For those of you with fetishes..

I do want to try water games ( golden Showers) with a young chick 20-25 yo. Part of me think its a turn on but its also somewhat degrading. I am on the fence about it. Porn made me desire to do it.

some one said once what becomes your sexual fantasy,
is what was your first sexual awakening if I am saying it right.

and I think for me it was porn, at a very early age, some one had porn laying around,
it was bad yet it was exciting at the same time

I think that is why I see escorts, after all is said and done its just porn.

Brain finds different ways to stimulate itself and the junior and fetishes are one of them. Fetishes come and go, in my case anyways. Porn has a lot to do with it, especially since the advent of internet.

Even prior to that, my fantasies evolved from time to time. As a young teen, I was so turned on by older girls/women. I stayed with it till I was in my 40's and then stopped because I guess I lost that physical attraction I had towards women older than me (in their 50's).
I never thought I would find a woman's feet sexy till one day, while me on my knees between an SP's legs, I held her legs by her feet and found them very pretty with nail polish and all. Even since, I don't mind playing with an SP's feet, if they are clean and nice looking.
I was fascinated by women peeing but it was not really a fetish. Luckily enough one SP was kind enough to .... do it for me.

So, I think fetishes are fetishes. They might sound kinky and in some cases gross (to others). But I think they evolve over time.

I went to a fetish party where one guy described how his fetish we to have a nail driven through his peephole while he was cumming.

Nothing seemed weird to me after that. Sexual arousal is 90% intellectual and psychological

I came across a collage of outdoor female domination scenes in one of my stepfather's Penthouse magazines where this jaw-dropping woman - wearing a black leather outfit and a mask over her eyes - had like 3 or 4 guys naked and on leashes in what looked like a desert climate.
I was either 12 or 13 at the time but I remember thinking "wow, I would love to be one of those guys under her total control". The whole femdom thing seemed a bit taboo back then (early 1970s), but I knew that's what genuinely excited me, it's what drove me sexually and I've had a helluva lotta fun with it over the years... and now, with the internet, social media (and of course PERB!!!) BDSM and so many different types of domination has become huge in the last 10-15 years.
I am now a slave to a local lady who didn't do much of it, other than a bit of spanking here and there, until I came along. We've taken it to some interesting levels and formed a friendship and special bond (no pun intended) for both of us. The poster who mentioned the foot fetish thing brought a smile to my face when I think of the hours I have spent caressing and massaging her beautiful toes and feet. She has really embraced being the Mistress, genuinely enjoys that role, and that is the part that is so gratifying for me ... and I repay her faith with tenderness, benevolence and a willingness to worship her in any and every way she desires.
My stepfather passed away many years ago, and while he did so much for me in so many other ways that got recognized by family and friends, the Penthouse magazines, crazy as it seems, turned out to be a special gift that has kept on giving to me until this very day.

I think as one gains more life experience ones fetishes evolve. One might see or hear about something, at 1st might not think much about it but find themselves dreaming about it. Others just like doing things that seem naughty to go against the straight and narrow. Like the chance of being caught doing something can be a major turn on.

I have been diving deeper and deeper into the World of Strap-on play and female domination play in the last several years now. I have actually only seen a few providers here in the Vancouver area. There are some others that I would like to see eventually. However how I got turned on by seeing a woman with a strapon started about 10 yrs or so ago.

I was attending a going away party for a co-worker (Female), at her residence. We all got pretty dam drunk that night and I guess I passed out in the bathroom. When I woke all was quiet and figured that the party was over and everyone had headed off. So I went into the living room to grab my jacket and let myself out. I was a bit stunned when I walked into the living room and there was my Female co-worker sitting naked on the couch with this strapon. She was watching porn and stroking her strapon. She looked up at me and said " Get out or get naked and come suck my cock"... It was a few awkward seconds and then thought What the hell why not and got naked. We had a wonderful few hours after that. This is how I got into fetish play.

Alix Turner said:

Was wondering how many people out there with specific fetishes can pinpoint when and under what circumstances they came about? I think part of what tends to make origin stories for fetishes so interesting is the clarity that people often remember them with.

hopefully this topic makes for some enlightening reading :behindsofa:

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Somebody mentioned Penthouse magazine, for me, that was what started me down the slippery slope of fetish/ bdsm/ kink play.
It started during my teens with pix of penthouse pets in leather, or black lates rubber lingerie, the arousal was mindblowing!
In my 30s, I visited a dominarix and acted out many of my "pent" up fantasies, from then on there was no going back.

I think some people try to legitimize their deviant behaviour by calling it a fetish.

Bearrug said:

I was attending a going away party for a co-worker (Female), at her residence. We all got pretty dam drunk that night and I guess I passed out in the bathroom. When I woke all was quiet and figured that the party was over and everyone had headed off. So I went into the living room to grab my jacket and let myself out. I was a bit stunned when I walked into the living room and there was my Female co-worker sitting naked on the couch with this strapon. She was watching porn and stroking her strapon. She looked up at me and said " Get out or get naked and come suck my cock"... It was a few awkward seconds and then thought What the hell why not and got naked. We had a wonderful few hours after that. This is how I got into fetish play.

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That sounds pretty hot!

Penthouse magazine and Penthouse letters.... different strokes for different folks....

I don't know if its a fetish, but I did a threesome one time, and as we were playing on the bed, one of the women lifted my leg and started sucking on my toes... the other woman got off the bed and got my other leg and she started to suck on my toes..... eventually I ended up with my legs in a upwards V and they both had my big toes in their mouths sucking on my big toes.... I remember I was soo harddd.....

I think it was the new situation.

I enjoy watching sadomasochism happen. Seems like way to much work. Lol lazy voyeur? In general I like watching a dom work on a sub. But participation doesn’t do much for me. Weird eh ya whatever


Oh origin story.,,I thought we were just sharing. I don’t have one lol.

I have a big thing with the school girl look!
Seeing porn with an innocent looking girl getting fucked or eatin out in the full school girl outfit, plaid skirt, knee high socks, etc really drives me wild!
Haven’t ever dated anyone that’s into doing that look for me though. They think it’s weird and borderline call me a weirdo!

I guess I’ve always liked the look of women in lingerie & have had this idea for years in regard to a walk on the waterfront with the women wearing nothing but lingerie under a trench coat
Well the other weekend it happened, yes I’ve gone for walks with girls, but this was different, she brought it up so we found her a coat went back to her place to get dressed up in stockings garter & bra not to mention her incredible makeup with bright red lipstick & we were off
Was raining pretty good so we had an umbrella which came in handy to somewhat hide our faces.
Was a great walk, lots of pics & an incredible make out session against the railing of the board walk.
Hopefully get to do it again, next time maybe 2 women???

I have a foot fetish. I remember as early as Grade 1, during recess we were playing in puddles and when we came in a female classmate took off her shoes and socks, and for some unknown reason I went to smell her feet. Totally non-sexual back then, but my attraction to feet has only grown over time.

masterblaster said:

I think some people try to legitimize their deviant behaviour by calling it a fetish.

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There is no such thing as deviant sexual behavior. There is only just sexual behavior.

I'm not sure if this counts as a fetish, but the fantasy of kneeling in front of a tall woman and giving her cunnilingus gives me spontaneous bonerage - "Going up" was the term another PERB member coined a while ago - especially if she were vocal and slightly bossy but certainly not a domme.
How did this start? Penthouse has been mentioned up-thread and there is a famous image of Bob Guccione seated in an armchair with a seemingly tall & curvy brunette with a full bush standing next to him... her pussy at eye-level... I probably fapped to that image more than any other in my teens.
My 1970s high school crushes were always for the cute, petite & popular girls... maybe because I was more in the nerd gang? In my 20s & 30s I rejected convention in many ways and definitely gravitated to "exotic" girls (mixed race/middle eastern/east-Indian with long, dark hair, voluptuous figures).
However, for the last decade or so, since I turned 40, I began desiring much taller women... maybe because I'm not a tall guy and as I get older I loose my inhibitions & self-imposed limitations?
When I was pooing 9-10 years ago there was a wacky girl in Surrey, Natalie/Nadia, and a blonde girl in the West End (forgot her name, she had a couple of dogs if anyone else remembers her?), both close to 6' tall, who were amazing and I repeated with both.
Now, when I poon, the taller the better, "alternative" even more so... but I wonder if finding a woman who would indulge me with a short skirt, no panties and give me "instructions" to kneel & service her full bush would be like meeting a unicorn LOL?
I sometimes see girls like that on MFC but not on Leolist...?

masterblaster said:

I think some people try to legitimize their deviant behaviour by calling it a fetish.

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You say that as if being a deviant is a bad thing :behindsofa:

westcoastrider1982 said:

I have a big thing with the school girl look!
Seeing porn with an innocent looking girl getting fucked or eatin out in the full school girl outfit, plaid skirt, knee high socks, etc really drives me wild!
Haven’t ever dated anyone that’s into doing that look for me though. They think it’s weird and borderline call me a weirdo!

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Schoolgirl fetish isn't weird, practically every genre of porn has a schoolgirl angle.
I bought my Consenting gf a sexy cosplay schoolgirl uniform, gave her a report card with few "F's", then spanked and then fucked her.
It was the best sex ever!