Hi all, first off, I know that this thread should be posted elsewhere. However, I purposely posted it here, as I wanted fellow posters/reviewers to chime in, in case they have been through, or are going through, the same situation.
I am getting obsessed with an SP that I see regularly. I know many of you will crack a joke about it and make light of it (which is fine), but it is something I am really struggling with right now. If anything, I'm just looking for some advice and pointers, as I think I have an issue. Not easy to admit that to all of you, but gotta start somewhere.
I don't know if I'm falling in love with her, or if it's just a sexual obsession. It angers me and makes me jealous when I think of her with other guys. I try to not contact her and just quit seeing her, cold-turkey, but I always cave in. I cannot stop thinking about her, and I find myself purposely seeing other SPs more often to try and forget about her. So far, it isn't working. Again, I don't know if it's a possessive/obsessive thing, or if I really am falling in love with her. I constantly check this site to see if there are reviews for her, and it's almost like I want to find out something that I know will hurt me, if that makes sense. I know this isn't good, but I don't know how to handle this. I put ideas in my head about her, and end up driving myself crazy. I want to do something about this, before it gets any worse.
I am hoping to hear from posters that understand my situation, and have been through this. I don't know what to do, so I am reaching out to you all. Most of all, I would greatly appreciate any help and tips.
Thank you... I hope to hear back from you guys.
I am getting obsessed with an SP that I see regularly. I know many of you will crack a joke about it and make light of it (which is fine), but it is something I am really struggling with right now. If anything, I'm just looking for some advice and pointers, as I think I have an issue. Not easy to admit that to all of you, but gotta start somewhere.
I don't know if I'm falling in love with her, or if it's just a sexual obsession. It angers me and makes me jealous when I think of her with other guys. I try to not contact her and just quit seeing her, cold-turkey, but I always cave in. I cannot stop thinking about her, and I find myself purposely seeing other SPs more often to try and forget about her. So far, it isn't working. Again, I don't know if it's a possessive/obsessive thing, or if I really am falling in love with her. I constantly check this site to see if there are reviews for her, and it's almost like I want to find out something that I know will hurt me, if that makes sense. I know this isn't good, but I don't know how to handle this. I put ideas in my head about her, and end up driving myself crazy. I want to do something about this, before it gets any worse.
I am hoping to hear from posters that understand my situation, and have been through this. I don't know what to do, so I am reaching out to you all. Most of all, I would greatly appreciate any help and tips.
Thank you... I hope to hear back from you guys.