Just a thought from someone older

badbadboy

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I know it's easier to blame the guy in this equation but shouldn't your anger be directed at your daughter in this case as she is the one how picked the profession?



"My only goal in life is to keep her off the pole." Chris Rock
 

SkinnyJohn

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I don’t know when this movie is going to end and how it’s going to end. But at my age, I live my life as if it’s my last days and with no regrets… only an old guy can say that. ��
There are definitely fewer days ahead of me than what has passed. Now I'm just a live in the moment old man. I'm old enough to be a father to some of the SP's I see. Only regrets I have are when I get a shitty session. Otherwise it's all good.
 

Officeguy

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I do have children and grand children, and trust me if someone said she is your daughters age I would say...yup ...
but she is not my daughter....in my life age as long as adult meant nothing...to me each was a new experience,
when I was 19 I was picked up in Dillingers Night Club in Vancouver by a 50 something lady who looked hot,
I still remember that night as one of the hottest ever....I am a fairly big guy evenly balanced in size and shape,
the wife makes me hike up mountains or to the top of castles while on holidays lol, I can keep up with anyone as
long as its walking.....this started for me in december when I decided that I did not want to wake up one morning
and not be able to complete my bucketlist of travel and play....I am retired and travelling all over the world (cruising), I have completed
two of three of my bucket list as far as ladies go, the one left may happen one day, being with two woman at once..
though with ED its kind of scary lol....but if it happens I will trust my sp to find the right person to join us...but it
is not as important as it once was....I am smiling again I noticed...even got hit on TWICE on our recent 16 day cruise,
I am confident and smile openly at passing ladies and I get it back...damn they even just smile at me as I walk by...tonight in the
elevator a woman much younger smiled and started chatting,she said she loved my tan,where was I...she would not leave
the elevator on her floor and just chatted holding the door open....my sp is right...I am different now than when she met
me...and I am projecting it I guess...life is great!!!!....
 
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Paulpooner

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OG don't feel like the Lone Ranger. I've been in this life for 20 years come August and my next bday will be 69. I'm going to have myself one hell of a 69th bday party!!! Can't decide whether it will be my fav porn star or one of the many lovely ladies here. This lifestyle is really coming to become normal here in Canada. In the Us where I am from it is going the other way. I feel I have done NOTHING bad and feel blessed to have watched the hobby develop because of the Internet.
I was married for 14 years and can't remember a time in my life that I was so unhappy. I have 2 daughters that are in their late 30's and early 40's and they know what's up. At 1st they were very upset but have come around. LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLLEST!!!!!
 

Officeguy

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Paulpays------Right on...live life to the max...just as I feel i am finally starting to do....seems us older guys will give hope to the young guys worried about things stopping when they hit 60.....I will say though you are correct in one way...I thought I was alone at this age before I really started looking at perb.....then i was accepted by anyone i made appointments with even though that number is low in my case...
i am happier than i have been in 30 years....
 

take8easy

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I am middle-aged myself and speaking strictly physically, I have absolutely no problem with being with a younger girl. I have been with at least three girls who were between 19 and 21 at the most. Again physically, it was a turn on, but that does not always mean there was that ... elusive chemistry. But that is something which can be discussed under, "Do you prefer older, or younger girls?"

So, I have no problem with being with a younger girl. I have a family that has nieces who are young. Does it make feel guilty while with a younger girl? No. Although these young girls are same age (and even younger) group as girls in my family, but they ARE NOT my family. They are of legal age as well. They are doing it by choice and many of them are studying as well and that is just great.

Once, I was talking to this online female friend of mine and I told her that I had started this hobby and some of the girls were in their early to mid twenties. She is a bit of a feminist so the lecture started. She told me that she hates me for being with a prostitute. I asked her, do you hate these girls too? She said no, she doesn't and she respects them. Well, then........ she has no reason to hate me, I told her. Many of these younger girls are going to school and using this profession to pay their fees. If men like me didn't see them, then......... may be their life would be much harder. Anyway, everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion.


As much as I admit that sex is more fun with a slightly older ladies, I think I am speaking for many guys that most men love the idea of being with a much younger (and legal age) girl. If that makes us dirty old (or middle aged in my case) men, so be it. :)
 

Officeguy

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take8easy - it is so interesting that we late middle aged guys are all pretty close to the same in many ways....I do have a granddaughter who is 18!.....and I also came very close to booking a 18 year old
several months back....did not phase me about the age....I do agree the chemistry would be very difficult to even come close to a lady somewhat closer in age to myself.....but if I did the booking it would have been for the little guy...he has no conscience and no arms to hug....I did book with a young independant asian girl as part of my bucket list to dos in life......it was a very good time...but she looked sooooo young it was kinda tough for me..... I was very careful ( thank you perb and t8) to be with someone who was a professional and very respected with great feed back.....this was for two reasons...so i didnt get ripped off or just a bad experience and to me it was important not to be with a girl who for other reasons HAD to do this as profession (drugs or what ever)....even though I am not heavily restricted financially I could never afford to have as many sessions / girls as some here including yourself.....but in my case that makes my experiences even more pleasurable, I have been away in europe for 3-4 week and will soon make my next appointment....I cant tell you how energized I am knowing that time is coming again.....for me if I met ladies several times a month besides a divorce because then the money moving would be obvious the thrill would also be dampened as i really like the anticipation of finally being together.....now if I had much better finances I would definitely have a bit more sessions but not with a variety of ladies....being married no one at all even my closest friend (my brother) have the slightest idea of my activity here.....going back to us being dirty old men...well since
we are lol..... whats the crime.....in my case even a lady in her early 40s is a babe in the woods to me.....in RL being 61 now and I look at a lady on the street in her 40s she looks soooo young..and gets me going.....late 20s - mid 30s.....= candy.......legal late teen - mid 20s..= never going to happen so forget it lol
 
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sensualsixty

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Paulpays------Right on...live life to the max...just as I feel i am finally starting to do....seems us older guys will give hope to the young guys worried about things stopping when they hit 60.....I will say though you are correct in one way...I thought I was alone at this age before I really started looking at perb.....then i was accepted by anyone i made appointments with even though that number is low in my case...
i am happier than i have been in 30 years....
I hit 60 twenty years ago, so my name is out of date. Never give up hope. Since my 60th birthday I have attended the Phoenix Club in London, explored a club in Cologne and had more than one duo, one of which was a total "knock my socks off" session in Victoria with Gerri and Nikki. All that pales in comparison with my wife - it took Gerri and Nikki combined to give me a comparable experience. Some things "ain't what they used to be", but at least I am on the right side of the grass, and am optimistic enough to think that I still have a future. Oh yes, I must thank perb and terb and its members for so much useful information

sensualsixty
 

summerbreeze

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60 is the 45, people are so much more active than previous generations

good gear as well, look at the high end bikes these days, fun to ride and lots of places to ride
 

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I'm middle aged, and old enough for the young to call me old, and still new enough ,for the retired to call me young.
For some strange reason, in civilian life, I have very good luck with the 25 to 30 year olds, at Rodeo dances or social functions.......so I am attracted to the more experienced when it comes to this subject.....
Hell , truth be told, I like any race ,colour, or age over 20......I love em all ....even though the fairer sex remains a mystery to me, but they do seem to respond well in my company, and who am I to question that?
 
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