Good pubs to meet women for older single guys

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Hey guys, I haven't been much of a pub guy, so I just wanted your take on what good pubs are around town for a guy in his mid 30s - mid 40s to go out and meet women? What's a place with a good social atmosphere, some decent looking women and possibly a dance floor too? I'm not a big dancer, but alot of women enjoy that. I'm past the age of going to night clubs now, so I'm just wondering what is a good alternative.
 

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Hey guys, I haven't been much of a pub guy, so I just wanted your take on what good pubs are around town for a guy in his mid 30s - mid 40s to go out and meet women? What's a place with a good social atmosphere, some decent looking women and possibly a dance floor too? I'm not a big dancer, but alot of women enjoy that. I'm past the age of going to night clubs now, so I'm just wondering what is a good alternative.
I'm clearly not a guy, but what city or Province are you in? I think that would be helpful, right?
 

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Hey guys, I haven't been much of a pub guy, so I just wanted your take on what good pubs are around town for a guy in his mid 30s - mid 40s to go out and meet women? What's a place with a good social atmosphere, some decent looking women and possibly a dance floor too? I'm not a big dancer, but alot of women enjoy that. I'm past the age of going to night clubs now, so I'm just wondering what is a good alternative.
Firefighters pub in bby
 

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Hey guys, I haven't been much of a pub guy, so I just wanted your take on what good pubs are around town for a guy in his mid 30s - mid 40s to go out and meet women? What's a place with a good social atmosphere, some decent looking women and possibly a dance floor too? I'm not a big dancer, but alot of women enjoy that. I'm past the age of going to night clubs now, so I'm just wondering what is a good alternative.
Your thread title is misleading. I see "older single guys" in the title. Then I read that the topic is really young whippersnappers in their mid 30s to mid 40s.
 

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Your thread title is misleading. I see "older single guys" in the title. Then I read that the topic is really young whippersnappers in their mid 30s to mid 40s.
I hear ya. If I could edit the title I'd put mid 30s to mid 40s instead of "older single guys" haha.
 

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Hey guys, I haven't been much of a pub guy, so I just wanted your take on what good pubs are around town for a guy in his mid 30s - mid 40s to go out and meet women? What's a place with a good social atmosphere, some decent looking women and possibly a dance floor too? I'm not a big dancer, but alot of women enjoy that. I'm past the age of going to night clubs now, so I'm just wondering what is a good alternative.
My house on a friday or saturday night :p:D:lol::lol:

Have most of your requirements covered except not a pub lol. Good social atmosphere.. check, decent looking women..check, dance floor..check, hot tub...check, swing..check, odds of getting laid....110% :lol:
 

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Hey guys, I just wanted to follow up on this topic to see if anyone could recommend a good pub for a guy to go to by himself, have a beer and meet people and have it not be creepy. I've actually never really gone to a pub at night time by myself to drink. Closest to me doing something like that would be going to a pub for lunch by myself.

Is going to a pub by myself to drink and try to meet women/people something I should even be considering? Or is this a dead end idea and I should consider other avenues to meet women?

Just for extra info, I live in Vancouver and I was considering popping by the Fairview pub on Broadway to see what it was like in there.
 

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I've never met a woman at a club that I've wanted anything more than sex with. So if thats all you're looking for than fine but if you want a relationship than try something else. Clubs or pubs are noisy and hard to have conversation, women are either on guard and shields up or there to find some sucker to buy her drinks all night, any various levels in between.
I've hooked up with more women at coffee shops or house parties than any other source. Try Meetup.com to find people with common interests, that has also worked for me.
 

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For meeting women at a bar, I would expect to meet women who are looking for someone to have fun or hook up with. I'd like to meet the right person eventually, but at the same time you need to have your needs satisfied to pass the time.

With the lack of reply or response to this topic, I wonder if guys on this forum aren't even interested in trying to meet women and they are just content to see SPs for those needs. I know of one guy who has told me he has completely given up on attempting to date or meet women and will just rely on SPs. Kind of a sad state of reality in my opinion. Or maybe other guys on here are just in a relationship with a significant other and then see SPs on the side.
 

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For meeting women at a bar, I would expect to meet women who are looking for someone to have fun or hook up with. I'd like to meet the right person eventually, but at the same time you need to have your needs satisfied to pass the time.

With the lack of reply or response to this topic, I wonder if guys on this forum aren't even interested in trying to meet women and they are just content to see SPs for those needs. I know of one guy who has told me he has completely given up on attempting to date or meet women and will just rely on SPs. Kind of a sad state of reality in my opinion. Or maybe other guys on here are just in a relationship with a significant other and then see SPs on the side.
I'd say 3 or less. Any more than that you start wondering if its going to happen or if your just wasting your time. It could happen as quickly as the first date depending on whether there is a sexual vibe before that or there has been discussion of an FWB or casual hookup scenario.
 

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Thailand.... Can't disagree... depending
Im in Thailand right now. Havent been here in six years and I have to say its gone downhill since last trip. crap exchange rate, and in a bar you are paying about $4 for a beer. Its not the cheap place it was years ago. I would recommend Cambodia
 

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Speaking of pooning in Asia, whatever happened to Dickson and his adventure reports? Those were the some of the best reads on this forum.
 

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In the civvie world, how many dates does one expect to go on before she “puts out”?

I’m just curious..
One. I cannot remember a date in the last ten years that did not end in sex. Mind you I am in my fifties and I find women more open and honest about sex now.
 

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Im in Thailand right now. Havent been here in six years and I have to say its gone downhill since last trip. crap exchange rate, and in a bar you are paying about $4 for a beer. Its not the cheap place it was years ago. I would recommend Cambodia
Pattaya city still has good value for just about everything.... try 2 for one beer 120 bath not bad I know bars with good price beers and ladies :)
 

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hmm i go for 3 dates rule , if it not happening on the 3 date or sooner not a good..
 

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Speaking of pooning in Asia, whatever happened to Dickson and his adventure reports? Those were the some of the best reads on this forum.
Yah that wasn't Dickson but another Caucasian guy who frequented all the AMPs around Vancouver. He also did his field reports from Asia. Forum name started with an "S". Very good writer, entertaining and a frequent poster. He would bring his own music, pantyhose and toys IIRC.

I'm drawing a blank now.
 
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