Being called "Babe" or "Daddy" by an SP

"Hey Babe" / "Hi Daddy"

  • Don't mind it

    Votes: 17 30.4%
  • Can't stand it

    Votes: 22 39.3%
  • Indifferent

    Votes: 17 30.4%

  • Total voters
    56
  • Poll closed .

girth-brooks

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I'm wondering if anyone else notices this and do you love it or hate it? Not to be rude, but I find it kind of awkward. I get it on the phone the most and it seems to be common.
 

Man Mountain

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I can't decide how to vote on this one. I don't mind "babe" but I get really uncomfortable when called "daddy." I don't have kids but it still just bothers me... But there's nothing I hate more than being called "papi." Can't stand that!
 

take8easy

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I have this thing for roleplay and sometimes I do ask them to do just that... and in some cases some younger girls called me daddy without me even asking. I think it was Layla who did it so sexily that next moment my sperms rushed out to say how do you do to her.
So yes, I enjoy it. Must be the greys around my junior!!!
 

girth-brooks

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I can't decide how to vote on this one. I don't mind "babe" but I get really uncomfortable when called "daddy." I don't have kids but it still just bothers me... But there's nothing I hate more than being called "papi." Can't stand that!
Getting either one right off the bat just rubs me the wrong way for some reason. I get it, but sometimes it's too much.
 

badbadboy

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I get babe, hon or badboy a lot. No big deal for me.

Can't recall the last 'Daddy' I was called and admittedly don't care for it.

I do have a certain Santa envy though ;)

 

Lo-ki

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Check your closet..:)
Indifferent on the subject.
Call me what you like....just provide me the service I am paying for...:)
 

steverino

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For me the daddy thing is weirdly exciting. There was an article recently how the trend in porn is familial relationship (step sister/brother and various mother/father and daughter stuff. They have to specify that it isn't a real relationship.
 

take8easy

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Many of you have pointed out how 'babe' or 'daddy' sounds fake, especially the former. But this whole idea of pooning is kind of fake in the sense that the lady you are seeing is NOT your real GF, it is just an GFE. This is all make believe.

Just like 'baby' in a love or sex relationship doesn't mean a child, 'daddy' is not about father-daughter relationship either. There is a bit of dom-sub dynamics going on here.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/sex-therapist-why-women-call-partners-daddy/1704307/

During texting, girls use words like, "yes hun, I am available" or "yea, I am free babe," or "sure sweetie, see you at xxxx".

These are nothing but words to make the conversation polite. Stop taking these words too literally. As long she is not name calling you, it's all good, me thinks.
 

Cami Parker

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Daddy should only be used at the gents request.... as far as babe, baby honey etc I guess it depends on the service you're looking for. Technically the context of a real GFE is that you are supposed to be treated as if the lady is your girlfriend the entire time. Therefore it seems appropriate to say honey or sweetheart (maybe not during, but before and after) to someone that's supposed to be your boyfriend. However if you're simply seeking srandard service I can see how that would be off putting, for sure. What if it's your regular lady? How do you feel then?
 

Avery

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I'm neutral with SPs calling me most common terms of endearment. It's certainly not necessary, and never requested, but it's OK.

However, the only people who have ever called me "Daddy" are my kids (when they were little), and I would not want anyone else to ever call me "Daddy".
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Many of you have pointed out how 'babe' or 'daddy' sounds fake, especially the former. But this whole idea of pooning is kind of fake in the sense that the lady you are seeing is NOT your real GF, it is just an GFE. This is all make believe.

Just like 'baby' in a love or sex relationship doesn't mean a child, 'daddy' is not about father-daughter relationship either. There is a bit of dom-sub dynamics going on here.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/sex-therapist-why-women-call-partners-daddy/1704307/

During texting, girls use words like, "yes hun, I am available" or "yea, I am free babe," or "sure sweetie, see you at xxxx".

These are nothing but words to make the conversation polite. Stop taking these words too literally. As long she is not name calling you, it's all good, me thinks.
The inverse of this is "u avail babe"? DISLIKE! Is it really so hard to call me Erica? I try, early on in the conversation, to ask what a client would like to be called for this reason! In my not so humble opinion, the worst offenders of these is 'dear'. My MOM calls me dear. I find it really inappropriate & awkward! Coming at the end of a sentence like "I sure would like to see a pic of your hot pussy", it puts my teeth on edge. Until I know what a gentleman wants me to call him, I usually default to 'sweetie' or 'sweetheart'...Yes, if you put me into a sub/Dom dynamic, I might call you Daddy, but usually that's in response to a cue from a client like "That's a good girl...suck Daddy harder'. If you prefer a sub/Domme dynamic, we'll find something that works for both of us...hon.
 

Chef99

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As others have said, "Babe" seems fake and I don't call an SP Babe either. To me, terms of endearment are something that develop with a relationship - so perhaps if I were seeing someone regularly it would eventually seem right.
"Daddy" would be an instant deal breaker and instant deflater....
 

take8easy

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I am a bit surprised at people's reaction to the word 'babe' or 'baby'. In fact I just got off the phone with an SP and this word was repeated a few times. I guess those of you who seem to be put off by these words would REALLY be peed off if you went to UK where you get called "mai luv' and "daahlin" by even strangers.

I remember a lady working in Fleetwood library who used to do that. It is the context, not the actual words that make a difference.
 

felixthecat

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Daddy should only be used at the gents request....
It's a thing recently, from experience. Men should be aware it might happen unprompted with a non-vanilla company. As the link by T8E explains, it's a culture unrelated to the literal taboo meaning.

In hindsight, there were some advance clues. One girl was wearing a collar in photos, a submissive play is not a surprise. Another used the word "daddy" in her eros.com ad. Another time it was unexpected, but age-wise she couldn't mean it literally, easier to understand it was just a play.
 

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I am a bit surprised at people's reaction to the word 'babe' or 'baby'. In fact I just got off the phone with an SP and this word was repeated a few times. I guess those of you who seem to be put off by these words would REALLY be peed off if you went to UK where you get called "mai luv' and "daahlin" by even strangers.
What about 'guvnor'? Don't they say that there too.

I prefer to be called 'baby daddy'.
 
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