So I've been having this conversation with an ex SP (lets call her E) who has long since moved on from this industry. Essentially, right now there are two girls in my life. One an former SP (lets call her A)that I've seen regular for years that retired, moved back home and looking to find a husband (not for financial support). The other is a girl is a girl I've met off one of the dating websites (lets call her N).
So from my conversation with E, she asked me bluntly "How would you rate the sex with A?" I told her that the sex was amazing and we connected on a very intimate level. She told me that it's just the level of service she provides that's why the sex was the way it was. I was a bit skeptical of her answer as I've been in this hobby long enough to see the difference between great service and a genuine connection. I've seem gems that everyone's bragged about (ie Swan, Milky, Candy) and the service was great, but there wasn't a connection.
E also told me some other stuff about not dating a former SP but I won't get into it unless people want more details.
I've had two dates with N and she's quite different. She's Chinese, family oriented, similar life history like me, she's quite religious, but she doesn't have the body type of the Swan, Milky, Candy, Vivi or Sally.
Anyways, E stated that the girl you enjoy sleeping with isn't going to the same type of girl you'd want to marry. I've never understood that since I've dated girls that were marriage material but I've never could connected with on an sexual intimate level.
I'm curious from those of us that are older, do you still believe you'll find someone you'll connect with intimately and with long term marriage material?
So from my conversation with E, she asked me bluntly "How would you rate the sex with A?" I told her that the sex was amazing and we connected on a very intimate level. She told me that it's just the level of service she provides that's why the sex was the way it was. I was a bit skeptical of her answer as I've been in this hobby long enough to see the difference between great service and a genuine connection. I've seem gems that everyone's bragged about (ie Swan, Milky, Candy) and the service was great, but there wasn't a connection.
E also told me some other stuff about not dating a former SP but I won't get into it unless people want more details.
I've had two dates with N and she's quite different. She's Chinese, family oriented, similar life history like me, she's quite religious, but she doesn't have the body type of the Swan, Milky, Candy, Vivi or Sally.
Anyways, E stated that the girl you enjoy sleeping with isn't going to the same type of girl you'd want to marry. I've never understood that since I've dated girls that were marriage material but I've never could connected with on an sexual intimate level.
I'm curious from those of us that are older, do you still believe you'll find someone you'll connect with intimately and with long term marriage material?