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Thread: Getting away with it..nights out?

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    Getting away with it..nights out?

    Well, SPs make it easier enough to get away with it if you're able to slip away during the day, or meet on the way to or after work.

    But what to do when you have the itch to get out at night? Maybe you want a longer, more intimate date with an SP, or even just a quick romp. Maybe avail yourself of more selection? (Is it just my imagination? There seem to be so many little desert flowers who only bloom at night and then vanish at dawn - they lie unplucked! Grass is always greener I guess).

    I could go on: bars, clubs, and any other reason to get away and be back late or not til morning.

    Nose to the grindstone I have a lifetime of bad habits and "bad" friends/influences to acquire, ideally in as short as time as possible and without arousing any suspicion! It's gotta be out there on the internet somewhere. Seems like you can find step by step instructions on making a bomb, but not the secrets of being a rogue. To me the finance and technology parts are easier to wall off from suspicion, but having reasons to be out hasn't been my style.

    I know you can always work late (or get called in), have a business trip or take up a sport/activity that gets you out of the house but it seems like work excuses get lame pretty quickly.

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    Tell your SO you work for the CIA, you can't tell her anymore cuz its classified.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borko View Post
    I thought that if spies told you, they'd have to kill you?
    Only if they are real spies....

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    A few years ago I went with a standing appointment with the lady I see,
    I told my wife Im working late, the same day every week the same hours.

    Something happens and me and my sp can't make it, my wife asks me what the hell am I doing at home.
    My advice just get into a routine and stick to it.
    It used to be Monday night football, Im going to the bar after work to watch Monday night football with the boys. I made sure I listened to sports radio so I knew who won the game.
    Just like I said the more you change it around, and change your stories, the more reason your wife has to be suspicous,

    It worked for me, I work overtime one night a week have for years as far as everyone knows.

    And my sp asked me recently she is going on holiday she asked me if I wanted to go.
    A couple of guys I hang out with are single they are looking for someone to go on vacation with.
    So tell my sp Im going with a bud to vegas he has no one to go with, but go with my sp.
    I all ready broke it to my wife she said go,

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    Quote Originally Posted by borko View Post
    Yes.. but no one would know if they were real because then they would have to kill you..


    Like Russian roulette I guess..... you find out when you find out....

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    Never done an overnight myself, but if the SO happens to be away I might get a little bolder - I tend to stick with hour long appointments, myself...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sevenofnine View Post
    A few years ago I went with a standing appointment with the lady I see,
    I told my wife Im working late, the same day every week the same hours.

    Something happens and me and my sp can't make it, my wife asks me what the hell am I doing at home.
    My advice just get into a routine and stick to it.
    It used to be Monday night football, Im going to the bar after work to watch Monday night football with the boys. I made sure I listened to sports radio so I knew who won the game.
    Just like I said the more you change it around, and change your stories, the more reason your wife has to be suspicous,

    It worked for me, I work overtime one night a week have for years as far as everyone knows.

    And my sp asked me recently she is going on holiday she asked me if I wanted to go.
    A couple of guys I hang out with are single they are looking for someone to go on vacation with.
    So tell my sp Im going with a bud to vegas he has no one to go with, but go with my sp.
    I all ready broke it to my wife she said go,

    Thanks for taking the subject seriously seven!

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    question is why someone liues? Is it really okay for them to tell the truth or is it only okay to tell the truth that the other wants to hear? if people preach HONESTY then they have to accept that the truth is often not what they might want to be told. For this reason unless you are willing to truly see that people arent going to follow your own personal rules then perhaps you should allow others the right to having some secrets. knowing everything isnt always all its cracked up to be. Having a few secrets can keep things exciting. So many people insist on the truth but are incapable of handling it when it is told and react in a way that discouragesfuture honesty attempts. Whats important in my opinion is not imposing your own insecurities onto another so much that you never see them for who they truly are. The more you accept the sooner you will see the REAl person. Then you can decide if you like them for who they are and not for who you want them to be. Refusing to see the truth doesnt change what it is Nor does it change who they are. and the fact that you like them.

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