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How far have you come?

ElsiDawson

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Nov 5, 2016
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I hear from lots of first-timers and beginners who ask things that really show how inexperienced and nervous they are. Like the clients who book, enter the incall, and then ask if I'm a cop... "No, I'm overqualified."/"That's extra." And while I like to poke fun at them at the end of the session once they're all relaxed, I do have to remember that there was a time when I had equally dense notions of how this industry is.


Ladies, perberts--what kind of non-issues worried you when you first started that you can look back on now and have a little snicker at yourself about?


And yes, intentionally ambiguous title is intentionally ambiguous. ;)
 

Tim22

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Apr 25, 2018
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Im still starting out .the shy nervous type its a tough thing to navigate lots of diffrent emotions from sheer pleasure to alittle sad but still seem to be stumbling along feel bad for some girls visited so akward but some really nice ones help you along . Walking up to the door heart races brain goes into mush . Maybe one day be calm cool and collected . But till thenjust seem to be a bumbling mess lmao
 

badbadboy

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Nov 2, 2006
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Upon entering the suite I found someone I know in real life.

Two people keeping a secret for life. Is that possible?
 

ddcanz

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Feb 27, 2012
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How far have you come?
And yes, intentionally ambiguous title is intentionally ambiguous. ;)
Over her ass and the back of her coif and onto the dresser...
Laying on my back onto the swag lamp above.....
Past her ear and onto the TV behind....
Ricochet off my own face to the headboard.....
And yes- there were little snickers from both parties!

Honestly though I had negligible worries. I'd had quite a bit of experience with strippers and SWs in the 80s and 90s before I ever hooked up directly with an advertising SP (back when you needed the GS, WE, B&S or what have you to find women).
My biggest worry was my SO somehow finding out.
 

ElsiDawson

Slutty slut
Nov 5, 2016
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Vancouver, BC
Im still starting out .the shy nervous type its a tough thing to navigate lots of diffrent emotions from sheer pleasure to alittle sad but still seem to be stumbling along feel bad for some girls visited so akward but some really nice ones help you along . Walking up to the door heart races brain goes into mush . Maybe one day be calm cool and collected . But till thenjust seem to be a bumbling mess lmao

I remember when I first started, my heart was always racing going into a session and I had no idea what was coming. Then on my way home I just kept thinking, that's it? I did it?!
 

204fun

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Jan 18, 2018
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The first time I visited an in-call I was sure that everyone within a 3 block radius was going to be watching me and know exactly why I was there. What I learned pretty quickly is that no one really gives a damn about what another person is doing so now I just go about my day and that nervous energy that I used to have when getting to the in-call location is now just pure excitement about what is waiting behind that door.
 

ElsiDawson

Slutty slut
Nov 5, 2016
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Vancouver, BC
Ricochet off my own face to the headboard.....
And yes- there were little snickers from both parties!

Jesus, some ballistic balls!
I have a client who saves up to do a drenching COT shot... one time after he left I found cum in my purse that was some eight feet away. He got a high-five next I saw him.
 

take8easy

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Jul 27, 2014
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I did not even get into this hobby till I was in my late 40's. I just didn't know what to do. I never had friends who ever tried this hobby either. I had read some scary stories of another guy suddenly pouncing on a pooner from behind the closet. For me this industry meant girls walking around high heels near King George Hwy and 108 (Or Main and Hastings), many of them looking wasted.

Seems like that ages ago. Now that I have seen the good side of this hobby, I snicker at myself. Oh yea.. about the first time, there was a dark van parked two houses away from Cherise's house and I drove around for about five minutes. The van never left so I just took a deep breath and pulled into her drive way. I guess I was just being paranoid.
 

volvoguy1979

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Nov 4, 2017
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The first time I visited an in-call I was sure that everyone within a 3 block radius was going to be watching me and know exactly why I was there. What I learned pretty quickly is that no one really gives a damn about what another person is doing so now I just go about my day and that nervous energy that I used to have when getting to the in-call location is now just pure excitement about what is waiting behind that door.
Agreed.
I usually have an off and on raging boner going for hours leading up to the "meeting".
The kind you don't get anymore, from being in a long term relationship
 

ElsiDawson

Slutty slut
Nov 5, 2016
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Vancouver, BC
The first time I visited an in-call I was sure that everyone within a 3 block radius was going to be watching me and know exactly why I was there.

Outcalls to hotels feel like that! Everyone thinks I'm some whore, they're going to ask me, I'm going to get busted. I've relaxed, but it was much more intimidating in my early days. Now I just take joy in getting laid on sheets that I won't have to wash afterwards.
 

Vpete

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I’m still pretty new and will probably always feel a bit new as my interludes are well spaced apart so it always seems new. The one thing I think is my instincts around who provides good info and who seems genuine are developing. My first times I liased with a well reviewed lady who was a dream and understood how to manage a new guy.

The most important aspect of this scene is being able to understand who some one is via this board, social media and other sites. Doing homework really pays off and taking your time to figure out who can best provide the experience you want is huge. One lady I was with was really surprised at how much I knew about her based on social media. I just explained that I wanted to get the best feel for who she was so I could determine if I was also a good match- it takes two to tango and I think all the guys should remember that.
 

R the Man

Variety is the spice...
Nov 23, 2002
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I did not even get into this hobby till I was in my late 40's. I just didn't know what to do. I never had friends who ever tried this hobby either. I had read some scary stories of another guy suddenly pouncing on a pooner from behind the closet. For me this industry meant girls walking around high heels near King George Hwy and 108 (Or Main and Hastings), many of them looking wasted.
Like you I was in my mid-40's when I started - hadn't been to a strip club in years and only remembered air dances, but then got taken to Brass Rail in Toronto and found out about lap dances. Crazy! Looked it up on the internet, found TERB and discovered this whole secret hobby. Booked my first escort in Montreal - couldn't believe how easy it was to have a gorgeous young girl delivered to your door to fulfill your wildest dreams. And all for a little cash!

I still get that delicious anticipation when waiting for the girl to knock on my hotel room door. It's like crack (not that I actually know what crack is like, but from the descriptions).
 

Tim22

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Apr 25, 2018
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Im hopeing that my shyness will go away and get more confidence by meeting new ladies . Im allmost 50 and i only just started in last year . Hopefully times will change.
 

Mrmotorscooter

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I shot a load across a one lane road before right onto the grass on the other side, the pressure had really built up I was quite proud of myself!
 

sybian

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Dec 23, 2014
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I shot a load across a one lane road before right onto the grass on the other side, the pressure had really built up I was quite proud of myself!
There are two questions I have about this post......
First .....Doesn't a comment like that belong in a thread called " Have you ever had sex with a SP in a public place?"

And Second......Are you certain is was a one lane road, and not a trail or footpath?
I mean, the landing point between the two has a considerable difference in most cases, and far be it for me to question your capacity in velocity, and trajectory.
 

JimDandy

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There are two questions I have about this post......
First .....Doesn't a comment like that belong in a thread called " Have you ever had sex with a SP in a public place?"
I disagree Sybian. Elsi did ask "How far have you come?". Though I suppose some would spell it "cum" rather than "come" :)

If you were just being facetious, I apologize.

JD
 

sybian

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Dec 23, 2014
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I disagree Sybian. Elsi did ask "How far have you come?". Though I suppose some would spell it "cum" rather than "come" :)

If you were just being facetious, I apologize.

JD
Mrmotoscooter is a friend, and we have the same sense of humour......I was just giving him a bad time.
 

grizzly

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Over her ass and the back of her coif and onto the dresser...
Laying on my back onto the swag lamp above.....
Past her ear and onto the TV behind....
Ricochet off my own face to the headboard.....
And yes- there were little snickers from both parties!

Honestly though I had negligible worries. I'd had quite a bit of experience with strippers and SWs in the 80s and 90s before I ever hooked up directly with an advertising SP (back when you needed the GS, WE, B&S or what have you to find women).
My biggest worry was my SO somehow finding out.
Are you 12? speak in english, we don't all know the aquilbriams.
 
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