Do SP's enjoy the date?

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Hoehoehoe

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I'm really curious if any SP's actually enjoy the sex!! I'm sure it depends on many factors but in general what gets the ladies turned on regarding their date. Is it sexual prowess. Or looks, body type, personality, charm, humour, a big unit LOL. Is the age of the customer an issue. I'd like to hear from some of you. Thx
 

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They may or may not for many reasons, but always for the money. There should be no illusions.
 

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Absolutely, it's the size... of your wallet. If it gets to the point she isn't charging you, you have to face the fact your girlfriend is a hooker.
 
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I was in the biz for 3 years and a lot of it was really truly very very good. It takes two to tango and if one is great at leading, and the other is willing to follow, well then good times will be had by all!!
After 7 years since I retired, I’m back for sexy adventure.. not quitting my day job- this is going to be a fun temporary hobby!
 

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Wouldn't it totally suck if they didn't at least enjoy some or most encounters? Then that would feel like a gruesome job...
 

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If you have to ask they probably are not.

If they do, you know it.
 

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I'm really curious if any SP's actually enjoy the sex!! I'm sure it depends on many factors but in general what gets the ladies turned on regarding their date. Is it sexual prowess. Or looks, body type, personality, charm, humour, a big unit LOL. Is the age of the customer an issue. I'd like to hear from some of you. Thx
I can only speak for myself but for me it's all about the connection from the moment he walks in the door, the energy... nothing turns me on more then a man who is eager for me lol The getting to know each other a bit before we have our way with one another in my boudoir! The teasing on the couch the trying to behave myself so I don't scare him away with my lust lol
Looks , body type is just a package, charm and humor will always trump but just being in that moment with someone who is equally horny for you is the cherry on the sundae for me!
My body craves touch and i am honestly a horny woman , and i am a little selfish at times with you boys because I want fun too lol ;)
 

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I'm really curious if any SP's actually enjoy the sex!! I'm sure it depends on many factors but in general what gets the ladies turned on regarding their date. Is it sexual prowess. Or looks, body type, personality, charm, humour, a big unit LOL. Is the age of the customer an issue. I'd like to hear from some of you. Thx
That is a great question. Depends on the SP and why
she is there. Sometimes there can be a great connection
and she can have has much fun as you. If your booking
15/30 min dates than maybe not so much. If your wining
and dining first than def an advantage to that and they
enjoy it as well.
I spoke with a lady at CEASE out of Edmonton awhile
back. She was former SP and now counsels them.
She told me 90 percent of escorts who are now
retired looked at the job as " being paid to get
raped".
Sounds shitty I know. They def all dont view it
that way. Just be very selective with whom you
choose to see and will have a great time as will
the lady.
 

Riza

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That is a great question. Depends on the SP and why
she is there. Sometimes there can be a great connection
and she can have has much fun as you. If your booking
15/30 min dates than maybe not so much. If your wining
and dining first than def an advantage to that and they
enjoy it as well.
So true as far as I am concerned.

She told me 90 percent of escorts who are now
retired looked at the job as " being paid to get
raped".
Sounds shitty I know.
Don't agree with 90%. Can only speak for myself and those that I work with or know. You may have a client occasionally and that may be the thought after but most of the time it doesn't apply. If that is the way a SP feels all the time with every client they are definitely in the wrong field. Every profession has that type of a worker, the teacher with the short fuse and hates kids and the stress that comes with teaching, the bitchy overworked nurse, list goes on.

If you don't like your job its time to move on and if you are a SP the sooner the better.
 

Riza

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There's always exceptions, right? A counsellor who sees many former escorts would normally have the most current data. To say rape though strikes me as rather harsh. Sounds like she was simply exaggerating to make the point that SPs don't like what they're doing.
Always exceptions to everything. I just don't agree with the percentage they came up with. As you said I think they are exaggerating the point to make it sound worse that it is. Again this is my opinion from the people I know. I do know of one that did feel like that and she thankfully got out of the profession, always exceptions.
 

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Always exceptions to everything. I just don't agree with the percentage they came up with. As you said I think they are exaggerating the point to make it sound worse that it is. Again this is my opinion from the people I know. I do know of one that did feel like that and she thankfully got out of the profession, always exceptions.
Perhaps her percentage is skewed because those who didn't feel that way didn't feel the need to see an exit counsellor?
 

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You know your escort enjoyed the date after she thanks you on PERB when you write a review. Many well reviewed ladies do this graciously
 

jgg

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You know your escort enjoyed the date after she thanks you on PERB when you write a review. Many well reviewed ladies do this graciously
Jeez, I hate to be a cynic. Must have been the wind that blew through the Prairies the last couple of days?

They most likely are sincere but it is part of good marketing. More name recognition. Guys see that if she enjoyed herself too, it should result in more business.

Good thing I'm going on an extended date with an ATF. I really need an attitude adjustment!
 
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They most likely are sincere but it is part of good marketing. More name recognition. Guys see that if she enjoyed herself too, it should result in more business.
Couldn't agree with you more- including the sincerity. It just makes good business sense.
It's also a way to give back to the Board in a review context without going into details- said client/member was enjoyable to be with.
 

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I think it really depends on how you treated the SP, did she get to enjoy your company as well, did she do things she liked to do, or was she disrespected and pushed around to do things she doesn't like to do. Were you polite, hygienic, conscious of her time etc. Was there a little bit of connection and reciprocity or was she treated like sex robot etc. And then with reviews if you do write one, are you conscious of how you speak about her and your time together, or were you rating her like a piece of meat and criticizing her etc. There's always good dates, great dates, ok dates, bad dates, traumatizing dates, the full spectrum when it comes to meeting strangers.
I would fit into your preferred age demographic nicely Charlotte. I count my time in this "hobby" by decades not years. And I prefer a lady with a mature attitude and some experience. I've never thought of myself as being naive, but as of late I've had my eyes opened by a couple of such well reviewed ladies. They echo what you say....some good some bad and some terrifying experiences. Some things that leave them traumatized. Reviews that make them feel wonderful and some that leave them dehumanized. I guess the naivety is my hope that we all treat you with respect and a little compassion.
 

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That is a great question. Depends on the SP and why
she is there. Sometimes there can be a great connection
and she can have has much fun as you. If your booking
15/30 min dates than maybe not so much. If your wining
and dining first than def an advantage to that and they
enjoy it as well.
I spoke with a lady at CEASE out of Edmonton awhile
back.
She was former SP and now counsels them.
She told me 90 percent of escorts who are now
retired looked at the job as " being paid to get
raped".
Sounds shitty I know. They def all dont view it
that way. Just be very selective with whom you
choose to see and will have a great time as will
the lady.
Consider the source: The Centre To End All Sexual Exploitation. This is not an organization like PACE; by sexworkers for sexworkers. It is an organization that gets funded to paint the grimmest possible picture of sexwork, sexworkers, and their clients. They are funded by the Sisters of St Joseph, the Stollery Foundation, The United Way & the Alberta Govt. Its predecessor organization started Edmonton's first "john school", which they continue to operate. Their funding depends on statistics like the one you quoted; her job depends on the viewpoint that all prostitution is exploitation, all sexworkers are helpless victims, & participation in this activity is shameful, harmful, criminal & dangerous. Their website even offers you the chance to VOLUNTEER for their john school at a discounted rate from the $500 they'll charge anyone who's ordered there by the court. Statistics are easy to skew if you pick your sample carefully enough.
 

jgg

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Consider the source: The Centre To End All Sexual Exploitation. This is not an organization like PACE; by sexworkers for sexworkers. It is an organization that gets funded to paint the grimmest possible picture of sexwork, sexworkers, and their clients. They are funded by the Sisters of St Joseph, the Stollery Foundation, The United Way & the Alberta Govt. Its predecessor organization started Edmonton's first "john school", which they continue to operate. Their funding depends on statistics like the one you quoted; her job depends on the viewpoint that all prostitution is exploitation, all sexworkers are helpless victims, & participation in this activity is shameful, harmful, criminal & dangerous. Their website even offers you the chance to VOLUNTEER for their john school at a discounted rate from the $500 they'll charge anyone who's ordered there by the court. Statistics are easy to skew if you pick your sample carefully enough.
They should stick to the sex workers that are exploited and need their help. Focus on the real problems around us.
 

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Consider the source: The Centre To End All Sexual Exploitation. This is not an organization like PACE; by sexworkers for sexworkers. It is an organization that gets funded to paint the grimmest possible picture of sexwork, sexworkers, and their clients. They are funded by the Sisters of St Joseph, the Stollery Foundation, The United Way & the Alberta Govt. Its predecessor organization started Edmonton's first "john school", which they continue to operate. Their funding depends on statistics like the one you quoted; her job depends on the viewpoint that all prostitution is exploitation, all sexworkers are helpless victims, & participation in this activity is shameful, harmful, criminal & dangerous. Their website even offers you the chance to VOLUNTEER for their john school at a discounted rate from the $500 they'll charge anyone who's ordered there by the court. Statistics are easy to skew if you pick your sample carefully enough.
THIS!.......
I have helped underage girls off the street, without taking advantage of them or their situation.
Bought them something to eat, talked to them about their bruises, and driven them home to their parents....and even knocked on the freaking door myself, to get the reaction, and lay of the land I'm walking her into.
I'm not trying to fix something, just helping someone in need, that's willing to take it.....Very rarely do my spider senses ring when in the company of a professional. I find that the young ladies here, and out there.... are not the type to become a statistic ,even when life throws a shovel full of shit at them.
I'm also very sure ....many others here ,have done the same ,or would given the chance to end exploitation of anyone.
I also believe that as a group of like minded people,....for the most part.....it's not in our nature, and goes against the very fabric that ties some of us together, in a strange sort of way.

I believe it was you Miss Erica that coined the phrase that still rings clearly in my memory..... "Mamma never raised no victim"
 
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