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$How to afford this hobby??

beefcake11

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I'm just curious. I read so many of you on here that are clearly seeing ridiculous amounts of sp's annually. I would like to and I'd like to pay for a higher end experience and more frequently. I am in $100% commission based sales, I do ok and I still can't see how some of you guys do it. Please enlighten me to how this is done?or are you all simply driving yourselves into debt?

Beef
 

lukom

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I work in a solid union job and get occasional bonuses, or double plus stat pay when I work holidays. Much of the extra from double plus stat and bonuses goes towards the hobby. However I'm not as active as it would have been 5-10 years ago, much more selective and not as adventurous either due to higher prices and risks involved in ending up with a crappie experience.
 

beefcake11

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Thanks. I think I may go less experiences and go for a sure shot, a well reviewed guaranteed so to speak. I've definitely been nickel and diming it to avoid the higher prices, but sometimes, not all the time I do have a dissapointing experience and I kick myself. I have found some great sp's at low price point. I guess that's the negotiator in me from my profession. I never pay sticker price.
 
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I think ive spent well over 6-9k since i started back in 2015 its really brutal. Gets addicting almost
 

jamasianman

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I'm about the same. I started back in 2016 and I've dropped about the same amount. You just have to keep reminding yourself that seeing sp's is a luxury. You don't have to have sex with hot ladies or you'll die. its a treat you can have once in a while. I am able to regulate because I visit massage ladies because I need the massage due to my labour job, and sometimes treat myself to a bng or a 45 min session every other month. You just have to remember that its a luxury, not a necessity like food/rent.
 

51shades

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I had the same wonder too. I remember seeing someone said he saw 50 partners

, and I was like that is easily $10 to 15k. Seems unimaginable to me. Definitely an expensive hobby!
 

beefcake11

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Oh no. I just started doing some calculations of how much it may have been over the years for me. Geez, that’s like a couple good vacations a year or a car pmt on a nice vehicle. I may need to work hard at resisting this temptation.
 

Vondong1

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I trade stocks everyday on my phone. Aside from my regular job, it has paid for a good amount of service. I only started doing this last year, have maybe spent about 2-3k. Plus redeeming my benefits every year is 500 or more i can put towards more service.
 

Hantingan

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I’ve spent more money on non SP’s than I have on Sp’s In the last 2 years... most SP’s are cheaper than a hotel room DT and a couple of drinks
This is so true. I am a single man with not so many things I am responsible for. I wonder how married men can get away doing this.
 

westwoody

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Find one you like and see her exclusively, lower the risk.
Don't see anyone unless you really really want to.
Don't do it because you are bored or lonely, make it a rare special occasion.
 

cktc9

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I think I'm at about $6k total over the past 3 years.
It's only the equivalent of about $180 per month, so it's not too difficult for me to squeeze it out of my pocket money.

I'm not a bar regular, don't drink much at all, and don't have much in the way of expensive lifestyle activities.
The above number is a bit over half my monthly pocket money, so it's not too difficult to hide.

On top of a regular income, I do get the odd well-paid contract, which lets me hide some away for the hobby.
This past 5 weeks it got me out 3 times, but that's unusually busy for me.
I'm usually happy with once every 3 - 4 weeks.

I figure as long as I can do it with clear cash, and it's not interfering with living costs, then I won't worry about the total.

..I probably spend about the same on lattes, anyway... (ok, so I do have an expensive lifestyle activity...)
 

take8easy

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Initially I went crazy when I started 4 years ago and saw 4, 5 and even 6 girls a month. Slowly I brought it down to about two.

Set a target of how much you want and can afford to spend.
Try to have quickies, 30 min, 45 min sessions.
Keep a journal so you know how much you are spending. It will also serve as a diary when you are old. ;)
I hooe this doesn’t get me banned but stay away from PERB and Keolist unless you are planning on seeing someone.

Hope it helps.
 

oceanview12

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in the span of about 8 months... prices have gone from 100$ to 140$...
while I know it may be hard for some; simply letting the SP's know and
NOT going can help to bring prices down to an enjoyable price point...
we have to stop thinking with the little head...

I'm sure about 2 weeks of this controlled behavior might cause some changes
resulting in more spending on alot more SP's overall...

just my 2cents...
 

oceanview12

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was visiting i guess independents for hhr sessions...poco; coquitlam; surrey; fairly new to this hobby...
but while looking and reviewing i kind of noticed these price changes... I'm definitely not able to do the
180's and up crowd...

that was all...
 
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ddcanz

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right here and now
Where are you going that a session costs less than a tank of gas ?
all depends on your tank.
I drive a full size 4x4- and these days costs me 150+ for a fill. There are endless half hour options for less than that.
 
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