I have the advantage of looking back on many years of meeting and the revisiting some exceptionally fine women.
Starting out I discovered very quickly that taking any guidance from porn movies pretty much ensured that any session would be a service verses and experience.
Fortunately I was so lucky to meet at young new lady as her second client. We developed a friendship and trust over a few sessions, and it was to her I asked to teach me.
She is of course retired and gone a long time ago, BUT in those several years she taught me so much about how to touch, lick, squeeze, nibble and watch a woman.
I am forever grateful and I love it when I look up from still vibrating legs of my date to see an astonished face looking at me asking “where did you learn to do that?!?!” Ha ha it’s fun.
After losing her to her own private life, I have met other equally instructive women that have added to my learning. Listen to how she is breathing, sense the change in her skin tone, look at her eyes (vacant of otherwise occupied), are her movements all coordinated (if they are your missing something), gently firm wins out over hard. There are way more body spots to attend to that nipples and clit, speed is usually not of the essence . . . . . . .
All learned under the tutelage of some exceptional women.
So to answer the question, yes I take suggestions, and the result is usually . . . . . . spectacular.