I don't see how it should affect a relationship if someone actually desires to have the others heart. I mean let's face it, there are much worse things that could happen in a relationship beyond telling someone your profession handles numerous clients by hand, mouth, and hips.
Like having someone you've cared deeply for ask you out at your mothers wake only to break up with you two weeks later by her brother while she's busy on the dance floor. Does wonders for a 20 year old hahaha. It was bullshit, but honesty brings what's needed.
Events that change your outlook on relationships as such, tend to carry over to your ideal match. Someone who's upfront, unashamed of what they do and know they can trust the person is much more desirable in my mind but to each their own. That's the problem, people believing since they're in a relationship the other is their property. Hell this trade is the oldest profession, it takes skill to grow with it and not grow into a spoiled greed fueled lust. Would you stay with someone who goes to Alberta and works on the rigs for 6 months? Some would, some wouldn't, it's knowing what you have and not focusing on what the job entails. All I can say is I hope to somehow become acquainted with one of the bright driven ladies that are posting in here for example outside the work environment because they have the intellectual, forthright, sexually driven nature about themselves I crave.
And besides, if you can't handle cooking in the kitchen, you'll be in line waiting to pay for your meal.
Oh, and hi Perb. Soon to be a misbehavior :thumb: