I guess the question should have been: "Why did this thread which SDK deleted from the Vic 411 (mind you) magically find its way onto The Lounge? I found out shortly after making that post that Fred Zed himself e-mailed me stating he "didn't know what happened" and asked me to "try again." Whereupon I did, realized I was not "banned" after all, went back as SDK2, deleted that 411 thread and never used that handle again. I also just noticed this post on The Forum when I was looking through "PerbMod's" posts. Or maybe the question should have been, "Why did 'PerbMod' feel he could share personal info about me on a public forum instead of PMing me, which he ended up doing with the same material anyway?" All important requests, I guess. I know the mods are the "gods" of this site and can do what they please, but I feel a line was crossed here.
All those handles were created when I first discovered Perb at the end of December and was indecisive with which to actually post. Back then it took a few minutes to create/activate one. Ah, "PerbMod" must have missed these points. The only other handle with which I posted, besides "SDK", was "GQ1" (well, and "SDK2" to defend myself), and yes I was foolish to also post as GQ1 , but if one checks out the latter's posts, there's nothing vulgar or rude in them. I simply used that handle to stick up for certain SP's, blast the "deranged pig" called "Hatrick" and post the occasional sarcastic remark to thinly veil my discontent with those who cheat on their wives/SO's with escorts and blatantly admit doing so. But that's just my opinion. Oh, and once (and only once) I stupidly posted on a review as GQ1 to give that lady a bump because I thoroughly enjoyed my time with her and felt she wasn't get enough views. That's the only reason I review, by the way - to help the SP get more work if I enjoyed my time with her.
Those that say they withhold reviewing a favourite SP to keep her "to themselves" are delusional. One fellow I met at the Fox pub in Victoria (a lawyer) said he alternated between the four agencies in town every week, and had been doing so for years. When I mentioned Perb, he thought I was calling him a perv.
So, all this aside, I have been a contributing member of this site since joining in December. In the five months I lived in this city (mid Oct. to the end of March) I saw at least 40 SP's and reviewed around 30 of them. Since I only discovered Perb at the end of December, that's 30 reviews in three months, and quite a few were TOFT's. Something tells me these would have been just slightly more appreciated had they been done in Vancouver (my previous home). I didn't need to put in all that time and effort to write mainly lengthy reviews, but I did. And when I wasn't making such posts, I was answering queries and providing insight. Ok, being self-employed and not really needing to work certainly helped. I should not have made those posts as GQ1 and have not used that handle since getting the PM from the mod. I sometimes felt I should hide my reviewing handle to make certain posts. Completely wrong. But how many times has one seen only a few posts from a handle, never to be heard from again. Are you telling me those users don't have another main handle? If I end up getting banned, so be it. If not, I will continue to provide insight for Victoria when I can and reviews if/when I return to that city. I'm hoping the reviews I wrote helped those ladies get more business, and that was the whole point. I was always a model client in every way - one SP called me "an absolute sweetheart." After visiting relatives overseas I might move to Edmonton later in the summer, or possibly Toronto, my hometown - the beauty of being unattached.