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Giving up this hobby?

bangsnation

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Has anyone considered or given up this hobby for a while/ for good?

What were your reasons ( if you care to share) ?
 

jamasianman

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I gave it up for 2 months because i was trying to fix my deathgrip and had forgone masturbation.
Before that i had given it up for 6 months due to lack of money. I was cut at work and my fun money was depleted so i was counting pennies until i got a better job. I also dont see another provider immediately if i have a subpar exexperience.
 

bangsnation

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I've been trying to move away from this, for personal reasons, not financial, just personal.

And every now and then my hormones overpower my brain and go back indulging in this.. I absolutely adore the time I have spent with sps. Had over 60 sessions just this year, but want to get away..
 

51shades

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Once the plant is seeded its not to shake!!

Not impossible but hard
Yah, I feel you can only hold back for so long but the sex drive will always bring you back.
I am a bit curious how often do people poon. Seems like a really expensive hobby even just two times a month.
 

bangsnation

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I do twice a week if not more... And I've had days in the past when my sex drive made me see three sps in a day.
 

giaebonyprincess

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Once the seed is planted its hard to shake!!!

Not impossible but hard
Yah, I feel you can only hold back for so long but the sex drive will always bring you back.
I am a bit curious how often do people poon. Seems like a really expensive hobby even just two times a month.
I mixed the plant and seed...lol. Had to edit it.
 

beefcake11

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Like any addiction..which is truly what it is. It takes work to quit and a really strong desire. I'm not even a high volume guy and I feel the need to stop. I don't always feel fantastic after visiting an SP. Sex is a drug. Anyone have any advice, please let me know.
 
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I have seen more sp's than I can count last three months and honestly got what I wanted out of this which was to get better at sex and be less shy. I don't regret any of the experiences I had but I have no desire to bed a new girl every other day. I find that having one partner you can wake up next to is a better experience than any sp I have seen (also nothing beats horny morning sex) . :)
 

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A sp is usually a safer option from bar scene hookups. Especially because at the bar you could be drunk and a condom may not be available. Some people go to the same sp every time and can have some connection as well.

If you are wanting a relationship then put your motivation there. A lot of people don't want or have the time to put effort into a relationship so sp's fill a vital role in giving companionship and the closeness of human touch.
 

bangsnation

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Not at all undermining the sp. I've got close to a couple of them too in the past and have been loyal to just seeing them.
That's not the topic here
A sp is usually a safer option from bar scene hookups. Especially because at the bar you could be drunk and a condom may not be available. Some people go to the same sp every time and can have some connection as well.

If you are wanting a relationship then put your motivation there. A lot of people don't want or have the time to put effort into a relationship so sp's fill a vital role in giving companionship and the closeness of human touch.
 
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take8easy

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It is addictive but it is not too hard to quit. Take my example, I have managed to quit it about 15 times during last three years.

If someone like me can do it, so can anyone.
 

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A lot of people don't want or have the time to put effort into a relationship so sp's fill a vital role in giving companionship and the closeness of human touch.
Agree

But I think he just wants to stop in general. I think there may be groups for people who are addicted this, kind of like AA or NA? Something to look into, you wouldn't be the first so don't be afraid.
 

radon

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I suppose so. I don't have an addictive personality so I have not thought of it that way.
 

Highjack

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Hey Take8easy, have you considered repulsion therapy? Like how a chocolate factory allows its new employees to eat as much chocolate as they want, knowing that they'll never want chocolate again after their first week? I tried it when I was younger, and spent all my money getting laid. Oh sure, I've had to have supplemental booster treatments over the years but it essentially worked... :)
 

Avioneto123

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Has anyone considered or given up this hobby for a while/ for good?

What were your reasons ( if you care to share) ?
In my case,mostly financial reasons.Its an expensive hobby.Also,after a mediocre session, I find no pleasure in continuing with the hobby. Then,I read this forum, and I am back in the game again.
 

stryker789

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Interesting discussion. I myself tried to quit around 3-4 times, never successful because I have a weak mind LOL. My reasons are mostly financial, and thinking about starting a serious relationship (which was not successful, this is mostly financial as well haha)

Quitting is all about self discipline, nothing is stronger than your own will. I guess if you truly want to quit, you have to stop making excuses to let yourself go easy.. (which I constantly been doing)

Please share any success stories...
 

beefcake11

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I think for me a lot of the times it's the process of the rush which is addictive and I basically relate it to chasing a high and much like a drug at the end is disappointment and remorse. Lots of cases I compare to my gf with whom I have great sex and is a complete smoke show. And then I need to go do this? I think it's the male need for variety. Just don't know if other guys go through the same.
 
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