Before I get into the reason for my question, a bit of background info is in order. I live in Washington State, and have been visiting some of the lovely SP's in Vancouver for the past year and a half... lured by the lovely ladies, and spurred into because of the nice exchange rate discount. I've been hobbying for about 9 years, both in the PNW and Las Vegas.
During my interactions up north, all of which were outcalls to my hotel, I've noticed a disturbing trend. Sadly most of the ladies have been leaving early, shutting down the appointment anywhere from 10 to 25 minutes early. Curiously, none of them had even bothered to ask if it was OK to do so. They simply announce that it's time for them to prepare for departure. While I occasionally see this in my neck of the woods, it's definitely the exception rather than the rule, and the lady will usually ask if it's OK to depart early.
So, is this the norm for the ladies north of the border? If so, I'll simply adjust my expectations. I will say, however, that nearly all of the sessions have been stellar, so I didn't complain to to the ladies directly. However, one of my recent sessions ended up in a complete Fail, which has prompted me to raise this question with the board.
The bigger problem with this issue is that it goes hand in hand with clockwatching, where one bad habit can sometimes lead to another. What often happens is that the clockwatcher will arbitrarily decide that the session is over, when they assume that there's not enough time remaining for the gent to finish, and illogically conclude that it's then OK to zip on out of there.
In my case, the SP simply announced that it was time for her to get dressed and prepare for departure. However, we were only at the 95th minute of a 2 hour session. When I pointed this out to her, she looked at me with a look that said it wasn't her problem. I then tried appealing to her sense of fair play, to no avail. She then asked if I wanted to extend the session, the ultimate buzzkill. At that point I just wanted her gone.
BTW, this was a top end SP, both in reviews and rate, who basically treated me like a noob. Initially, she was late for the appointment, and made it worse by yakking for about 30 minutes before getting down to business. To be fair, the next hour with her was stellar, with with no problems or issues whatsoever. There was nothing obvious that precipitated her morphing into the wicked witch of the west. LOL SMH
The words spoiled and self entitled come to mind, but before making any judgments, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
During my interactions up north, all of which were outcalls to my hotel, I've noticed a disturbing trend. Sadly most of the ladies have been leaving early, shutting down the appointment anywhere from 10 to 25 minutes early. Curiously, none of them had even bothered to ask if it was OK to do so. They simply announce that it's time for them to prepare for departure. While I occasionally see this in my neck of the woods, it's definitely the exception rather than the rule, and the lady will usually ask if it's OK to depart early.
So, is this the norm for the ladies north of the border? If so, I'll simply adjust my expectations. I will say, however, that nearly all of the sessions have been stellar, so I didn't complain to to the ladies directly. However, one of my recent sessions ended up in a complete Fail, which has prompted me to raise this question with the board.
The bigger problem with this issue is that it goes hand in hand with clockwatching, where one bad habit can sometimes lead to another. What often happens is that the clockwatcher will arbitrarily decide that the session is over, when they assume that there's not enough time remaining for the gent to finish, and illogically conclude that it's then OK to zip on out of there.
In my case, the SP simply announced that it was time for her to get dressed and prepare for departure. However, we were only at the 95th minute of a 2 hour session. When I pointed this out to her, she looked at me with a look that said it wasn't her problem. I then tried appealing to her sense of fair play, to no avail. She then asked if I wanted to extend the session, the ultimate buzzkill. At that point I just wanted her gone.
BTW, this was a top end SP, both in reviews and rate, who basically treated me like a noob. Initially, she was late for the appointment, and made it worse by yakking for about 30 minutes before getting down to business. To be fair, the next hour with her was stellar, with with no problems or issues whatsoever. There was nothing obvious that precipitated her morphing into the wicked witch of the west. LOL SMH
The words spoiled and self entitled come to mind, but before making any judgments, I'd love to hear your thoughts.