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I agree with trying to find an outlet, but I don't recommend porn. I've been watching porn since I was a teenager and I'm in my mid 30s now. It messes up with your brain. You lose motivation to go out and do stuff and the worst part is having porn induced erectile dysfunction. I've been over 100 days without porn and masturbating and I feel way more motivated. Just like any addiction, it takes dedication and will power. If your goal is to slow down on the pooning, I wouldn't replace it with porn. Try to find some hobbies and join some social clubs or something. Good luck.
 
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honda761 said:
I hope you don't hit rock bottom- like cash advance on credit cards, home equity loans to pay for this.
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I've fired a few clients who've told me that they're (sincerely) going into debt because of their immoderate bookings. I don't want to be party to that kind of situation.
 
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This is tricky when you weigh the costs between dating and pooning. Being the guy, you are expected to pick up the bill when you ask a lady out. You're probably not going to get laid on the first date, or the second and maybe not the third. At $100 a date and going home with blue balls for a month leaves you $400 in the hole with no guarantee of sex. Pooning on the other hand, if you visit a well reviewed lady, you are pretty much guaranteed to enjoy yourself and get laid.

I'm no psychologist but my suggestion is to convert the ladies fee into hours you need to work less deductions in order to see her. If you earn $20/hr and pay 30% in deductions, you work almost 18 hours to see a $250 girl for an hour. That's almost half of a 40 hour work week.

Another method I have used is set up a separate bank account for entertainment. I am and always been a budgeter. Decide how many hours you are willing to give up towards this hobby (within reason) and transfer that amount into that account. When you have enough, decide on a lady.
 
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BC_BABE said:
You might not like this answer but I find this a bit alarming. I think a worthwhile focus for you would be learning and building the social skills to make yourself appealing to women. There is no reason you couldn't be having intimate relationships with women outside of paying for it.

To get good at dating go out with anyone who says yes. Learn to have real conversations, learn what questions turn women on and turn women off. Practice being a fun and creative date. Women are super attracted to personality, kindness, fun guys, and those who offer something different than the piles of guys asking for pics or bringing up sex after 5 min of talking. But, only do this if you are capable of actually working on the social part rather then the fucking part. The only way to get comfortable on dates and flirting with women is by having lots of dates. Then you will be ready when your dream girl says yes to going on a date with you.

For the amount you spend on escorts, you could take girls out on lots of fun dates and be working on yourself at the same time.
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I'd love that but I honestly never get dates. I was on bumble/tinder/pof etc, talk to girls in public etc but no luck. I dont want to approach girls in the gym . And being in Vancouver makes it tough to meet any girls. Most girls I've talk to already have BFs or just are not interested, otherwise I'd go on as many dates as possible
 
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tobleroney said:
I'd love that but I honestly never get dates. I was on bumble/tinder/pof etc, talk to girls in public etc but no luck. I dont want to approach girls in the gym . And being in Vancouver makes it tough to meet any girls. Most girls I've talk to already have BFs or just are not interested, otherwise I'd go on as many dates as possible
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Never say never man. Keep at the gym, be fit, be healthy. Be happy and be confident in yourself. Both men and women with these traits is what makes them attractive. Join a club, or social circle, open new avenues for yourself. Be with your friends, be with family. Do shit that makes you happy, and builds your personality. And put an effort into being good at it.
Seeing SPs is awesome, but it's addicting. It's all a mentality really. Don't look at it as you don't have luck with girls in public/ online dating. Look at it as they were not worthy of you. Plenty of fish in the sea, you'll find that girl soon. But to stand out, you gotta be selfish and focus on yourself first and nobody else.
One of the best mentalities in life is to not give a fuck, and just do what you want to do or work towards that certain goal.
 
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