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    Are Escorts Honest?

    Lurker for awhile but I do have a question.
    Do you think legit escorts in general are
    honest or do they say what we want to
    hear for the money.
    I'm speaking more of much longer dates
    with a lady you think you might know very
    well. Dinners, movies weekends & travel .
    The reason I ask is I'm considering enteringl
    into a long term agreement with a lady
    whom I've known for awhile.
    Everything is great but sometimes things
    seem a little off with her.
    Thoughts from SD's or gents entered into
    a long term agreement would be appreciated.
    PM is fine as well.
    Last edited by Reference3A; 07-29-2017 at 01:22 AM. Reason: Typo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goldhunter View Post
    I'm not sure what you mean by a longer term agreement but I had a well known SP at the time, Honey was her name, about 10 years ago, rip me off for $3000 saying she was only taking clients on a monthly basis. I paid the money and got one blowjob for it. But remember one thing ,before you trust her, she is a whore and if she rips you off what is your recourse? Are you going to sue?
    I was considering a six month agreement. I've travelled with the lady in question and
    spent a ton of time with her. We have a lot of fun. No, she wouldn't take money and run.
    Just other aspects kinda give me pause. More of a take me granted situation.
    Not always being honest about other aspects seem to have come up.
    Once I get to know a person really well I'm very open and always honest.
    I kinda woukd appreciate that in return but don't think so.
    Think she may play on ones emotions a bit which concerns me.
    And before you say it, No , not in love. Just enjoy her company and
    we always have a great time. But there have been a few not so great
    weekends in the past. But I'm also of the mindset that nobody is
    perfect either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goldhunter View Post
    I say if you pay more than a day in advance you deserve to be fucked over. Your money though. Not sure why your looking for advice on here Johnsmit
    Paying month to month. Nots concerned about her stealing
    so much. Never showed signed of that.
    But has displayed signs of a bit of manipulation. Nothing crazy
    but enough to notice. Haha
    I don't understand your last comment. Figured get some
    input from other gents.
    Johnsmit? Don't get it ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goldhunter View Post
    I say if you pay more than a day in advance you deserve to be fucked over. Your money though. Not sure why your looking for advice on here Johnsmit
    No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by poonerboi View Post
    No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.
    Ok I understand what your thinking. No, not
    a previous member or someone with two
    handles. Admin is more than welcome to
    check my URL. Just me, one handle.
    Sorry if my question across as odd.
    Was just looking for some perspective
    from other members who possibly got
    involved with a long term arrangement
    and had it go sideways due to possible
    manipulation or deciet on her part.
    Thanks

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    Are escorts honest? That's rather like asking "are human beings honest?" We all know the answer to that one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yvr_hacker View Post
    Your question makes no sense. You're paying for a female to provide you with a fantasy. You imagine it's a real date and she's into you, etc. Then you question if she's real? If you paid people to be your friends do you think they'd be your friends? It's no different if you pay them to fuck you or date you. They may well enjoy your company but they are supplying you a service you paid for.
    Your answer, right here R3A....well said yvr....

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    Yah it not me
    I have had my day and given out a lot of money for no sex lol.
    As for honesty.
    Just be honest with your self and how you treat others.
    We all live under some faults pretense and lie if we see escorts and most escort have to pretend when then see clients.
    Also we all live two lives ..if any thing we can be semi honest here with each other about sex anyways ��

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    Quote Originally Posted by poonerboi View Post
    No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.
    You're right about johnsmit's grammar! He reminds me of ChappyM on the Vic board.
    "If sex is Mount Olympus, doggy style is drinking the nectar of the gods and communing with Them"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reference3A View Post
    Lurker for awhile but I do have a question.
    Do you think legit escorts in general are
    honest or do they say what we want to
    hear for the money.
    I'm speaking more of much longer dates
    with a lady you think you might know very
    well. Dinners, movies weekends & travel .
    The reason I ask is I'm considering enteringl
    into a long term agreement with a lady
    whom I've known for awhile.
    Everything is great but sometimes things
    seem a little off with her.
    Thoughts from SD's or gents entered into
    a long term agreement would be appreciated.
    PM is fine as well.
    I did this years ago and if I did it all over again, I'd make the donation incrimentally throughout the month rather than all up front.

    Once you get close to someone there are usually little arguments that occur that would never happen if you kept seeing them 2 hours at a time. Withdrawal of service while they are holding all the cash is a reality and one should never get to the point where you are uncomfortable with the situation.

    You have highlighted some of the positive things like the weekends away, extended holidays etc with someone you are sexually compatible with over a number of days. Once on these trips it's important to communicate that the trip is paid for for X days. If you are not exclusive to her be sure to realize she will have other regulars also wanting her company.


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    Quote Originally Posted by badbadboy View Post
    I did this years ago and if I did it all over again, I'd make the donation incrimentally throughout the month rather than all up front.

    Once you get close to someone there are usually little arguments that occur that would never happen if you kept seeing them 2 hours at a time. Withdrawal of service while they are holding all the cash is a reality and one should never get to the point where you are uncomfortable with the situation.

    You have highlighted some of the positive things like the weekends away, extended holidays etc with someone you are sexually compatible with over a number of days. Once on these trips it's important to communicate that the trip is paid for for X days. If you are not exclusive to her be sure to realize she will have other regulars also wanting her company.
    Good tips, appreciate it.
    But communication as you said is so very important.
    We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
    When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
    The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
    maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
    I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
    or not to when we're apart. Her call.
    As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
    companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
    very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
    I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
    question I had.
    Its difficult to put a fine point on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reference3A View Post
    Good tips, appreciate it.
    But communication as you said is so very important.
    We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
    When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
    The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
    maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
    I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
    or not to when we're apart. Her call.
    As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
    companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
    very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
    I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
    question I had.
    Its difficult to put a fine point on.
    Me personally I like the pay as go. When you give a monthly fee and things aren't laid out on the table there maybe HUGE issues. You may be expecting something more and she may not want to. Already you mentioned a pretty huge RED flag manipulation you have to be careful with that.

    There's just too many hot SPs to choose from don't limit yourself, this is suppose to be fun exciting hobby not a headache.

    It is what it is....don't confuse it or someone always gets hurt.

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    You're looking for someone to tell you everything is fine and she's really into you or you can deal with reality and realize this this is temporary and will come crashing down eventually. Get a real girlfriend if that's what you're looking for. I don't get this thing where guys want long term relationships with escorts instead of just putting in the effort to find the real deal.
    Don't look for honesty in this business, don't be a sucker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UhOh View Post
    You're looking for someone to tell you everything is fine and she's really into you or you can deal with reality and realize this this is temporary and will come crashing down eventually. Get a real girlfriend if that's what you're looking for. I don't get this thing where guys want long term relationships with escorts instead of just putting in the effort to find the real deal.
    Don't look for honesty in this business, don't be a sucker.
    Yes agreed.. OP is looking for some validation. It ain't gonna come from the people here. Take heed OP.

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    Mmmmm, If you are planning to spend more time with her then you cannot expect her to be "ON" 24/7, we are real people who sometimes do have resting bitch face, or we want to meditate or not talk for 10 or 15 mins, especially if you have spent more time together, lol. I would suggest you ask her what is happening, casually, when or if you notice a change in her energy, just say what's up? Everything ok?? That will open the door for her to talk with you. Maybe it was something about her day, she had an issue with a friend, or work related problem and maybe she wants to talk about it, but doesn't want to discuss her work. It's a double edged sword. Sometimes being too honest has consequences as well. If she enjoys her time with you, most of the time, and has made this arrangement she must trust you, and if you have seen her this long she's obviously an amazing lady. Just try talking to her about it casually without prying.

    Maybe if she was working in this industry full-time and suddenly stopped, it may have been too abrupt and maybe she's getting flack from her clients cause she's unavailable. I don't want to speculate too much since I do not know the dynamics of your situation. So basically are you paying her enough to take off work for 6 months to be exclusive to you?? Or not? Are you trying to change her? Does she want to change her work? In a situation like that, I know people who would be devastated if I just suddenly stopped being available.

    Sounds like you guys have an open relationship where she can still work but as I said Idk your dynamics. Maybe she's worried you will fall in love too deeply. Those would be the first items that would concern me as an sp...

    Quote Originally Posted by Reference3A View Post
    Good tips, appreciate it.
    But communication as you said is so very important.
    We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
    When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
    The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
    maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
    I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
    or not to when we're apart. Her call.
    As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
    companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
    very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
    I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
    question I had.
    Its difficult to put a fine point on.

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