Finding Sugar Babies on Seeking Arrangement

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LoadShooter

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Hey Perberts, anybody had any luck or experiences on this site finding sugar babes...either good or bad experiences? Never done it myself, but interested in trying.
 
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westcoast555

Hey Perberts, anybody had any luck or experiences on this site finding sugar babes...either good or bad experiences? Never done it myself, but interested in trying.
I've been almost exclusively going with the SA for about two years now. Almost totally dropped the 'Commerical' SP scene. The sugar babies are amazing.

To me, theses sugar baby sites have turned the industry upside down - like the way Uber and Air B&B have turned the taxi/hotel businesses up and down. Beautiful, hot, naughty, clean, cute, exuberant, non-jaded, curious young girls looking to make a few bucks on the side for school and not have to rely on their parents.

They blow away all but the most high end escorts. Seriously. I've had amazing experiences off the site - just need to find the right ones.
 
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BrokeBastard

I've been almost exclusively going with the SA for about two years now. Almost totally dropped the 'Commerical' SP scene. The sugar babies are amazing.

To me, theses sugar baby sites have turned the industry upside down - like the way Uber and Air B&B have turned the taxi/hotel businesses up and down. Beautiful, hot, naughty, clean, cute, exuberant, non-jaded, curious young girls looking to make a few bucks on the side for school and not have to rely on their parents.

They blow away all but the most high end escorts. Seriously. I've had amazing experiences off the site - just need to find the right ones.
You are extremely bang on. The only downside is the time involved and potential flakiness of the young girls. It takes a lot of time but if a person has the time and money SA is the path to go. A shitload of hidden gems. A GEMFEST!
 

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I've been on SA before in Calgary. Result : quickly went back to escorting. Guys were cheap, not interested in monthly allowance but rather pay-per-play, not willing to mentor, no travelling. on top of having unrealistic expectation towards me considering the minimal budget they were willing to give. Ex: 1500$ max = I must have a job but be free all day for them, I must have my own place, must have a car, must have a life but not too much ..
No thanks !
I'm still dreaming of the day I'll find the right arrangement !
 

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I've been on SA before in Calgary. Result : quickly went back to escorting. Guys were cheap, not interested in monthly allowance but rather pay-per-play, not willing to mentor, no travelling. on top of having unrealistic expectation towards me considering the minimal budget they were willing to give. Ex: 1500$ max = I must have a job but be free all day for them, I must have my own place, must have a car, must have a life but not too much ..
No thanks !
I'm still dreaming of the day I'll find the right arrangement !
It may sound harsh but probably your screening process wasn't refined enough.
 

LoadShooter

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As a guy/SD, is it necessary to show your face in your profile? I have a career that wouldn't go well with being an SD. Also do SBs/babes show their faces in their profiles?
 
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westcoast555

I've been on SA before in Calgary. Result : quickly went back to escorting. Guys were cheap, not interested in monthly allowance but rather pay-per-play, not willing to mentor, no travelling. on top of having unrealistic expectation towards me considering the minimal budget they were willing to give. Ex: 1500$ max = I must have a job but be free all day for them, I must have my own place, must have a car, must have a life but not too much ..
No thanks !
I'm still dreaming of the day I'll find the right arrangement !
Oh yeah... it's all pay for play. The "allowance" thing is bullshit as far as I'm concerned. There are some great girls looking for uncomplicated fun and who don't want any "relationship" baggage. Keep it simple. I know that a lot of the girls complain that men on there are flaky - I do well because I give them what they want and they give me what I want. I've had so much fun. I love my little sugar babies ! :)
 

Belleyyc

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Well it's bullshit..yes and no. If one agrees to it and doesn't deliver, it's like for anything else you know.. it gets frustrating.
That being said, I have met 1-2 men who were worth it and had a great time ( chatting and in the bedroom), excellent mentor, etc . I know there are some good souls out there, just have to be patient.
Good luck to you gents! :)
 

Jerbear

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^What kind of mentoring are we talking about? Career advice?

Also, how much on average do these arrangements cost? $2-3k/month?
 

Belleyyc

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Yes, career advices mostly.
Arrangement terms vary a lot from lady to lady. We are all different! Some want to be pampered and get gifts. I didn't want gifts (still don't, unless it's a range rover sport then we'll talk! haha), only money to pay for school.
Case by case I'd say.
What do you guys find is the average ?
 

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Oh yeah... it's all pay for play. The "allowance" thing is bullshit as far as I'm concerned. There are some great girls looking for uncomplicated fun and who don't want any "relationship" baggage. Keep it simple. I know that a lot of the girls complain that men on there are flaky - I do well because I give them what they want and they give me what I want. I've had so much fun. I love my little sugar babies ! :)


Pretty much . I only pay for play . Not in my budget to gave some girl $2000 a month to be my GF. But I usually offer $400 a night and I'll get a great night out of that .Way better then paying some girl $300 for a hour who I know nothing about . The $400 is for the sex also not hanging out and going on dates with these girls to screen them ( this would cost $200 a hour for escort and they would never sext you and chat with you on the phone between dates )
 

SInCity67

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How much did that arrangement cost you?
not an arrangement , I just pay for play . I believe I could offer girls $1000 a month for 4 sex dates a month though but the route I go for is to offer them $200 to $500 per fuck depending on how hot they are . Some girls fucked me for nothing and some I paid only $100 .
 

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I'm sure it's all very exciting oh the possibilities however I do wonder if SB's can they offer the same level of discretion that we expect from professional SP's. For us married men we completely rely on this and the SP's have their professional reputations at hand, so it works well. In the simple but honest words of Charlie Sheen "I don't pay them just for sex I pay them to go away!" AS far as monthly allowances go there seems to me far too much grey area there and potential troubles with constantly trying to negotiate terms of an already dicey agreement, the nightly pay to play model sounds like it is best for those of us that are not very wealthy, I'm surprised that any SB's actually accept that arrangement.
 

SInCity67

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I'm sure it's all very exciting oh the possibilities however I do wonder if SB's can they offer the same level of discretion that we expect from professional SP's. For us married men we completely rely on this and the SP's have their professional reputations at hand, so it works well. In the simple but honest words of Charlie Sheen "I don't pay them just for sex I pay them to go away!" AS far as monthly allowances go there seems to me far too much grey area there and potential troubles with constantly trying to negotiate terms of an already dicey agreement, the nightly pay to play model sounds like it is best for those of us that are not very wealthy, I'm surprised that any SB's actually accept that arrangement.


I call it being a" hooker only for good looking guy" model . If they think you're good looking , you can get away with a lot .
 
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westcoast555

Yes, career advices mostly.
Arrangement terms vary a lot from lady to lady. We are all different! Some want to be pampered and get gifts. I didn't want gifts (still don't, unless it's a range rover sport then we'll talk! haha), only money to pay for school.
Case by case I'd say.
What do you guys find is the average ?
I've found that $300 works best. I do go $400 if I like the girl a lot. Honestly chemistry is key. These girls are generally low volume and just looking for some help with rent, school etc. I'm happy to take them out to dinner on occasion but generally I find that they don't have a lot of time and a little relaxed playtime in the privacy of my condo works best for both of us. I'm just young enough looking that I don't look totally ridiculous with a younger woman but I don't want to run into colleagues and friends etc. outside.

I go for a certain type that doesn't want fancy purses and gifts or dinners or to be pampered and they don't have the time and inclination to go on trips etc. I think they also like being with me because I don't try to fantasize that they are my GF and I don't try to control them in any way or get my ego involved. That said, it only works if there is some chemistry. Sometimes they really enjoy the sex and that is awesome. They're often in their exploratory phase and are open to being with a fit older guy that knows what he's doing. So many young guys don't.

And I don't try to scam them or anything. I genuinely appreciate them and I think it shows. Plus these girls will not do it if they don't feel a connection. I just find it's a perfect fit for everybody.
 

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I did very well on SA about five years ago. Nice ladies in some instances who didn't want the escort tag and often just wanted a few bucks to cover expenses from a steady source. As well as friendship of sorts. Two of the relationships were very beneficial mutually as we travelled to some good places together like Asia and south and enhanced the scope of their experience nicely. Mentoring? I took one nice lady to Harvard in Boston and convinced her to go back to school after pointing out that the student in front of us in a restaurant wasn't probably much different than she was. The difference was the student concentration was on a book rather than a bottle. It took awhile but that gal is making something of herself now. And the second gal was different. She just wanted a friend and a few bucks. Wasn't into big money with any of them. But yes I ran into some pricey opportunities but said no thanks.

There is a different story if the SA date is really an SP than the other sort.

I would encourage SA but be wary. I found most valid advertisers would meet for an honest interview in a coffee shop whereas the gold diggers just wanted a quick date and to run.
 
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