Jealous of you happy pooners! :)

Arrrg

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Dammit! I keep hearing your good stories and I can't get a great lasting impression myself. So I have nothing to post except for my suckiness!

I've stayed in the massage and tug side of things cause it's a limit i decide to impose on myself. No fault to the girls I've seen, but everytime it's like, uhoh is the little guy going to wake up. Sigh such a struggle...

It's weird, with my girl, it's never a problem with just a hand job.

Jealous! :)
 

FortunateOne

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Sometimes it's just a matter of time, and getting relaxed/comfortable. This may just mean that you go back and see the same sp more than once to get over the nerves/shyness. :)
 

Markl

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I've been pretty non-agressive/shy my whole life.. but never with sps.. it's weird. I've had a few one night stands from bars, but generally I had a bit too much too drink then.


Ah well, such is life.
 

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If the little guy isn't waking up......its in your head..I mean the big head, not the small head.

U need to find a girl you can really let go with, someone you are really horny for and just get to it, block out all those negative thoughts. When the big head is in the zone, the small head will respond.....trust me and good luck.
 

littlejimbigher

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Sometimes when you know you are going to have problems and you know it's in your mind , a little blue viagra pill just boosts your confidence.
 

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You may need what they call a bridging... something. It's a psychological term. I forget what it's called but it's a way to transition between the way you are used to, and the way you want to be.
While the SP is going to town on you, imagine it's your girl, or even imagine it's just you alone. It's a way of taking the pressure off, or something.
 

Arrrg

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Thanks guys!

Heh, i was thinking afterwards that i was going to be made fun of or something :)

I'll keep what you've said in mind but i guess the biggest contributing factor is that even when i try to play the safe card and go with the well reviewed... I find i don't get the same experiences for even the most basic of things...

Perhaps my expectations are out of whack!
 

FortunateOne

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Thanks guys!

Heh, i was thinking afterwards that i was going to be made fun of or something :)

I'll keep what you've said in mind but i guess the biggest contributing factor is that even when i try to play the safe card and go with the well reviewed... I find i don't get the same experiences for even the most basic of things...

Perhaps my expectations are out of whack!
Maybe the "most well-reviewed" just isn't your type? You could just go for someone who sounds and looks like someone who would go out of their way to make you feel comfortable. Maybe someone who is well-reviewed gets their high marks in areas that just aren't important to you, or are marked highly by someone who is looking for a different experience than you are. And there are many many sps advertising who don't get reviewed or rarely get reviewed simply because they aren't doing anything really exciting or really awful. They still have plenty of business and repeat customers because they still do everything right -- if you try a few un-reviewed or less-reviewed sps, you just might find the one that does everything right for you.
 

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Hey, no worries. Over 80% of the sessions I had with SPs, I was just not sufficiently aroused to initiate or maintain an erection. I could even lose the rare erection just by talking or from switching from one sexual position to another:) So 80% of the time I paid FS rates where I just couldn't do it. If the services were a la carte, I'd have saved some money. lol. Is there such thing as a GFE rub and tug?

Women by just being nude do not arouse me at all... It could be because I am more or less a naturist in principle. Nudity by itself is 'normal' to me; I guess I find a woman dressed seductively more sexy. Yes, a hot body is nice to look at, but that's it. There was this one time after a session I asked the SP if she was going to take a shower, she said with a cute pouting mouth that she usually does, but because I didn't 'touch' her at all, she didn't need to. To be fair, I did touch her hair, forearms, tummy, and the breasts a couple times when she said they are enhanced. Case in point--even with smooth skin, a nice body, and a cute face lying there in front of me, it's just not enough by itself to bring out my sexual side.

For me, the mind plays a such big role sometimes it's annoying :) That is why kissing, intimacy, and some stimulating conversation (dirty, small, or whatever is suitable at the moment) are so important to me. These activities slow down my big head somewhat to give the little one a chance of being spared some blood flow ;) Without them, it is nearly impossible for me to become or stay sexually aroused--my brain is just too busy doing its own stuff and hogging all the oxygen and blood needed elsewhere. The result? I am not capable of having sex with just any woman. It takes a special, talented lady (or 2, or 3) to tango.

As a result, I do not have "frequent regulars" yet, though I am always searching for them. My new rule: a session must include kissing and a connection (in addition to an acceptable level of physical attraction) for me to repeat.

P.S. Any recommendations are welcome :D
 

FortunateOne

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Hey, no worries. Over 80% of the sessions I had with SPs, I was just not sufficiently aroused to initiate or maintain an erection. I could even lose the rare erection just by talking or from switching from one sexual position to another:) So 80% of the time I paid FS rates where I just couldn't do it. If the services were a la carte, I'd have saved some money. lol. Is there such thing as a GFE rub and tug?

Women by just being nude do not arouse me at all... It could be because I am more or less a naturist in principle. Nudity by itself is 'normal' to me; I guess I find a woman dressed seductively more sexy. Yes, a hot body is nice to look at, but that's it. There was this one time after a session I asked the SP if she was going to take a shower, she said with a cute pouting mouth that she usually does, but because I didn't 'touch' her at all, she didn't need to. To be fair, I did touch her hair, forearms, tummy, and the breasts a couple times when she said they are enhanced. Case in point--even with smooth skin, a nice body, and a cute face lying there in front of me, it's just not enough by itself to bring out my sexual side.

For me, the mind plays a such big role sometimes it's annoying :) That is why kissing, intimacy, and some stimulating conversation (dirty, small, or whatever is suitable at the moment) are so important to me. These activities slow down my big head somewhat to give the little one a chance of being spared some blood flow ;) Without them, it is nearly impossible for me to become or stay sexually aroused--my brain is just too busy doing its own stuff and hogging all the oxygen and blood needed elsewhere. The result? I am not capable of having sex with just any woman. It takes a special, talented lady (or 2, or 3) to tango.

As a result, I do not have "frequent regulars" yet, though I am always searching for them. My new rule: a session must include kissing and a connection (in addition to an acceptable level of physical attraction) for me to repeat.

P.S. Any recommendations are welcome :D
I'd suggest you are not someone who should jump right into the action. See someone who starts with massage that leads into sensual teasing. Get your mind in the right place. I doubt if GFE alone is going to get your mind into the right place, but getting fully relaxed just might do the trick. Whether they normally start with massage first or not, ask that they do. Why not try Elizabeth in Surrey or for the GFE r&t, Madeleine?
 

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I am sure that if you ask, many of the well-reviewed gfe ladies out there, many will be able to cater to your exact needs.

I don't advertise R&T as a service specifically, but I do have clients that enjoy a gfe-style massage plus. It's the way I prefer things.. if I gave someone a nice orgasm without some kind of more personal connection, I really wouldn't feel good about doing what I do.

I'll bet there are others who feel the same way.

xoxo
Nina
Damn, I like this girl more every time she posts!
 

Arrrg

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Yea I find that the only thing really sensual about most of the massages I've had is that they give you a tug. Teasing before hand I don't think is sensual...

Closest one to that IMO is Jewel/Mali @Calm White Room. Though I didn't find a huge personal attraction towards her but she set the mood well. I haven't been to her in white rock however.

mmm this GFE sensual massage is sounding nice... Don't care for the kissing part but a little closer contact would probably go a long way for me now that I think about it.
 
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