Who should I lose my virginity to? I'm 18

ddcanz

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Go to a hot cougar (40+). Do some research on LL. Make some calls. Be honest and tell the lady what your goal is. Make sure to ask for MSOG, multiple shots on goal. The first shot will be a waste, the second will be the one that makes memories. Get a patient lady who likes what she’s doing.
There are 2 I plan on seeing soon, their correspondence suggests patience and passion.
Yuliya: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...l_body_tantric_massage_special_at_300-3919798
Natasha: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...lley_full_body_sensual_lingam_massage-3673818
I agree with seeing a reputable mature for your first time.
Their knowledge, experience, patience and compassion will go a long way to making your experience.
I'd recommend Cherise or Ms. Erica Phoenix off the top of my head.
A young hottie SP won't be much different than whacking it to porn- except you'll be done in a jiff and out $$.
Maybe do it the old-fashioned way? A drunken bar slut cougar drag home extravaganza of wanton no-holds-barred pounding with NSA. If you blow quick and can't get jimmy back in the fray then just leave- with the appropriate decorum.
My first time was in the front seat of a half-ton with a late night pick up in an alleyway. Lasted an extremely short time. Made me want to learn.
 

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Try an Indy girl rather than an amp provider like ddcanz suggests for sure! Listen to your elders. My two top choices of educators are:

Emele Devine
http://simplysxy.com/articles/2018/12/11/how-to-explore-your-kink-sexual-fantasies/

Ruby Lawless
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...nks_for_treating_me_so_well_vancouver-4525726

Hiring skilled high class girls is like training wheels to build one’s confidence that will help immensely later, since women are attracted to to confident relaxed guys.

Imagine fucking a super hot chick you absolutely would have no chance at under normal circumstances.
Imagine the bragging rights!

After you know what a real girl is supposed to be like in the sheets, snagging less skilled but hot girls your age will be far easier. You’ll be able to pick out the good ones just by how they carry themselves and respond to you. Plus, it may save from from marrying a boring girl.

One thing for sure, you’ll never forget your first time. Book two hours.
 

Avioneto123

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I think Yuko will be a good choice for you. She is one of the most consistent SPs that I have ever met. She is serious about providing a very good service, she is a true professional.She dedicates herself to making sure you are satisfied,no matter else matters to her when you are in her handS. Great kisser, happy and welcoming attitude at all times. Plus if you enjoy a nice rack, hers are plentiful. She also is excellent at giving massages. Meeting her will give you a good experience to base yourself and compare for future outings. It will leave room for improvement in the looks and age department. Not sure,though,about leaving room for someone to match her gentle touch and her aim to please..Once she told me she likes what she does and it shows.
 

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I haven’t seen her yet, so take my opinion with a grain of salt. But Jess Lis Lee sounds like she could damage you for life! I agree you should pay up front for 2 shots, the second one will be with you foreve!

And please tell us who you chose, and how it went. I know we’re all curious as to the outcome.
 

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An 18 yr old comes home late at night. His dad is watching TV in the living room.

Boy: "Dad, I have a great news, I finally lost my virginity."

Dad: "Atta boy, go and get that bottle of whiskey from the shelf, this calls for celebration."

Boy: "Forget whiskey dad. Where the heck do we keep Polysporin? My bum hole is hurting like hell."


Good Luck

T8E
 

fukboy

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because they want to keep all these girls for themselves
Honestly, at your age, you should be getting tail your age. You'll never be able to get that back as you get older. Well, rarely. Bang as many of your girlfriends as you can around your age now. In a few years when you get older and don't want to put in as much effort, or want some exotic experiences, then jump into this hobbie. You'll ruin it for yourself, honestly and you'll never get that back.

Enduring this hobbie for almost 20 years now, I can say, it gets pretty boring now, and it gets less and less exciting, and I just turned 40. What am I going to do now from 40-60 to get my new fix, if this hobbie isn't doing it for me anymore?
 

Mikehma

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There is a lot of wisdom here for sure; however, some guys just can't get laid because of a lack of confidence, and a really good, patient provider could help with that.

There must be enough ladies on here that read these posts who could quietly pm the OP (assuming they haven't) and help him out with a magical first time. Might be just the spark he needs to both approach and hook his future girls.

I'd suggest trying several body types, nationalities, etc. alongside regular relationships so you get to know what you are really attracted to, and then focus on meeting someone like that in "real life". I knew I loved asian women at a young age but didn't end up with one. Silly me, from a sex point of view at least. If I'd known what an escort was then, I'd have banged more Asians, and who knows you might fluke out and even meet one you end up in a real relationship with.

You'll might spend 10x more on dates hoping to get laid unless things are a whole lot looser now than when I was your age. Playing with a few escorts along the way might appease your lust a bit so you're not impatient in real life. Love usually finds you, not the other way around, so getting laid every so often might give you the patience to wait.

Best advice I can provide is find a bi mate, and then you can enjoy some variety with her your whole life!
 

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If you're serious, then I would recommend spending a lot of money for 90 minutes with an independent lady. Otherwise, a 15 minute quickie will leave you sadly disappointed. And if you find a girl of your own age, then neither of you know what you are doing and it won't be much fun. Find somebody older - not difficult given you are 18 - in the range of 30's and 40's. That may seem ancient to you but, believe me, these ladies are at their peak sensuality. You need somebody caring, loving and "simpatico". When you get there, hand over the envelope with your donation and then sit down for five to ten minures for a chit-chat. Let her get to know you. You will be embarrassed as all hell but she has heard it all before. Discuss what you want. Maybe start with a shower together, move to a massage including nude body slide then flip you over and see how much longer you can last. Not a lot. Chat some more then off you go again. Before you know it, 90 minutes is up. An absolute: behave like a real gentleman at all times. That will give you an experience that will last you a lifetime. You may be tempted to tell everybody about it. Don't. Keep your bloody mouth shut! In ten years time , you will be glad you did. It's your secret - take it to the grave. Damn, I wish I was 18 again!!
 

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Another option you can do is to get your toes wet with a simple rub and tug massage session. Check out sexy brie brie 3434 or Sexy Personal Trainer from the leolist massage section. It will give you good practice on how to text and meet the woman, and get a sexual experience so you won't be so neevous the next time you visit a full service lady.
 

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Take a word of advice from your seniors in the hobby. You really don't want to start out doing this.
Can't believe this thread still has traction...but THIS.

Because when the question from your future gf or wife questions about how your first time was, will you be comfortable in telling them that you lost it to an escort. Or will you weave an intricate lie that you'll keep up for the rest of your living existence.

This hobby should be a supplementary guilty pleasure to your existing normal life. You don't want this hobby to be your existing life.
 

Mikehma

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Can't believe this thread still has traction...but THIS.

Because when the question from your future gf or wife questions about how your first time was, will you be comfortable in telling them that you lost it to an escort. Or will you weave an intricate lie that you'll keep up for the rest of your living existence.

This hobby should be a supplementary guilty pleasure to your existing normal life. You don't want this hobby to be your existing life.
Nah, just say, "I went to a tutor."
 

jamasianman

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What do you mean by intricate lie? You simply say you met a lady online and it was mostly just a hookup that wasn't memorable.
 

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Asian Micros are more of a get off and go.
I don't think that's accurate at all. At least for our group.. we tend to lean more towards GFE. Lots of guys to multi hours, bring a bottle of wine and so on.

The girls are generally warm, welcoming, and talkative. That being said, a lot of micros are factories... i'm just saying not all... that's a fairly broad stroke with that brush.

In regards to OP, be prepared to show your ID if you are really that young. No girl will want to take the chance that you are underage.

Tulip is a sweetheart. You might also like Sonya.
 

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Losing ones virginity to a professional is a great idea IMO, and how I wish it happened for me.
Reduces the first time anxiety, and awkwardness. So when you get a GF it isn't the first time for you. Try for someone who is a bit older, wise, and very calm.
 

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I'd take these opportunities as a chance to grow and mature around women. My best advice to you is see somebody with good reputation and be honest and upfront about what you're looking for, lots of SP's, are willing to cater to this and are more than willing to use their time you paid for to help you achieve that comfort around women. Just walk in with confidence and don't blow your load cause your nerves and anxiety are at an all time high...highly likely it will happen though.
 
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