For the ladies. Tongue or finger first?

westcoastrider1982 · Feb 11, 2019

Maybe all the beautiful ladies on here can chime in.

I absolutely love foreplay and giving women pleasure! Big fan of daty too!

I prefer to go slow, build up the desire etc!
When I eventually make my way down south I usually make sure my tongue is the first thing to explore down there/make contact with the love button. As opposed to running my fingers around down there....leave that work for my lips and tongue!

Just wondering ladies, your thoughts on this?

Part of my issue too is I have “worker’s hands” which are a little rough...my tongue is wet and soft!

Pit bull · Feb 11, 2019

westcoastrider1982 said:
Maybe all the beautiful ladies on here can chime in.

I absolutely love foreplay and giving women pleasure! Big fan of daty too!

I prefer to go slow, build up the desire etc!
When I eventually make my way down south I usually make sure my tongue is the first thing to explore down there/make contact with the love button. As opposed to running my fingers around down there....leave that work for my lips and tongue!

Just wondering ladies, your thoughts on this?

Part of my issue too is I have “worker’s hands” which are a little rough...my tongue is wet and soft!

Money first

KinkyKatey · Feb 12, 2019

westcoastrider1982 said:
Maybe all the beautiful ladies on here can chime in.

I absolutely love foreplay and giving women pleasure! Big fan of daty too!

I prefer to go slow, build up the desire etc!
When I eventually make my way down south I usually make sure my tongue is the first thing to explore down there/make contact with the love button. As opposed to running my fingers around down there....leave that work for my lips and tongue!

Just wondering ladies, your thoughts on this?

Part of my issue too is I have “worker’s hands” which are a little rough...my tongue is wet and soft!

Go Westcoastrider! Sounds like you are doing it right to me. Though everyone has their own personal preference, I surely appreciate starting with oral.

Xo
Katey

westcoastrider1982 · Feb 13, 2019

KinkyKatey said:
Go Westcoastrider! Sounds like you are doing it right to me. Though everyone has their own personal preference, I surely appreciate starting with oral.

Xo
Katey

I presume when things are still “dry” down there, a soft wet tongue feels a lot better than a finger.
Would you say the finger is best left for g-spot stimulation?

With the ladies I also enjoy a bit of a modified reverse cowgirl, where the lady is essentially laying on top of me, partial penetration only with the head of junior popping in and out while I gently massage the clit...this bit of play has had some very good results for me!

Then of course full penetration for the final stretch of fun!

ExpCharlee · Feb 13, 2019

this sounds like a dream to me, honestly. it drives me crazy when i get teased slowly.

my biggest tip for fingers is ALWAYS make sure it's wet (let me lick that) and remember that the vaginal canal angles towards the back, it isn't completely straight so keep this in mind when exploring the garden of delight lol

westcoastrider1982 said:
Maybe all the beautiful ladies on here can chime in.

I absolutely love foreplay and giving women pleasure! Big fan of daty too!

I prefer to go slow, build up the desire etc!
When I eventually make my way down south I usually make sure my tongue is the first thing to explore down there/make contact with the love button. As opposed to running my fingers around down there....leave that work for my lips and tongue!

Just wondering ladies, your thoughts on this?

Part of my issue too is I have “worker’s hands” which are a little rough...my tongue is wet and soft!

westcoastrider1982 · Feb 14, 2019

clementinexoxo said:
this sounds like a dream to me, honestly. it drives me crazy when i get teased slowly.

my biggest tip for fingers is ALWAYS make sure it's wet (let me lick that) and remember that the vaginal canal angles towards the back, it isn't completely straight so keep this in mind when exploring the garden of delight lol

I absolutely love teasing women slowly!
Guess my main question is do women find caresses from finger tips pleasurable compared to tongue?
I’ve seen a few “educational” porn vids where the guy starts with his hands and fingers, then goes at it with his tongue!

I’m thinking forget about fingers down there on the outside all together and stick with tongue and lips only...yes?
Except for g spot stimulation while the tongue does the work on the outside!

ExpCharlee · Feb 14, 2019

We're all different, to be honest. The best thing is to ask "do you prefer finger or tongue?"
...for me, the answer is tongue :eyebrows:

westcoastrider1982 said:
I absolutely love teasing women slowly!
Guess my main question is do women find caresses from finger tips pleasurable compared to tongue?
I’ve seen a few “educational” porn vids where the guy starts with his hands and fingers, then goes at it with his tongue!

I’m thinking forget about fingers down there on the outside all together and stick with tongue and lips only...yes?
Except for g spot stimulation while the tongue does the work on the outside!

westcoastrider1982 · Feb 15, 2019

clementinexoxo said:
We're all different, to be honest. The best thing is to ask "do you prefer finger or tongue?"
...for me, the answer is tongue :eyebrows:

Thanks for the response!
I’m sorta asking the question now to all the ladies on perb!

Gets me excited hearing you’re responses actually lol!

ExpCharlee · Feb 15, 2019

gets me excited thinking about tongues, so this is a win/win really.

westcoastrider1982 said:
Thanks for the response!
I’m sorta asking the question now to all the ladies on perb!

Gets me excited hearing you’re responses actually lol!

Fiona · Feb 15, 2019

Kiss my neck . Bite my earlobes .. massage my kitty from the outside with the palm of your hand , make me want to be touched , beg for it .
Slide your fingers through my hotness & let me lick your fingers then bury your face ... IMO

xo f

westcoastrider1982 · Feb 15, 2019

Fiona said:
Kiss my neck . Bite my earlobes .. massage my kitty from the outside with the palm of your hand , make me want to be touched , beg for it .
Slide your fingers through my hotness & let me lick your fingers then bury your face ... IMO xo f

This definitely got my attention!
As did junior who’s standing at full salute!!

onslaught13 · Feb 18, 2019

Fiona said:
Kiss my neck . Bite my earlobes .. massage my kitty from the outside with the palm of your hand , make me want to be touched , beg for it .
Slide your fingers through my hotness & let me lick your fingers then bury your face ... IMO xo f

I think i just read the best romance novel! that was hawt!

PennyConors · Feb 21, 2019

westcoastrider1982 said:
Maybe all the beautiful ladies on here can chime in.

I absolutely love foreplay and giving women pleasure! Big fan of daty too!

I prefer to go slow, build up the desire etc!
When I eventually make my way down south I usually make sure my tongue is the first thing to explore down there/make contact with the love button. As opposed to running my fingers around down there....leave that work for my lips and tongue!

Just wondering ladies, your thoughts on this?

Part of my issue too is I have “worker’s hands” which are a little rough...my tongue is wet and soft!

IMO the one way that starting with fingers is good is if you've got her all comfortable and are going to slowly massage and tease her with oil/lube. Although knowing you have worker's hands is also important. I still think those are hot but true they can be a bit rough. I'd be happy to demonstrate on one of these lovely ladies... but other than that I agree the tongue first.

Bridge · Feb 21, 2019

Fiona said:
Kiss my neck . Bite my earlobes .. massage my kitty from the outside with the palm of your hand , make me want to be touched , beg for it .
Slide your fingers through my hotness & let me lick your fingers then bury your face ... IMO xo f

Your wishes are my commands.

techno1 · Feb 21, 2019

not all of the providers allow fingers. some lads try to just shove it in. depends what the provider will allow and how clean are they. back in the 90's at massage parlor store fronts in the states and uk you could try to go down but a lot of times they smelled like condoms and all kinds of funk. put your dick in covered sure. fuck id never go down on the providers in Mex ever unless it was a high end type and she was clean.

Mr Quim · Feb 22, 2019

Favor for a Friend...

Btw...why hasn’t anyone mentioned in the “Tongue or finger first?” thread that the MIND is the most powerful sex organ? �� I’m still in the penalty box so I can’t post in the thread myself.*

ps...I’m just bringing this up for conversation sake. Please don’t get confused. My restrictions have not changed.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?72-%26%23926%3B-Vancouver-%9B-Massage-Ads

Can hardly wait for April !

Cheers

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westcoastrider1982 · Feb 23, 2019

Vulva Man said:
Favor for a Friend...

Btw...why hasn’t anyone mentioned in the “Tongue or finger first?” thread that the MIND is the most powerful sex organ? �� I’m still in the penalty box so I can’t post in the thread myself.*

ps...I’m just bringing this up for conversation sake. Please don’t get confused. My restrictions have not changed.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?72-%26%23926%3B-Vancouver-%9B-Massage-Ads

Can hardly wait for April !

Cheers

P.S. https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...e-Overly-Sensitive-Please-Steer-Clear-!/page9

Post # 126

I was more asking about after all the pillow talk, kissing, foreplay etc.
I’m more asking what do women prefer being the first thing that touches the clit and vaginal lips finger or tongue?
I’ll usually run my finger tips all around but make sure my tongue is the first thing that hits the “Oh yes!!!” zone!

BIGOZZIE · Feb 24, 2019

Interesting how few of the regular ladies are commenting on this post. Maybe we should take a poll on how many SP''s actually like to get daty? My guess is they are in a minority.

ExpCharlee · Feb 24, 2019

I think it really varies. Some guys know what they're doing, some take direction well...some don't. I like DATY sometimes, and sometimes I hate it. Once a client left me with one of my inner lips so swollen it hung down several inches--even after I told him to be gentle he didn't listen, and I couldn't work for several days. Once, a client ate me out for an entire hour and I came over and over. It's really not just a *like it or don't like it* thing. <3

BIGOZZIE said:
Interesting how few of the regular ladies are commenting on this post. Maybe we should take a poll on how many SP''s actually like to get daty? My guess is they are in a minority.

Fiona · Feb 24, 2019

Yes & Yes !

it’s not a matter of “do we like it “ it depends how you do it ! I’ve had men brag about being the best pussy eaters so I better “be prepared “ lol and well ... let’s just say they don’t hit the “mark” .

clementinexoxo said:
I think it really varies. Some guys know what they're doing, some take direction well...some don't. I like DATY sometimes, and sometimes I hate it. Once a client left me with one of my inner lips so swollen it hung down several inches--even after I told him to be gentle he didn't listen, and I couldn't work for several days. Once, a client ate me out for an entire hour and I came over and over. It's really not just a *like it or don't like it* thing. <3

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