Mmmmm, If you are planning to spend more time with her then you cannot expect her to be "ON" 24/7, we are real people who sometimes do have resting bitch face, or we want to meditate or not talk for 10 or 15 mins, especially if you have spent more time together, lol. I would suggest you ask her what is happening, casually, when or if you notice a change in her energy, just say what's up? Everything ok?? That will open the door for her to talk with you. Maybe it was something about her day, she had an issue with a friend, or work related problem and maybe she wants to talk about it, but doesn't want to discuss her work. It's a double edged sword. Sometimes being too honest has consequences as well. If she enjoys her time with you, most of the time, and has made this arrangement she must trust you, and if you have seen her this long she's obviously an amazing lady. Just try talking to her about it casually without prying.
Maybe if she was working in this industry full-time and suddenly stopped, it may have been too abrupt and maybe she's getting flack from her clients cause she's unavailable. I don't want to speculate too much since I do not know the dynamics of your situation. So basically are you paying her enough to take off work for 6 months to be exclusive to you?? Or not? Are you trying to change her? Does she want to change her work? In a situation like that, I know people who would be devastated if I just suddenly stopped being available.
Sounds like you guys have an open relationship where she can still work but as I said Idk your dynamics. Maybe she's worried you will fall in love too deeply. Those would be the first items that would concern me as an sp...
I thought about what you wrote and it
got me thinking, We do alone time when
spending lots of time together. That is
crucial for both of us as we're both private
and enjoy what I call "me time".
So def don't expect her to be on 24/7.
But I do think she is quite used to being
connected with friends via phone texting
and what not, When we spend weekends
together or whatever it kinda throws that off
a bit.
It's interesting getting to know her and seeing
the dynamics change. Over time for sure walls
have come down on both sides. Some of what
I have learned is interesting. Some makes me
wonder, hence this thread.
We are very clear about my financial obligation.
So that's a non issue.
As far as love, feelings and stuff like that.
Well of course spend a ton of time with anyone
and some sort of feelings will develop.its only
natural. I've seen her pour them out and clam
up as well. Hot & cold.
But love, no. Jealousy if she's with another
client when not with me, no.
I do understand what some posters are saying
and will for sure heed the advice and be responsible.
I would be an idiot if I wasn't careful. And I'm def
not an idiot. I do understand fully what this is about.
She is a paid companion and I understand that.
She knows I am very open but also understands
me very well which is why we click very well.
Everything in life has a time frame. Where this ends
is tough to say as I don't think to much about it.
Just prefer to think about enjoying our time together.
Yes agreed.. OP is looking for some validation. It ain't gonna come from the people here. Take heed OP.
Um validation, seriously ? I'm a full on grown adult
and don't need any validation from anyone.
Sometimes a bit of guidance is useful. Everyone needs
a bit now and again. Nothing wrong with that.
Thank you all for your input and PM's.
Suggestions def noted