I'm wondering if anyone else notices this and do you love it or hate it? Not to be rude, but I find it kind of awkward. I get it on the phone the most and it seems to be common.
Getting either one right off the bat just rubs me the wrong way for some reason. I get it, but sometimes it's too much.I can't decide how to vote on this one. I don't mind "babe" but I get really uncomfortable when called "daddy." I don't have kids but it still just bothers me... But there's nothing I hate more than being called "papi." Can't stand that!
The inverse of this is "u avail babe"? DISLIKE! Is it really so hard to call me Erica? I try, early on in the conversation, to ask what a client would like to be called for this reason! In my not so humble opinion, the worst offenders of these is 'dear'. My MOM calls me dear. I find it really inappropriate & awkward! Coming at the end of a sentence like "I sure would like to see a pic of your hot pussy", it puts my teeth on edge. Until I know what a gentleman wants me to call him, I usually default to 'sweetie' or 'sweetheart'...Yes, if you put me into a sub/Dom dynamic, I might call you Daddy, but usually that's in response to a cue from a client like "That's a good girl...suck Daddy harder'. If you prefer a sub/Domme dynamic, we'll find something that works for both of us...hon.Many of you have pointed out how 'babe' or 'daddy' sounds fake, especially the former. But this whole idea of pooning is kind of fake in the sense that the lady you are seeing is NOT your real GF, it is just an GFE. This is all make believe.
Just like 'baby' in a love or sex relationship doesn't mean a child, 'daddy' is not about father-daughter relationship either. There is a bit of dom-sub dynamics going on here.
http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/sex-therapist-why-women-call-partners-daddy/1704307/
During texting, girls use words like, "yes hun, I am available" or "yea, I am free babe," or "sure sweetie, see you at xxxx".
These are nothing but words to make the conversation polite. Stop taking these words too literally. As long she is not name calling you, it's all good, me thinks.
It's a thing recently, from experience. Men should be aware it might happen unprompted with a non-vanilla company. As the link by T8E explains, it's a culture unrelated to the literal taboo meaning.Daddy should only be used at the gents request....
What about 'guvnor'? Don't they say that there too.I am a bit surprised at people's reaction to the word 'babe' or 'baby'. In fact I just got off the phone with an SP and this word was repeated a few times. I guess those of you who seem to be put off by these words would REALLY be peed off if you went to UK where you get called "mai luv' and "daahlin" by even strangers.