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Thoughts on giving & receiving instruction during oral

I adore both giving and receiving oral pleasures and consider myself very blessed to enjoy such climactic bliss with my clients. Of course each person has their own unique ways they like to indulge and explore. As an SP I’m curious to know if you as a client would prefer to give and receive gentle verbal instruction or just more ‘go with flow’ style of experience?
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working-man

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I totally enjoy pleasing the SPs I see. I want them to enjoy my oral skills and anything that enhances the pleasure be it verbal instructions is totally okay with me. I myself give too little instructions and prefer to enjoy the moment unique to each lady.
 

Lady Companion

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I typically enjoy what someone does, but if it is uncomfortable in any way, or if it seems like I won't get there with their method, then I offer guidance. I have never had a gentleman think of that as a negative thing. Just don't chastise them ;-) Let them know what you like and prefer, and they will be really receptive. After all, they are presumably trying to make you feel good and will appreciate the direction if it is done in a positive way.

Every person is different, so what a suitor may find is amazing for one partner may not be what you enjoy. So let them know so you can both have a fabulous time!
 

J.O. Henson

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Personally I welcome direction. I like to swap rolls (so to speak) with the lady I’m with. That said if you’re doing something she’s enjoying then being told what to continue is very much appreciated. Maybe if you’re getting near the end and unknowingly changing direction it’s good to be told so not to frustrate her. Does that make sense? Also if your doing something you think is great but she doesn’t enjoy why should she have to carry on with something un-pleasurable. So all told letting me know what she likes is very much appreciated. Speed, pressure, here not there, direction is key as far as I’m concerned. None of us really knows what each woman likes,contrary to what we may think, so why not get more information to have at your disposal. My feeling on it anyway.
 

ludovico123

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I adore both giving and receiving oral pleasures and consider myself very blessed to enjoy such climactic bliss with my clients. Of course each person has their own unique ways they like to indulge and explore. As an SP I’m curious to know if you as a client would prefer to give and receive gentle verbal instruction or just more ‘go with flow’ style of experience?
Thanks!
I think that getting direction is sexy.
As long as your don't do it in an overtly mean way.
I would see it as a sign of being interested and invested in the experience.
I can't think of anyone I have seen that has given any direction.
I would welcome it though.
 

nightswhisper

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Depends.

Most gentlemen will probably be fine with "Oh... a little higher.. Oh!"

They will probably not like "it's not a carpet you asshole! Slurp it like an oyster!"
 

westcoastrider1982

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I’m a big fan of going down on women!
Probably enjoy eating pussy more than getting a bj...yes I know I’m weird haha! Could spend all day with my head buried between thighs!
I personally love getting gentle directions or when I hear “Oh yeah!! Right there! Right there! Oh my god that feels so good!!”
 

204fun

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Communication is key to any good sex and should flow freely both ways.
If there is something that I could be doing better then I definitely would like to know, which is no different than if I tell an SP to change things up a bit if their style of doing things isn't working for me.
 

Relax10

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I think it depends for each person as some ae more receptive then others. Personally I d mind the feedback. Each gal is different and what works with one dosent mean it works for all. Plus if i can learn a new technique the better I'll be. I mean sometimes Ive had to say to a SP, things like "less teeth", "keep doing that", "slower",etc. I used to be really shy and didnt communicate enough or at all with a gal and if I did my experiences would have been better.
 

steverino

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I would suggest not sounding frustrated if the man doesn't get it right.
 

uncleg

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I typically enjoy what someone does, but if it is uncomfortable in any way, or if it seems like I won't get there with their method, then I offer guidance. I have never had a gentleman think of that as a negative thing. Just don't chastise them ;-) Let them know what you like and prefer, and they will be really receptive. After all, they are presumably trying to make you feel good and will appreciate the direction if it is done in a positive way.

Every person is different, so what a suitor may find is amazing for one partner may not be what you enjoy. So let them know so you can both have a fabulous time!
Like the Lady says....speak up....there is more then one use for your tongue.
 

GAdventurer

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I have the advantage of looking back on many years of meeting and the revisiting some exceptionally fine women.

Starting out I discovered very quickly that taking any guidance from porn movies pretty much ensured that any session would be a service verses and experience.

Fortunately I was so lucky to meet at young new lady as her second client. We developed a friendship and trust over a few sessions, and it was to her I asked to teach me.
She is of course retired and gone a long time ago, BUT in those several years she taught me so much about how to touch, lick, squeeze, nibble and watch a woman.
I am forever grateful and I love it when I look up from still vibrating legs of my date to see an astonished face looking at me asking “where did you learn to do that?!?!” Ha ha it’s fun.

After losing her to her own private life, I have met other equally instructive women that have added to my learning. Listen to how she is breathing, sense the change in her skin tone, look at her eyes (vacant of otherwise occupied), are her movements all coordinated (if they are your missing something), gently firm wins out over hard. There are way more body spots to attend to that nipples and clit, speed is usually not of the essence . . . . . . .

All learned under the tutelage of some exceptional women.

So to answer the question, yes I take suggestions, and the result is usually . . . . . . spectacular.
 

FirstDeepKiss

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How does that yellow pages ad go? Let your fingers do the walking?
I've never gotten a lot of verbal instruction, just my hair grabbed and my head yanked this way or that.
I kind of like that actually ...
 
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