Hi All,
I am no expert at this but would like to share with you on how I prepare for a date.
Do research first and foremost before any contact is made.
Visiting someone can be nerve racking and exciting at the same time for yourself and your date.
The person I choose to meet is well reviewed and usually has a website. Typos do occur but Ads that contain numerous spelling mistakes and overly explicit pictures do not interest me.
Ads that contain the general location and what to expect in general is sufficient. Private communications is best to set fore restrictions and I don't go beyond or ask to break the restrictions.
Once I have someone whom I like to meet, I use the date's requested form of initial contact and introduce myself with a general description of me. It is a polite way to break the ice and don't have marathon text / email sessions. Sometimes less is more.
If the date does not respond immediately be patient, She has a life as well and can be busy with it
Provide alternative dates / times just in case.
With date and time set, I will ask about parking, if street parking is available bring enough change to cover it.
I usually avoid the rush hour as street parking can be challenging is some areas, ie: you don't want to be towed :-(
Do an online search of the area and look where you can park ... I hate being late for anything and prefer to plan ahead
I plan my route in advance.
A few days before the date, contact the person to confirm, things can be derailed.
I am a bit of a neat freak - so I trim my finger / toe nails - don't want to rip the sets with my toe nails when things get hot and heavy.
Not a hairy guy but take the time to trim eye brows, nose hair, make sure nose is clean. Your date doesn't want to look up and see something clinging onto your nose
The day of the date, I have a shower, brush my teeth, floss if necessary and use mouth wash.
Wear clean clothes and maybe a hint of cologne. Nothing that overpowering.
Park and text the date about 10 to 15 mins. prior. Like I said before I hate being late for anything, in the rare case that I am will definitely let my date know.
Upon entering the building be discreet and respectful, I have never been asked why you are in the building. If anyone does just say you are visiting a friend.
When in front of the suite. knock on the door gently. Most times than not the date is of course expecting you and will open the door without you knocking ( that's has been my experience ).
I provide the donation for her championship and sit down to chat. Don't make her ask for the donation. It makes the situation uncomfortable. You want to start on a good note.
If shower is offered take it, it only takes a few minutes and your date will appreciate it and want to get closer to you.
Avoid going number 2 at her place best to do this at home.
During the date have fun but I am the clock watcher...I don't like going overtime that is just me.
A few dates have threaten to hide the clock on me ... I need to relax more.
After the date, ask if it's okay to shower.
Provide a nice hug, Thank your date and leave the building.
Post a review but usually I don't , if you do ask your date if it's okay, some don't mind some do.
May have missed a few things but in closing just be prepared.
Best Cory
I am no expert at this but would like to share with you on how I prepare for a date.
Do research first and foremost before any contact is made.
Visiting someone can be nerve racking and exciting at the same time for yourself and your date.
The person I choose to meet is well reviewed and usually has a website. Typos do occur but Ads that contain numerous spelling mistakes and overly explicit pictures do not interest me.
Ads that contain the general location and what to expect in general is sufficient. Private communications is best to set fore restrictions and I don't go beyond or ask to break the restrictions.
Once I have someone whom I like to meet, I use the date's requested form of initial contact and introduce myself with a general description of me. It is a polite way to break the ice and don't have marathon text / email sessions. Sometimes less is more.
If the date does not respond immediately be patient, She has a life as well and can be busy with it
Provide alternative dates / times just in case.
With date and time set, I will ask about parking, if street parking is available bring enough change to cover it.
I usually avoid the rush hour as street parking can be challenging is some areas, ie: you don't want to be towed :-(
Do an online search of the area and look where you can park ... I hate being late for anything and prefer to plan ahead
I plan my route in advance.
A few days before the date, contact the person to confirm, things can be derailed.
I am a bit of a neat freak - so I trim my finger / toe nails - don't want to rip the sets with my toe nails when things get hot and heavy.
Not a hairy guy but take the time to trim eye brows, nose hair, make sure nose is clean. Your date doesn't want to look up and see something clinging onto your nose
The day of the date, I have a shower, brush my teeth, floss if necessary and use mouth wash.
Wear clean clothes and maybe a hint of cologne. Nothing that overpowering.
Park and text the date about 10 to 15 mins. prior. Like I said before I hate being late for anything, in the rare case that I am will definitely let my date know.
Upon entering the building be discreet and respectful, I have never been asked why you are in the building. If anyone does just say you are visiting a friend.
When in front of the suite. knock on the door gently. Most times than not the date is of course expecting you and will open the door without you knocking ( that's has been my experience ).
I provide the donation for her championship and sit down to chat. Don't make her ask for the donation. It makes the situation uncomfortable. You want to start on a good note.
If shower is offered take it, it only takes a few minutes and your date will appreciate it and want to get closer to you.
Avoid going number 2 at her place best to do this at home.
During the date have fun but I am the clock watcher...I don't like going overtime that is just me.
A few dates have threaten to hide the clock on me ... I need to relax more.
After the date, ask if it's okay to shower.
Provide a nice hug, Thank your date and leave the building.
Post a review but usually I don't , if you do ask your date if it's okay, some don't mind some do.
May have missed a few things but in closing just be prepared.
Best Cory
