Just a note for some of the ladies out there advertising on sites like leolist and backpage: please work with us
Under the new laws, it's now illegal for us to ask you specific questions in regards to your rates and the nature of the services that you offer. And the advertising venues, for the most part, are restricting what information you can post in your ads. I've seen a number of ads now where the advertiser asks that we contact them for "more information".
So, when I follow that protocol and ask rather vaguely something along the lines of, "I noticed your ad on (insert advertising venue name here) to contact you for more information. May I ask what more you're willing to share about yourself?" Please understand that it's because I'm being extremely cautious and am no longer comfortable asking questions about rates and specific services. So, I'm expecting that the advertisers understand that it's up to them now to offer as complete and specific an answer to that type of question of their own free will and that if they remain vague about the nature of rates and/or services or possibly do not list a service in which I am interested, I will most likely thank them for their time and move on.
In the past few weeks, of the handful of advertisers that I've contacted, only one seemed to understand this. And one I contacted yesterday was particularly frustrating because when asking for more info, all I that she texted back was "I don't do bareback fs, pretty open minded." No mention of rates or specifics about services that she does offer. I actually broke my own rule and pressed for more specifics and she still didn't seem to get it and only responded by noting "I just told you my restriction" To which I finally gave up, thanking her for her time. She sent one final text thereafter finally noting that "I offer full service luv" -- still no rate or specifics about say basic FS or GFE? CBJ vs. BBBJ? LFK? DFK? MSOG?