There are certain restriction and requirements that cause me to rule out an SP.
All SP's have their restrictions, but as pooners what are our rules or restrictions?
The first one is obvious in that if I detect an attitude or get a bad a vibe from my initial interaction I know not to further engage.
I understand that each SP has their rules about contacting them, reasonable things like no email, text only, or no blocked calls. However, where I draw the line is if I am required to straight up call an SP (where texting is not allowed). It doesn't make sense. I have almost always only ever booked via text as it allows me to be discrete and to get any questions answered prior to deciding if an SP isn't the type of services I may be into prior to a session. I shouldn't be expected to call unless I am officially booking, something I only do when I am 100% certain that I'll be seeing this person. I think texting should be fine in cases where I need to get some details clarified first before deciding if I want to book a session with a lady. I have actually refused to see quite a few SP's because of the fact that they were unwilling to answer some simple questions via text and expected me to call them to discuss these questions.
Too many restrictions or restrictions that don't make sense. I can handle no dfk in a session (thought I do prefer it), as one SP put it she wants to save kissing only for when she's in a relationship. However, I can't handle no daty or no bbbj on top of that. Also, I find it weird when an SP will let you DATO and DATY, but she will only offer CBJ. In my case I also don't believe in putting my mouth where my dick can't go, so if an SP allows DATO, but won't do Greek then I won't partake.
Anyone else have their personal rules and restrictions? We know there's the obvious case of avoiding SP's who offer BBFS.
EDIT: I also don't see SP's who are "party friendly" or come off as un-recovered drug addicts.
SP's have their restrictions, and should continue to. At the same time as paying customers we too have our own requirements and expectations, we're paying after all. Everything is always going to be YMMV and that's fine, but at the end we all have our own perception as to what makes an SP worth visiting.
When I generally text it's mostly because the SP doesn't have enough info on her ad to help me make my decision.
Information that I generally need to know (before booking) is:
1) Services, Rates, Restrictions. I like to know this so that I don't overstep any boundaries when it comes to services. I understand that YMMV come into play for certain services, but it's important to know everything.
2) Incall Locations (i.e. close to "such and such skytrain" or rough cross streets). This helps me plan my time accordingly when I book.
3) Amount of notice needed for a session, along with availability. I don't always book the same day that I inquire and will usually go out and see an SP a day or two after.
4) Height. I'm just under 5'7" and have an amputated leg, it makes things difficult in my case if a girl is significantly taller than me.
All SP's have their restrictions, but as pooners what are our rules or restrictions?
The first one is obvious in that if I detect an attitude or get a bad a vibe from my initial interaction I know not to further engage.
I understand that each SP has their rules about contacting them, reasonable things like no email, text only, or no blocked calls. However, where I draw the line is if I am required to straight up call an SP (where texting is not allowed). It doesn't make sense. I have almost always only ever booked via text as it allows me to be discrete and to get any questions answered prior to deciding if an SP isn't the type of services I may be into prior to a session. I shouldn't be expected to call unless I am officially booking, something I only do when I am 100% certain that I'll be seeing this person. I think texting should be fine in cases where I need to get some details clarified first before deciding if I want to book a session with a lady. I have actually refused to see quite a few SP's because of the fact that they were unwilling to answer some simple questions via text and expected me to call them to discuss these questions.
Too many restrictions or restrictions that don't make sense. I can handle no dfk in a session (thought I do prefer it), as one SP put it she wants to save kissing only for when she's in a relationship. However, I can't handle no daty or no bbbj on top of that. Also, I find it weird when an SP will let you DATO and DATY, but she will only offer CBJ. In my case I also don't believe in putting my mouth where my dick can't go, so if an SP allows DATO, but won't do Greek then I won't partake.
Anyone else have their personal rules and restrictions? We know there's the obvious case of avoiding SP's who offer BBFS.
EDIT: I also don't see SP's who are "party friendly" or come off as un-recovered drug addicts.
SP's have their restrictions, and should continue to. At the same time as paying customers we too have our own requirements and expectations, we're paying after all. Everything is always going to be YMMV and that's fine, but at the end we all have our own perception as to what makes an SP worth visiting.
When I generally text it's mostly because the SP doesn't have enough info on her ad to help me make my decision.
Information that I generally need to know (before booking) is:
1) Services, Rates, Restrictions. I like to know this so that I don't overstep any boundaries when it comes to services. I understand that YMMV come into play for certain services, but it's important to know everything.
2) Incall Locations (i.e. close to "such and such skytrain" or rough cross streets). This helps me plan my time accordingly when I book.
3) Amount of notice needed for a session, along with availability. I don't always book the same day that I inquire and will usually go out and see an SP a day or two after.
4) Height. I'm just under 5'7" and have an amputated leg, it makes things difficult in my case if a girl is significantly taller than me.
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