Is it just this bad now, or am I doing something wrong?

Bullock

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Oct 7, 2014
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back around 2015, i rented some scuba gear with zero certification and just dove head first into this hobby. I took some FTT that I couldnt even admit that I did. I also rolled the dice on many other occasions, had some amazing experiences, met some absolutely perfect girls, and also traded stories with some of the most interesting people I'd ever met. $50k later, between girls, booze and nose beers that year, I had no choice but to call it quits. I've been bait and switched, robbed, hell I've even had a girl show up, paid her half her rate just to leave, and then flushed the other half down the toilet just to punish myself. I've done reputable girls on an air mattress in the basement of an abandoned house that I had moved out of a month before. I've traded my ex GFs watch and makeup bag for FS with to reputable providers. I've had high end girls beg me for BBFS and then not let me pay a dime afterwards. And no, not gnarsty slags. Hot girls. Was it a bad idea. Probably. But In that second...well kinda tough to say no... I've hosted 2 girls in one day at a hotel, then checked out . And on my way home, decided to do a quick incall with a 3rd girl, just to see the 2 girls from earlier that day sitting on the couch when I walked in. Give em a wink, go upstairs and bonk their friend. I have booked girls in my parents basement. I had a girl shoot meth into her jugular in my hotel room. I've had them crawl through windows at house parties. I've humiliated girls who show up not as pictured and still want their money. I've also stood up for girls who have ended up in a multiple guy, one girl situation that they weren't anticipating. And I've paid girls when my loser friends try to short them. Ive taken my chances on a lot of new girls, no reviews etc that turned out to be beyond perfect, but just not cut out to carry on in the industry. I've met girls that turned into friends. , and I still probably owe my life to one girl who actually convinced me to get some help and get my life together. And I can't get ahold of her to thank her.

Now 4 years later, I'm not that person anymore,. I am trying to dip my toes back into the water but I cant just play Russian roulette or roll the dice like I used to. BP used to be my go to spot. I'd win some, I'd lose some, but the options were there and overall it was reliable. Even attractive touring girls posted on BP and I booked with many that way with fairly good success. I have standards ,and I'm picky, but there still used to be enough options to fit the bill, and now nothing.

LL and EB seem like I may as well be bobbing for 1 apple in a 40 gallon drum blindfolded. I cant justify paying to be with someone who I wouldnt even take home from the bar for free otherwise. I like thin, white/caucasian girls under 30 with a pretty face and loose morals. Hell I used to be able to throw a stick of dynamite into PoF and watch em float to the surface. Now anyone over 6/10 thinks they should be paid to be dated and are getting dicked out by 65 year old divorced car salesmen to pay their way through school.

Like is there something I'm missing as a directory or listings page? Or did things just get this shitty while I got 4 years older?
 

nearandfar

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Feb 13, 2015
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Bill C-36 was very disruptive to the local market. There were a lot of SPs (and clients for that matter) that got scared by its introduction and bowed out. Then FOSTA in the US had its effect here too. Beyond that, it seems that locally the pimps/catty SPs/flaky clients are effective at disrupting the legit providers with fake bookings and no shows. Enough so, that the city has a reputation with traveling providers and has become a flyover city for some.

Thanks sharing your story though. Sounds like you had an adventure.
 

johnnydepth

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Nov 14, 2015
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I've been out for a couple of years, don't think there is anything left for me to do in this hobby. That said, the only place I would look is here on Perb. Several solid choices in the city right now.
 

Jethro Bodine

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IMHO the biggest change/challenge pooners have is the involvement of the internet over the past few years
As with anything there is good and bad about the "interweb."
On one hand it does allow for improved advertising and information on SP's, especially the top end travelling gals.
The bad is that any Hood Rat with a mattress on the floor of a inner city boarding house and a cell phone suddenly thinks they are a high end escort.
Add to that the pimps and gangs, who have always been part of this but in earlier days more so involved in the street trade, it does make things frustrating for some.
It certainly makes things more challenging especially if you are the type of pooner who likes to see different ladies and not necessarily stick with the providers you know.

This hobby can still provide some wonderful experiences and even friendships but one does have to be much more selective and do your due diligence.
Now more than ever, it is very important to use image search functions, only see ladies with good reviews from reputable boards/members and once you've found a gem or 2 or 3, stick with them.

Cheers
J
 

LovinDATY

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Feb 6, 2019
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Bullock, wow, that is one amazing adventure! I am new to the hobby so I'm not sure what to expect... wish I had started this years ago, when I was always thinking about it but never pulled the trigger... and seems like I'm just catching the tail-end of it all...

I have always feared of it being police stings or setups, scams or being jumped, which prevented me for too long before I dived in, but forums like these helps a lot and eased me into finally diving in...
Another fear would be walking into an SP's room, and it's someone you know, or worst family! :p

But I have seen a few SPs, and a few that were amazing, and some just ok... just hoping as my experience with more of these SPs will open more doors to some higher classy ladies, but the prices seem so out of reach almost... But I have found a few SPs that are becoming regulars and 1 so far that has been my ATF...

I'm at the age where going to the bars picking up girls isn't as it used to be, and resorting to escorts and SPs seem like an easier for sure option now LoL
I just hope I don't dive for too deep and too long, and hope it's just a temporary experience to live out a few fantasies before my time comes, YOLO :p
I guess compared to a lot of others being 40 is still young, but losing hair and confidence kills your game as you get older and not as easy as 20 years ago... :p

I sometimes get wooshed away with some experiences with certain SPs that it seems like we bond and have this connection with one another, feel like you known the person forever and wanna be together and run off, but then reality is - you are paying them and they are just providing that experience to a realization that its not real, they're just working for your money and for you to keep coming back...

And on that note, I still enjoy my time with them, so much so that you want to tell everyone like your friends/family about the experiences but you can't, keeping it discreet is like living another life, you're own secret, living a fantasy that you enjoy for yourself along with the SPs that are now in your life but separated from the rest... but its nice to get away in both mind and body, just making sure to not mix or entwine them together... for the better part :)
 

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