I never bargain. A woman's rate is her rate. Full stop.
But I see a regular whose rates have climbed over the years to what would be unaffordable levels for me. Except I still pay the old rate.
I keep telling her I feel like I'm cheating her, but she explained it's actually well worth it to her, because she felt secure in my presence, knows I show up on time, not high or drunk, I'm clean, never push boundaries and she likes talking to me afterwards.
Being respectful does have its rewards.
But I see a regular whose rates have climbed over the years to what would be unaffordable levels for me. Except I still pay the old rate.
I keep telling her I feel like I'm cheating her, but she explained it's actually well worth it to her, because she felt secure in my presence, knows I show up on time, not high or drunk, I'm clean, never push boundaries and she likes talking to me afterwards.
Being respectful does have its rewards.