A few times over the years I have run into someone I've seen.
As a calm type person who just rolls with things it has never been awkward for me.
Share your stories awkward or not.
The last time was just a week ago.
Standing in line at the grocery store i turned and the person behind me was a cute young thing. It took me a few seconds to realize that i have seen her 4 times.
We had a good chat as we waited.
Not about the profession obviously about life and food.
She commented on my ice cream choice.
I said it is my favorite.
She jokingly said she should come over to my place and try it.
I half jokingly said well this is my last stop before going home, so follow me if you want to, my black Dodge truck is parked right outside. So she did and we ended up watching television and having ice cream. Then took my dogs for a 2 hour walk.
There was no awkwardness or weirdness with her. She is a confident woman who has the ability to make a conversation flow.
And for anyone wondering, no we didn't have sex or discuss our past rendezvous.
She did tell me her first name though so it was not weird calling her some made up name.
The time before I ran into one was at the races. She was there with her parents, and when i sat down right beside her as it was my asigned seat on the ticket, at first I didn't realize who i was sharing an armrest with. Then she gave me a warm smile and hello. Introducing me to her parents, and asking me how i was. We actually had a great conversation and it was like running into any other acquaintance.
The first time for me was volunteering, and this little sweetheart maybe 4 or 5 years old comes to put a dollar in the Salvation Army kettle i was at. i had to tip the kettle and stand way over so she could drop the Loonie in the slot. Then i looked up at her mother and our eyes locked. She immediately looked scared and shocked. I smiled and casually said " Hello. What a cute daughter you have. Thanks for giving today and Merry Christmas to you both". She looked at me with a half smile and said thanks, and off they went. Later that day I got a text from her thanking me for making an awkward situation seem okay. I replied with "It was not awkward for me, and her secret is safe." Next time I saw her i got the best service ever. Must have been another Thank You to me.
I know to never use names or be weird about it.
What would be awkward is if someone ever used their work name. As people with them are confused why you are calling them an odd name. But I am pretty sure most Johns now to not use names or say anything about context of why they know an SP.
So share with us your stories.
As a calm type person who just rolls with things it has never been awkward for me.
Share your stories awkward or not.
The last time was just a week ago.
Standing in line at the grocery store i turned and the person behind me was a cute young thing. It took me a few seconds to realize that i have seen her 4 times.
We had a good chat as we waited.
Not about the profession obviously about life and food.
She commented on my ice cream choice.
I said it is my favorite.
She jokingly said she should come over to my place and try it.
I half jokingly said well this is my last stop before going home, so follow me if you want to, my black Dodge truck is parked right outside. So she did and we ended up watching television and having ice cream. Then took my dogs for a 2 hour walk.
There was no awkwardness or weirdness with her. She is a confident woman who has the ability to make a conversation flow.
And for anyone wondering, no we didn't have sex or discuss our past rendezvous.
She did tell me her first name though so it was not weird calling her some made up name.
The time before I ran into one was at the races. She was there with her parents, and when i sat down right beside her as it was my asigned seat on the ticket, at first I didn't realize who i was sharing an armrest with. Then she gave me a warm smile and hello. Introducing me to her parents, and asking me how i was. We actually had a great conversation and it was like running into any other acquaintance.
The first time for me was volunteering, and this little sweetheart maybe 4 or 5 years old comes to put a dollar in the Salvation Army kettle i was at. i had to tip the kettle and stand way over so she could drop the Loonie in the slot. Then i looked up at her mother and our eyes locked. She immediately looked scared and shocked. I smiled and casually said " Hello. What a cute daughter you have. Thanks for giving today and Merry Christmas to you both". She looked at me with a half smile and said thanks, and off they went. Later that day I got a text from her thanking me for making an awkward situation seem okay. I replied with "It was not awkward for me, and her secret is safe." Next time I saw her i got the best service ever. Must have been another Thank You to me.
I know to never use names or be weird about it.
What would be awkward is if someone ever used their work name. As people with them are confused why you are calling them an odd name. But I am pretty sure most Johns now to not use names or say anything about context of why they know an SP.
So share with us your stories.
