Hey, no worries. Over 80% of the sessions I had with SPs, I was just not sufficiently aroused to initiate or maintain an erection. I could even lose the rare erection just by talking or from switching from one sexual position to another
So 80% of the time I paid FS rates where I just couldn't do it. If the services were a la carte, I'd have saved some money. lol. Is there such thing as a
GFE rub and tug?
Women by just being nude do not arouse me at all... It could be because I am more or less a naturist in principle. Nudity by itself is 'normal' to me; I guess I find a woman dressed seductively more sexy. Yes, a hot body is nice to look at, but that's it. There was this one time after a session I asked the SP if she was going to take a shower, she said with a cute pouting mouth that she usually does, but because I didn't 'touch' her at all, she didn't need to. To be fair, I did touch her hair, forearms, tummy, and the breasts a couple times when she said they are enhanced. Case in point--even with smooth skin, a nice body, and a cute face lying there in front of me, it's just not enough by itself to bring out my sexual side.
For me, the mind plays a such big role sometimes it's annoying
That is why kissing, intimacy, and some stimulating conversation (dirty, small, or whatever is suitable at the moment) are so important to me. These activities slow down my big head somewhat to give the little one a chance of being spared some blood flow
Without them, it is nearly impossible for me to become or stay sexually aroused--my brain is just too busy doing its own stuff and
hogging all the oxygen and blood needed elsewhere. The result? I am not capable of having sex with just any woman. It takes a special, talented lady (or 2, or 3) to tango.
As a result, I do not have "frequent regulars" yet, though I am always searching for them. My new rule: a session must include kissing and a connection (in addition to an acceptable level of physical attraction) for me to repeat.
P.S. Any recommendations are welcome