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mjames

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I've been to see SPs about 22-25 times over the last 9 years, spanning two Canadian cities and two serious relationships. Both times I have been in love with the girl, but the spark just dies in the bedroom and I turn to the thrill of the SPs again. I had no idea I was up to this many until I sat down and counted them all up just now.

First time was just a HJ and 1-hour at a time, after a few it turned into FS and always at least 2 hours. Now that I have more cash I'm dreaming of overnights stays, SPs who are into Greek, etc.

It's an obsession, and I keep thinking think I've stopped but the hunger begins again after a few months.

All I really want to do is quit for good, get STD tested, and then at least I'll know I haven't ruined my life and can keep this dark side of my life to myself for ever. Do any of you out there have any tips on quitting for good?
 

HB40

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All I really want to do is quit for good, get STD tested, and then at least I'll know I haven't ruined my life and can keep this dark side of my life to myself for ever. Do any of you out there have any tips on quitting for good?
You join an escort review board and this is your first post?!? Dude, if you really want to quit you gotta talk to folks who also want to quit. This place is full of guys who like it or failed at quitting. We got lots of tips for quitting, but for good....I don't think so. That is entirely up to you, and you have to make up your mind and seek affirmation from like minded people. Good luck! :)
 
and keep this dark side of my life to myself for ever
Why do you consider pooning a dark side of your life ?
There are many of us here that embrace this lifestyle.
Does that mean we are evil. Mind you I don't bring up
my pooning experiences at social gatherings but I do
not also talk about the discomfort of burning rectal itch
either. Which by the way are not connected :eek:
like woody allen says "sex without love is an empty experience,
but as empty experiences go... it is one of the best;).
If you have an addiction, then seek counseling.
 

vidwindow

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Now that would make for an interesting episode on "Intervention".
 

TheGuy

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I've been to see SPs about 22-25 times over the last 9 years, spanning two Canadian cities and two serious relationships. Both times I have been in love with the girl, but the spark just dies in the bedroom and I turn to the thrill of the SPs again. I had no idea I was up to this many until I sat down and counted them all up just now.

First time was just a HJ and 1-hour at a time, after a few it turned into FS and always at least 2 hours. Now that I have more cash I'm dreaming of overnights stays, SPs who are into Greek, etc.

It's an obsession, and I keep thinking think I've stopped but the hunger begins again after a few months.

All I really want to do is quit for good, get STD tested, and then at least I'll know I haven't ruined my life and can keep this dark side of my life to myself for ever. Do any of you out there have any tips on quitting for good?
Many men see escorts because they have a whole in their lives. It sounds like you may be looking for emotional connections hoping that the temporary excitement of seeing an escort will help but like all crutches it will not.
 

Bootsy

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Heh, I just started visiting SPs like 2 months ago, so I'm in no hurry to quit...as a matter of fact, I wish I started a few years earlier.

Can't give you any advice on quitting dude...although, it's like any behavior, do you have the will power and internal desire/strength to quit.
 
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