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TaraGreen

TaraGreen

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Hi everyone,

I want to introduce myself here in the lounge… my name is Tara Green. I am the new girl… by new I mean really really new to being a SP. I just joined Perb and posted my first ads this week!

I have been honoured to be mentored into this by some pretty amazing women who have been incredibly supportive, kind and gracious as I navigate this new adventure. And I have to say I am super excited about this!

I would love to connect and get to know YOU all more and hear what you have to say. The more I know about you the better the experience I can give you…

I have some questions for the gentlemen that I would appreciate your comments on (ladies please voice your opinions to!):

1. What attracts you to an SP (looks, personality, attitude, authenticity, etc.)?
2. What are you looking for in your interludes (sex, intimacy, an escape, etc….)?
3. What do you like about spending time with an SP?
4. What makes you want to see the same SP on a regular basis?
5. What have been your most memorable experiences?
6. Is there anything that would heighten an already amazing experience?

Thank you for your kind welcome and taking the time to connect with me.

If you have any questions for me, please ask!

Love, TARA xo
 
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Welcome to Perb Tara. :thumb:

As you can tell, I have already been scoping out your ad and profile. Very Nice indeed.

I haven't had enough coffee to reply to questions 1 through 6. Maybe later ;) I am not a menu kind of guy and like the ebb and flow or partners playing off of each other's sensuality. Keeps it fresh and interesting if there are second, third, . . . fifty dates :D
 
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If you search "Chessmen" and click on his posting history you will likely find he has asked ALL of your questions and more...or wait a few weeks for his thoroughly researched "Guide to Navigating the SP Universe" .
I jest of course!
Welcome to PERB, Tara.
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Hello and welcome :biggrin1:

I'll try to answer you questions together as one statement in a few paragraphs.

Initial presentation is important in your advertising. Be clear with your rules, protocol and standards but at the same time, don't present it like a drill sergeant barking orders. Also, use a nice mix of candid and professional pictures and update them at regular intervals. I think most guys like SPs to be as much of a known quantity as possible.

Once I am there, the idea is not to force anything but at the same time, keep a good pace. Each encounter is only a certain amount of time so things need to progress but need to be as natural and authentic as possible. Also know that chemistry is sometimes not instantaneous or sometimes you will not click with someone for whatever reason. It's usually not anyone's fault, just how it goes. However, focusing on the human aspect of things by trying to establish a connection and a level of comfort with that person will usually help spark things and will often get them to come back.

As for memorable experiences, I can't really pinpoint too many specific things an SP did in a sexual sense but it was more about the attitude and the atmosphere they created. the things that stood out were the little things. For example, one of my past regular ladies used to always buy my favourite beer every time I came over. I never asked her to do it, she just did it on her own. That was the kind of stuff that showed she cared. I think if you create an escape where people feel safe and cared for you will have a long list of regular clients.

Hope that helps :)
 
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Welcome to PERB Tara


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TaraGreen

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Yes, I have noticed... thank you...

Keep scoping, more pics coming:)

I am not a menu kinda girl either... more of an ebb and flow (don't think just feel) type myself....but questions felt like a good start to get to know everyone here...

Drink more coffee... I would love to hear more from you.

T xxx
 
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TaraGreen

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badbadboy said:
Welcome to Perb Tara. :thumb:

As you can tell, I have already been scoping out your ad and profile. Very Nice indeed.

I haven't had enough coffee to reply to questions 1 through 6. Maybe later ;) I am not a menu kind of guy and like the ebb and flow or partners playing off of each other's sensuality. Keeps it fresh and interesting if there are second, third, . . . fifty dates :D
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My most recent response was for you.... I'm also figuring out this platform.... lol
Txxx
 
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TaraGreen

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ddcanz said:
If you search "Chessmen" and click on his posting history you will likely find he has asked ALL of your questions and more...or wait a few weeks for his thoroughly researched "Guide to Navigating the SP Universe" .
I jest of course!
Welcome to PERB, Tara.
dd.
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lol thank you... I will check out Chessman .. and await his thesis with baited breathe..

T xxx
 
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TaraGreen

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AA_Train said:
Hello and welcome :biggrin1:

I'll try to answer you questions together as one statement in a few paragraphs.

Initial presentation is important in your advertising. Be clear with your rules, protocol and standards but at the same time, don't present it like a drill sergeant barking orders. Also, use a nice mix of candid and professional pictures and update them at regular intervals. I think most guys like SPs to be as much of a known quantity as possible.

Once I am there, the idea is not to force anything but at the same time, keep a good pace. Each encounter is only a certain amount of time so things need to progress but need to be as natural and authentic as possible. Also know that chemistry is sometimes not instantaneous or sometimes you will not click with someone for whatever reason. It's usually not anyone's fault, just how it goes. However, focusing on the human aspect of things by trying to establish a connection and a level of comfort with that person will usually help spark things and will often get them to come back.

As for memorable experiences, I can't really pinpoint too many specific things an SP did in a sexual sense but it was more about the attitude and the atmosphere they created. the things that stood out were the little things. For example, one of my past regular ladies used to always buy my favourite beer every time I came over. I never asked her to do it, she just did it on her own. That was the kind of stuff that showed she cared. I think if you create an escape where people feel safe and cared for you will have a long list of regular clients.

Hope that helps :)
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Thank you!
I have had amazing mentorship in regards to creating rules & boundaries but freedom within them... just practice too I suppose..

Keep an eye out for my new pics... I am getting a feel for how I want to share myself as I want to express myself authentically here.. not one for doing things the same as everyone else:)

I appreciate your guidance... that is what I want to create.. connection and an escape ....

Txxx
 
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JimDandy said:
It's actually "bated breath". After being so anal you probably think I'm into greek lol. That would be an incorrect assumption.

Welcome to the board :)

JD
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You aren't truly a bona fide Board member until JD has corrected your spelling or grammer on some occasion.:biggrin1:
 
TaraGreen

TaraGreen

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JimDandy said:
It's actually "bated breath". After being so anal you probably think I'm into greek lol. That would be an incorrect assumption.

Welcome to the board :)

JD
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lol... I appreciate the correction... I am anal about spelling and grammar myself as you can see .... and directness is a quality I admire...
And no, I will not make such an assumption....

T xxx
 
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TaraGreen

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ddcanz said:
You aren't truly a bona fide Board member until JD has corrected your spelling or grammer on some occasion.:biggrin1:
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Aww I am honored by the warm welcome...

T xxx
 
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