As we can see by the posts....different strokes for different folks lol. It's like Relax10 says....treat people as you would like to be treated. No need to be over dramatic, as its not exactly a life changing decision for either party involved. If the sp blacklists you then that is her decision to make. Stuff happens spur of the moment in all of our lives, you never know what's going on in someone's elses. Just suppose for a moment, they were surfing facebook and just found out the mother of their best friend during childhood, almost a second mother at that time, had decided to end her life after battling cancer for years (yes this actually happened to me very recently and I cancelled on an sp). Now, I had probably spoken to this women maybe a dozen times in the past 25 years, but I wouldn't expect anybody to judge my need to mourn her passing. Anyway, does this mean I should quit seeing sp's all together? No, I don't think so. Sometimes I actually just don't want to have sex anymore..I know....crazy right? If this feeling comes around EVERY time you book an sp then yes.....maybe think twice about what you're doing.