Recently had what I thought was an very unprofessional encounter. I had read very good reviews on a popular victoria girl (no bad) so decided to see her. After my very bad session I did PM her and got this response. I had not been feeling very well and was still sick (then what the heck is she doing seeing me if she is sick and secondly right from our initial meet I reminded her ofsomeone that made her feel extremely uncomfortable. Again then why the heck would she stay and not politely decline theappointment with an explanation. Any similar experiences?
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IMHO, I think it speaks volumes about the kind of girl you are seeing when she is working when she is sick. Its a feeble excuse to be cranky. Either she was/is broke, or she she has a habit that demands she makes pay. Either way, it shows me that she has her priorities all wrong. When you're sick, you need to take care of yourself. You guys can always call back another time, and be spared the side of mucous! But that's just my two bits. Hazbeen, half of me sympathizes with you because you probably had no idea she was sick and by the time you did it may have been too late. But the other half agrees with franklyhuge. You had every right to speak up and ask for your money back. Not all (depending on how far into the session you were) but at least some or a free half hour next time. If you don't speak up she doesn't know anything is amiss. I know how it sounds but its true. Better luck next lady....
Well. iam sorry that you felt that way hazbeen. I didnt not tell you i was sick. I said i wasnt feeling well. And i wasnt sick i had a horriable nights sleep b4. you were the type that made me feel uncomfortable. how is that my fault. Iam also a nice girl and dont want to kick you out. My bad! Besides i dont have to explain my life with you. I also see you keep pushing your question i have seen it posted in other rooms. By the way i dont have A HABIT. unless putting food in my sons mouth is a HABIT.
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Melody,
I'm sorry but you're wrong. If you're sick or not feeling well (btw, what's the difference) then you should not be working. If you worked at almost any other profession, then it's a little more understandable, but not when you're in close, intimate contact with other people. Even if you were feeling fine, you should not have accepted the session once you discovered that this person reminded you of someone that made you uncomfortable. It's not fair to the client, especially if it affects the level of service he receives. If you had politely declined, chances are that he would have come back when you were feeling better. Now, though, it's almost a lock that he won't be back and you've received some negative publicity.
I'm sorry but you're wrong. If you're sick or not feeling well (btw, what's the difference) then you should not be working. If you worked at almost any other profession, then it's a little more understandable, but not when you're in close, intimate contact with other people. Even if you were feeling fine, you should not have accepted the session once you discovered that this person reminded you of someone that made you uncomfortable. It's not fair to the client, especially if it affects the level of service he receives. If you had politely declined, chances are that he would have come back when you were feeling better. Now, though, it's almost a lock that he won't be back and you've received some negative publicity.
What an accurate statement you make Mr Kehoe. I do not wish to dis anyone ( I did not name said lady in my question) but felt her conduct unprofessional ( as for comments about her personal life I could care less dont bring it to work). I do have my faves but occassionally like to try someone new based on reviews . In my opinion she should not have worked if unwell and even less so if she felt uncomfortable with me. Have a good weekend.
I dont care. what job your in. but once in awhile you bring your personal life effects work. iam sorry that our time was bad.
You dont stop the world over being tired. its not my norm it happens. and i have said my sorry.
You dont stop the world over being tired. its not my norm it happens. and i have said my sorry.
Melody's first round of comments pretty much says it all. She sounds as if she didn't take any responsibility for her actions or feelings ("he MADE me uncomfortable"). So it kinda negates the questions as to the veracity of the complainant's posts.
As a professional, I never bring my problems to work, & never excuse my poor performance with such. My clients don't care, & they'd be right to fire me.
Melody has had a lot of great reviews, & I believe them, every word. But she has a lot of growing up to do.
As a professional, I never bring my problems to work, & never excuse my poor performance with such. My clients don't care, & they'd be right to fire me.
Melody has had a lot of great reviews, & I believe them, every word. But she has a lot of growing up to do.
