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do you ever book in advance and then don't feel like it on the day of the meeting?

Chessmen

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do you call it off or still go through with it? reason being you aren't in the mood anymore or simply don't feel like it at that moment
 

uncleg

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Still go.....I may be eating out, but unlike a popular restaurant I doubt there's a line up of customers waiting and hoping a reservation will cancel. The ladies are in business after all and why should they take a loss just because I had a shitty day and wasn't in the mood.
 

Chacha

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Almost every time. I find the anticipation so nerve racking I feel like canceling. But I always go, out of respect of the provider and my sexual urges (obviously). Generally I am glad I have gone and sometimes it isn’t as satisfying as I would like. But that being said, the letdown is probably from my anticipation.
 
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Andrew69913

I don't always go for FS when this "mood" change comes about, but unless I'm sick or something I will go and pay for my scheduled hour, just to unload my brain on some poor unsuspecting woman rofl. Unless of course she has a laid out cancellation policy and I fall within the requirements of a "forgivable" cancellation then I might cancel. Depends on our relationship.
 

SkinnyJohn

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Can't book days in advance just because I might not be in the mood or something could come up at the last minute like getting sick, family member getting sick(kids/wife). I rather just book on the day of but I know sometimes it's impossible since some providers don't allow spontaneous bookings.
 

MissingOne

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Twice in my life I have booked several days in advance. The first time I did it, after a week of anticipation, I arrived in the vicinity, phoned for the address and got no answer. I tried calling several times over a half-hour period and still no answer. Transitioned to Plan B. The woman later told me in an email that she'd had too much to drink the day before and slept through all my attempts to call her. At least she was honest about it (I think).

The second time I booked days in advance, when I phoned the morning of to confirm, the woman told me she couldn't make the scheduled time. OK. Transitioned to Plan B again.

I've never been stood up when booking the day of. My modus operandi now is, I'm willing to book a few hours ahead, but always on the same day. Doing it that way, I've never found myself losing the desire to keep the appointment as time goes by.
 

tedsweettangv

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I used to have a standing appointment back in the day. Every Sunday afternoon. After a while it was going to visit a friend that you happen to have sex with. Those I didn't mind. The appointments that you book days or weeks in advance, and it is an SP you have never seen before or saw rarely, yes sometimes on the day I have not wanted to go. I went anyway. It probably coloured those sessions so while I didn't have a negative attitude toward the SP, I never repeated. Which I guess in a way is too bad because at the end of the day I would like to find another SP that I could book for a standing appointment once a week and maybe missed out because my mood wasn't right when I went.
 

masonjar

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I guess I book advance appt if it's a tour SP. If moody person then don't book ahead, you wasting someones time especially if they visiting, not cool.
 

lukom

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I don't book in advance for that reason. I always keep things same day, and try and give an hour notice for booking.
 

UhOh

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I'm amazed that some people books weeks in advance. Way too much can happen in that amount of time. The evening before is as early as I can commit to. That might not work for all girls and that's okay.
 

Relax10

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I have booked in advance a few days up to a week. So far I havent cancelled, I have been cancelled on early bookings. I get what the OP is saying. Heck this morning I had a SP booked a few days out and prior to seeing her I had to break up a fight that got way out of hand over something small. Tie ripped up, buttons on my suit broken, pulled something and upset as fuck. It was right after a client meeting and luckily they just left. I wasnt in the greatest mood and traffic on Burrard was all jacked up. However, I didnt want to cancel unless its a dyer emergency. And Im glad I didnt and it was a wonderful time, review to follow later. We expect SP's not to cancel on us but it happens, they expect us to make appointments but some cancel. Im a professional myself and would hate to be cancelled on. Plus I was being sent/referred to her by another SP and didnt want to make her look bad. Treat people as you'd like to be treated.
 

204fun

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I almost always book in advance, typically multiple days in advance or even at times a week or more. I usually book sessions during the day so by booking multiple days in advance it allows me more time to set up the reason why I am disappearing during the lunch hour for sometimes two hours at a time. I also like booking days in advance because it ensures that I get to see the SP that I am wanting to see at the time that works for me. I try to avoid booking same day appointments with ladies because I find in those situations I don't usually end up booking with the SP that I actually want to see, I just end up booking with whoever is available.

As far as the anticipation that comes with a session booked in advance, I personally love it and I have yet to have the day of a booked session arrive and not feel incredibly excited about what was to come. I know that sometimes things happen, but if I get to the point where I start to feel disinterested or disengaged leading up to a booked appointment I will probably start rethinking whether or not I need to continue seeing SP's.
 
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Andrew69913

As we can see by the posts....different strokes for different folks lol. It's like Relax10 says....treat people as you would like to be treated. No need to be over dramatic, as its not exactly a life changing decision for either party involved. If the sp blacklists you then that is her decision to make. Stuff happens spur of the moment in all of our lives, you never know what's going on in someone's elses. Just suppose for a moment, they were surfing facebook and just found out the mother of their best friend during childhood, almost a second mother at that time, had decided to end her life after battling cancer for years (yes this actually happened to me very recently and I cancelled on an sp). Now, I had probably spoken to this women maybe a dozen times in the past 25 years, but I wouldn't expect anybody to judge my need to mourn her passing. Anyway, does this mean I should quit seeing sp's all together? No, I don't think so. Sometimes I actually just don't want to have sex anymore..I know....crazy right? If this feeling comes around EVERY time you book an sp then yes.....maybe think twice about what you're doing.
 

ExpCharlee

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To be honest, if a client messaged me the day of and said "hey, I'm really not in the mood today, and I'm not sure I'll have the best time. Is there any way we could reschedule?" I'd for sure let him reschedule and not require another deposit.
 

westwoody

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I used to get that feeling because I was doing this way too often, once or twice a week at one point.
Cut way back, about once a month. Now each time is a big deal and eagerly anticipated.
You can overdo anything if you try.
 
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