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    Restrictions and requirements by SP's that you cause you to rule them out

    There are certain restriction and requirements that cause me to rule out an SP.

    All SP's have their restrictions, but as pooners what are our rules or restrictions?

    The first one is obvious in that if I detect an attitude or get a bad a vibe from my initial interaction I know not to further engage.

    I understand that each SP has their rules about contacting them, reasonable things like no email, text only, or no blocked calls. However, where I draw the line is if I am required to straight up call an SP (where texting is not allowed). It doesn't make sense. I have almost always only ever booked via text as it allows me to be discrete and to get any questions answered prior to deciding if an SP isn't the type of services I may be into prior to a session. I shouldn't be expected to call unless I am officially booking, something I only do when I am 100% certain that I'll be seeing this person. I think texting should be fine in cases where I need to get some details clarified first before deciding if I want to book a session with a lady. I have actually refused to see quite a few SP's because of the fact that they were unwilling to answer some simple questions via text and expected me to call them to discuss these questions.

    Too many restrictions or restrictions that don't make sense. I can handle no dfk in a session (thought I do prefer it), as one SP put it she wants to save kissing only for when she's in a relationship. However, I can't handle no daty or no bbbj on top of that. Also, I find it weird when an SP will let you DATO and DATY, but she will only offer CBJ. In my case I also don't believe in putting my mouth where my dick can't go, so if an SP allows DATO, but won't do Greek then I won't partake.

    Anyone else have their personal rules and restrictions? We know there's the obvious case of avoiding SP's who offer BBFS.

    EDIT: I also don't see SP's who are "party friendly" or come off as un-recovered drug addicts.

    SP's have their restrictions, and should continue to. At the same time as paying customers we too have our own requirements and expectations, we're paying after all. Everything is always going to be YMMV and that's fine, but at the end we all have our own perception as to what makes an SP worth visiting.

    When I generally text it's mostly because the SP doesn't have enough info on her ad to help me make my decision.
    Information that I generally need to know (before booking) is:
    1) Services, Rates, Restrictions. I like to know this so that I don't overstep any boundaries when it comes to services. I understand that YMMV come into play for certain services, but it's important to know everything.
    2) Incall Locations (i.e. close to "such and such skytrain" or rough cross streets). This helps me plan my time accordingly when I book.
    3) Amount of notice needed for a session, along with availability. I don't always book the same day that I inquire and will usually go out and see an SP a day or two after.
    4) Height. I'm just under 5'7" and have an amputated leg, it makes things difficult in my case if a girl is significantly taller than me.
    Last edited by lukom; 02-07-2019 at 11:32 PM.

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    For me:

    I can't see her if she uses fake pics or misrepresents herself. Even if she steals some photos of a similar girl with same body type and she's hot and well reviewed, I won't go. Its principle man, use your own pics.

    If she charges too many tiers for services. For eg. If you want msog its an extra 20, cim is 40, bbbj is 20, there was this woman I wanted to see, checked out her website and she has a price for every service and each combination with each time. She has like 60 prices listed on her website!

    I also will not see a lady if she tries to charge extra for msog for 1 hour session. That includes not posting it on the website either. They will get you off in half an hour and then be like: oops a second shot is 20-50 extra, I figure if she won't go for a hj for my second release then she might not be as service oriented as I like and I don't wanna pop at 20 min and then chat for 30 min. And if she doesnt post that on her website that really means she just doesnt wanna do it. So I won't bother with anyone like that.

    Drug usage, no go. Any signs in the photos or reviees that warn off people, can't do it. Also any chance of bait and switch or scams of any kind. If ad says party girl, nope

    I also dont like being upsold. I once texted a group and she started by trying to get me to go for a 90 min pse session that cost three times as much, so it turned me off real quick and I didnt book. Exception: I was pitched, but after I had already made the appt and was on my way there, and happened to have extra cash on me. Turned a bng into a duo bng and it was one of the best times I've ever had.

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    Fake pic: inexcusable and dishonest
    Drugs: addicts are unpredictable and untrustworthy
    Age: I'm old so a lot of young hotties won't see me, no big deal
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    If there are no rates in the ad, I move on.

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    "Loves to Party."

    More often than not, seems to have bad results.

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    One of the things I look for are, her descriptions of herself or/and pictures (full body pictures).

    No contact information; telephone, email or website.

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    In terms of restriction, as a general rule, I would not see sp's who offer cbj only and light kissing only. I have seen some who offer CBJ only, but it was me not doing my homework. Also I would not see girls who take way too long to respond or who are way too busy. I have tried a few and I just gave up.

    Also, a big NO to party girls. Also girls working out of cheap motels, girls who look sloppy in appearance, the ones who show hints of drug use.

    Also, I prefer not to see visiting SP's. (I saw one that it turned out to be my worst experience.) Basically because a. there are fewer reviews available, b. my work schedule doesn't allow me to plan that far ahead, c. there are plenty of girls in our backyard that I have not seen or have not repeated yet.
    At my age, they all look good and luckily there is a nerve that connects my eyes to my one-eyed monster.


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    Any ad that refers to the SP as being party friendly or being a party girl is an ad that I will usually bypass.
    If the ad has very limited information as in just the bare minimum info and a phone number that's a no-go unless it's a well established lady.
    As far as photo's I typically prefer to see a mixture of professional photos and selfies or candid shots. Anything that is just a bunch of blurry or poor quality seflies is a no.
    Personally don't get too worked about about certain services.

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    Personally, I'm someone with simple tastes when it comes to requesting services of SPs. ....but usually the question of "greek" is a good indicator of whether or not she could be worthy of my time and money. Not to say I'm going to see an SP for the sole purpose of greek, but just knowing I'm going to see a girl who is carefree, freaky, kinky, "submissive" enough to allow that backdoor action if/when the session heats up over time. Personally, I like the options there, but doesn't mean I'd do it. Again, it's a good indicator to gauge what kind of girl you could be getting; not a deal breaker, but it helps win my business.

    Otherwise, another turn off with restrictions would be seeing their ads read like a Chinese Restaurant Menu (pun intended, lol). Listing off their hourly price scheme then, listing off the extras like they were side-dishes for $50-$100 more. Saw an ad where she charged $150 for 30 mins, then an extra $50 for BB'ing the BJ, and another $100 for greek. And on top of that, no MSOG unless I pay another hour.....So what $300 for a session that could last less that 30 mins, less than 15 even?..... I wondered about the confusing nature of setting up a price scheme like this, but that's probably how they get you.

    That said, the topic of MSOG would be a deal breaker for me. Some SPs allow it within however long a session you request, others charge it as extras, and some just only allow one shot and that's it. I mean, if I pay for the hour and she makes me pop early on you think that with the extra time she'd try to make me pop again and get my money's worth.

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    Refuse to see anyone that doesn't DFK, DATY and BBBJ. These are essential. And definitely no fat chicks, I walk instantly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lukom View Post
    ... where I draw the line is if I am required to straight up call an SP (where texting is not allowed). It doesn't make sense. I have always only ever booked via text ...
    I on the other hand am old enough to be from an era when my initial inquiry to an SP was a voice call from a pay phone. Text wasn't an option and it still seems strange to me. I've only used text once, and that was to a lady I've seen many times. She didn't get around to checking her messages, so I ended up doing a voice call to make the date anyway. Didn't call from a pay phone though. I wouldn't know where to find one now.

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    I always speak to the lady, if she cannot make time for a voice contact then I pass.
    Hearing someone's voice can tell you a lot.
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    Fake pics definitely a pass. I m not a fan when there arent rates listed and you have to chase it down/find it some where.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ludovico123 View Post
    If there are no rates in the ad, I move on.
    I agree completely!

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    Quote Originally Posted by apl16 View Post
    I agree completely!
    This isn’t a requirement or a restriction but being called babe after I’ve introduced myself by name is a bit of a pet peeve. I find it fake and offputting if I’ve never seen them before. Example:

    “Hey babe, I’m available all night and my rates are X.

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