A txt from an sp out of the blue

islander1-1

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So this afternoon at work I get a txt from one of my fave SPs. Hey how are you, horney as hell i reply ... can't wait for our next session coming up in a week,,she... I am horny as hell today too and need your services... you should fome over today. Sorry at work right now and am booked up with work for 5 or 6 days yet... Grrrr. She says. Need you now if not sooner... we then discuss what is gonna happen on our next session. No asking for advances or special favours. Just good horney conversation.

This is the first time I have ever had a txt/call like this from any lady I have known.. made me feel like a frickin king.

Anyone else had this great experience?
 

felixthecat

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Anyone else had this great experience?
no

Just to play the devil's advocate, could it be she was all booked up and got a better offer for the day of your meeting? So she confirmed in advance, in case you want to cancel and she can take the other offer.
 

mrman848

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You.... Got an above average dong or something? Are you on the fitter side?


Sometimes the SP need money now.
I once had a SP thank me for seeing her that day instead of later and she gave me a chicken and a dozen eggs.
 

ddcanz

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I've had this happen. Same context- horny, wants to fuck yada yada yada....
My take was that my girl needed some extra cash- I never inquired and she didn't offer up either.
We hooked up at a later date and all was well.
 

Man Mountain

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Anyone else had this great experience?
It's clear that you enjoyed the experience, so obviously you're cool with it. I also wouldn't mind an SP sending me an unsolicited text. But ladies need to be aware of which clients are okay and which are NOT OKAY with this before sending out unsolicited texts to clients. Some guys would quite rightfully be upset by this type of lack of discretion.
 

mrman848

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Oh I forgot.
I had booked appointment for next day. She texted it would be great yo see me now, something something, etc... ....she knew I was newer to pooning and she was a long time vet.
So I took the opportunity to say, " I prefer mornings(which I honestly do) but I can see you now if for $60". (regular was $80 bj session).
....the answer was no. So I think she had a no show and wanted to fill the time.
 

FreeG

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I agree. It's very important to be aware of the client's situation. I know of cases where men's lives were turned upside down after a wife or SO saw unsolicited texts.
Can't agree more. An untimely text, especially with some embarrassing words, could lead to a LOT of 'splaining! I know many SP's won't text back about 1-2 hrs which I think is very considerate.
 

islander1-1

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I learned my lesson once and had some serious explaining to do. It has never happened again. Cell is always on me or in airplane mode when charging at night and placed face down. I have also turned off notifications. Same thing with my iPad and it has a security code to open it. This lady never asked me for money in advance this time. it was just an honest txt message.
 

take8easy

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It's clear that you enjoyed the experience, so obviously you're cool with it. I also wouldn't mind an SP sending me an unsolicited text. But ladies need to be aware of which clients are okay and which are NOT OKAY with this before sending out unsolicited texts to clients. Some guys would quite rightfully be upset by this type of lack of discretion.
Well said. I don't mind the flirty exchanges with my regular ladies and it does happen in my case, but they all know that I use a pooning phone and my email id is fake.

Otherwise, sending a client unsolicited emails, texts is not a good practice I believe, unless you both have done it before.
 

SInCity67

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Had this happen to me from Arianna Lace then she flaked on me :confused: LMAO . Drove to her incall location in North Van from Langley , biggest w.o.t ever .
 

Yes please!

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I've had this happen. Same context- horny, wants to fuck yada yada yada....
My take was that my girl needed some extra cash- I never inquired and she didn't offer up either.
We hooked up at a later date and all was well.
I'd agree with the above and a number of the other takes posted here ....

I have a really good connection with a few regular ladies, we enjoy each other's company and each other's 2000 body parts etc. lol who have reached out to me on occasion unsolicited. I'm also not naive enough to think that this is anything more than an exchange of money for services rendered regardless of how much we enjoy each other's company and whatever is happening behind closed doors between us:)

I hesitate to make this comment on the state of the industry in Vancouver (I don't want to get in to another fucking rate discussion!) but there seems to be two extremes of the SP market right now in this city. On one hand, we have rates increasing to an average hourly rate which seems to be in the $300/hr neighbourhood for a reputable solid provider. This has caused many an SP to think that its ok to try and get away with charging this for shitty restricted service. Unfortunately, there are those customers that are willing to fork up and condone this behaviour which only perpetuates more of it.

The other side of the market seems to be that business is slowing for a number of SPs in Vancouver. I have had several ladies, regulars and not so regulars reach out to me via email or text to inquire if I wanted to see them today ... completely unsolicited on my part. Discussion over pillow talk when seeing some of these ladies is that yes, business has slowed and it's getting tougher. This is interesting as there are agencies like WCA (I have no affiliation with this agency in the interests of disclosure) and other well known or trendy SPs who seem to be booked solid. With the amount of SPs in the business at the moment and perhaps a slowing economy perhaps the industry is changing ... to what I have no idea but seems to resemble society in the haves and have nots .... no more middle ground or class if you will.

Interested to hear others take on this ....
 

felixthecat

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With the amount of SPs in the business at the moment and perhaps a slowing economy perhaps the industry is changing ... to what I have no idea but seems to resemble society in the haves and have nots .... no more middle ground or class if you will.
Interesting thought. I agree something like this could happen long term. Short-term, other factors are more noticeable: economy/oil prices/exchange rate.

Good job derailing the thread.
 

JonnyBoi

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I don't feel we ought to demonize the guy for bringing up some economics :spider: as a potential reason why these messages are now suddenly prevalent. I have also heard from the grapevine that this feels like a "slow season".
Keep in mind that I have only been doing it for less than a month, and thus I am definitely no expert...

However, back to the OP's point.. MAYBE she just misses you and feels you're awesome =D. I know a few SP's that loves to compliment me, deep down I feel it could be a marketing scheme, but it still feels good to be flattered (lol, call me a vain sucker).

I do agree that the living standard here is pretty high. Yes, HK and other places MIGHT be higher, but we are NOT in those countries...

I DO blame your delicious food and beautiful backdrop for making people want to live here (other than obvious reasons like the lowest tax rate in Canada, best medical plan (MSP is far superior than OHIP in drugs they provide and services given), mildest weather and etc..etc... Maybe the beautiful ladies have something to do with it too :clap2:
 

Mr Quim

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An unsolicited Text, could lead to a very compromising Situation ? Unless it was simple, and easily explained, as a Wrong Number ?
Maybe a Text saying, "RU OK ?", would be manageable? And She waited for a Response, before conversing anymore ?

IMHO most of the Ladies, involved in this Industry, seem to be very conscious of This ? And only make Contact, after You initiate It .

If You like Risk, in your Life, then I'm sure it's very Thrilling !
But, You might want to ponder that Thought ?

Just ask Tiger Woods, how Texting, changed his Life ?

Cheers
 
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mrman848

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This might surprise you but I disagree. I think current prices are too low. To give you an example. Back in 2009-11 I rented a place for an incall in the West End. 1 bedroom, 5 appliances, $1100.00 plus parking. It was shared by 3 women (now long retired) who each paid 1/3 of the price. Back then the going rate for 1 hour of FS was $240-260 dollars. Today, that same place probably hits you 2 grand a month minimum yet the mid range escorts are still pulling in the same kind of money. And escorting is WAY more difficult today. Back then no shows weren't so common. Today, with text apps, fake emails, burner phones, etc, they're way to common. Girls make the trip to the incall only to get fucked over.

By my estimation prices should be 300 to 350 per hour for FS. Mid range. The costs of clothes, makeup, toys, sex gear, even electricity to wash sheets has gone up. Probably explains why women are more aggressive .
Na, most professional services are 250-300/hour. So its pretty hard for SP to go above that. Keep in mind that they also do no need a degree, they can literally make professional wages at 18 years old.
Renting a place, expenses, etc..... All fully covered by about 160/hour. And they still make a decent wage off that. It's how the massage parlors run.

Now, you want to make 10k per month? Then ya, you charge 350+ per hour, you advertise, you text regulars to remind them.
You also max out your expenses, a ton of which is what women buy anyway. Makeup, clothes, etc...
And I highly doubt they claim every dollar on their taxes. And there is no way to really track it since it is all cash and almost no one wants a paper tral.
So after expenses you report that you bring home maybe similar to what massage parlour gals get.
And heck a ton of assets you buy with cash could be classed as gifts, which they kinda are. So SP make a ton of money. ...how they spend it is another story.

As for cancellations, no shows, fakers, etc... That's business. Making professional wages isnt easy.
Heh, and having sex for a living is a pretty fun. Oh sure 1 out of 10 clients is stinky or crazy. ...but thats business. The other 9/10 clients are great.
 

Avery

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I know a man who is business partners with his wife. A lady texted him to a line that both he AND his wife see!

His wife got suspicious, nervous, worried or upset. He described what this woman caused as a "clusterbleep."
Three words: DEDICATED POONING PHONE!

Both the SP and her client are dumbasses, for different reasons.
 
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