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Katlyn

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In the reviews everyone does sometimes there are comments about how tight a girl is. When I read these reviews it strikes me that all the comments which say a girl is tight, the guy has not used digits on her. When you use digits, it's like having sex, she gets aroused and loosens up to accommodate (same thing with a guy with a large one, if you go slow enough and allow both the guy and the girl adapt they will usually find a suitable size for each other).

Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?

Sorry if this is a silly question, just wondering about the male brain.
 

HB40

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Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?
I find when a girl is too tight it can be a discomfort for both. I enjoy extended foreplay whether with digits or tongue to prepare each of us. Many girls do not allow digits and there are many wonderful lubes to ease the adaptation. Personnaly I find a womans own natural juices and lubrication to be an incredible turn on and am more than willing to work toward that end. Digits are not a necessity for me, but if I don't get to use my tongue I feel my participation is only partially complete.:)
 

DQ Guy

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Tight is good.. But not too tight. I don't want to get stuck:eek:
But I do love the foreplay as much as the actual act,:rolleyes:
 

Katlyn

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okay you all confirmed what I thought...I just had to ask because I was surprised how much attention is paid to "her pussy is so tight!!!" in some of the reviews. Lots of women can be really tight if you just go straight to sex.
 

nd1

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In the reviews everyone does sometimes there are comments about how tight a girl is.
"Tightness" cuts both ways. On the one hand, obviously, a guy really hates the feeling of throwing a hotdog wiener into a subway tunnel, on the other hand it's not a whole lot more fun for the squeeze to be so tight that either it hurts or it brings the deed to a premature happy-ending. So, it's got to be just right. However, tightness has probably as much to do with body type, age, use and maintenance as with readiness and state of arousal.

When you use digits, it's like having sex, she gets aroused and loosens up to accommodate (same thing with a guy with a large one, if you go slow enough and allow both the guy and the girl adapt they will usually find a suitable size for each other).

Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?
The tightness issue aside, just as SPs would probably not want their clients to view them as pieces of merchandise -- by the way, did you read in the news about the guy that was caught, and I mean CAUGHT, making love to a wooden park-bench in Hong Kong? -- most clients also would rather have their SPs be partners who partake in the act, to which signs of arousal and enjoyment are quite enticing and appreciated. It is by the same token that fake moaning and so on, as many do note in their reviews, usually are not appreciated; but then business is business. When DATY, digital stimulation and what not are not allowed, there are fewer ways to bring on the desirable level of excitement, downgrading the whole experience, so much so that it possibly borders on becoming one of purchasing and using a merchandise.

If the reluctance to providing a fuller and less restrictive menu is due to concerns of health and safety, then the SPs should really consider providing and demanding the use of additional protection, such as dental dams and digital condoms. Even Saranwraps might be pressed into service, if so needed. But if the concern comes more from the need to set some emotional and phsyical limits, we can certainly understand, as long as these limits are clearly communicated beforehand without any attempt to B&S.
 

Babylon

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My speculation of the speculum nature of the vagina...

Yeah, I've wondered about tightness as well. It obviously doesn't have much to do with body type as I am quite tall 5'9" but guys are constantly mentioning my tightness in reviews and in person.
I almost have to be aroused and well lubricated to have intercourse because to do otherwise can be quite uncomfortable, luckily that is easy for me and my active imagination :eek: . Even so I still find large men somewhat uncomfortable and long periods of rough sex can leave me sore for a day or so. So I think "tightness" also has to do with anatomy and muscle-tone as well as arousal.

Also, having a child or inserting large objects (bowling pins anyone?) would probably cause some stretching/ tearing of the vaginal walls and a more accommodating pussy compared to someone who has not.

If you do regular kegal exercises or orgasm regularly (that's a great pussy-muscle work-out!) then you have the ability to clench down and 'tighten' your kitty. Anyone who has visited Extreme April's site knows she an insert very large objects but is also so tight she can crush a pop can!!:eek:


I also agree with the poster above me. The majority of clients enjoy pleasure going both ways. That means sessions that include digits, daty, kissing etc... In fact I won't do just "blow-n-go" type appointments because they just don't feel right with me. But in this business every girl has different restrictions and reasoning. Sexuality is highly personal and emotional so you really just have to accept the other parties desires and dislikes in this field *yes, even if your paying them*.
 

TheGuy

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Just curious

My speculation of the speculum nature of the vagina...

Yeah, I've wondered about tightness as well. It obviously doesn't have much to do with body type as I am quite tall 5'9" but guys are constantly mentioning my tightness in reviews and in person.
I almost have to be aroused and well lubricated to have intercourse because to do otherwise can be quite uncomfortable, luckily that is easy for me and my active imagination :eek: . Even so I still find large men somewhat uncomfortable and long periods of rough sex can leave me sore for a day or so. So I think "tightness" also has to do with anatomy and muscle-tone as well as arousal.

Also, having a child or inserting large objects (bowling pins anyone?) would probably cause some stretching/ tearing of the vaginal walls and a more accommodating pussy compared to someone who has not.

If you do regular kegal exercises or orgasm regularly (that's a great pussy-muscle work-out!) then you have the ability to clench down and 'tighten' your kitty. Anyone who has visited Extreme April's site knows she an insert very large objects but is also so tight she can crush a pop can!!:eek:


I also agree with the poster above me. The majority of clients enjoy pleasure going both ways. That means sessions that include digits, daty, kissing etc... In fact I won't do just "blow-n-go" type appointments because they just don't feel right with me. But in this business every girl has different restrictions and reasoning. Sexuality is highly personal and emotional so you really just have to accept the other parties desires and dislikes in this field *yes, even if your paying them*.
Just curious but don't SP's need to be paid members (names in RED) to advertise on PERB?
 

TheGuy

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Tight

In the reviews everyone does sometimes there are comments about how tight a girl is. When I read these reviews it strikes me that all the comments which say a girl is tight, the guy has not used digits on her. When you use digits, it's like having sex, she gets aroused and loosens up to accommodate (same thing with a guy with a large one, if you go slow enough and allow both the guy and the girl adapt they will usually find a suitable size for each other).

Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?

Sorry if this is a silly question, just wondering about the male brain.
Generally you are correct, however, some women do remain incredibly tight no matter what activities take place before hand.
 

Babylon

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Just curious but don't SP's need to be paid members (names in RED) to advertise on PERB?
It was no attempt to advertise (no phone number, no e-mail, no website link), but in any case I have contacted the perb advertisers about being in red again. I am planning to send in the payment Aug 31st so as too easily keep track of when it is up, I generally pay all my bills at the same time and want this one to be the same.

I am not even really interested in advertising on here nor am I even keen accepting new clients but would like the freedom to say whatever I like without feeling censored or getting silly comments like that.

So back to the topic at hand.... (sorry Katlyn)
 

EvilPettingZoo

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Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?
I can only echo others' comments (esp. john-john's & novasss'). My pooning career has been short (so far) but I'm more interested in giving pleasure than receiving since it seems more like a GFE if it's not a one-way street. Moreover, I haven't had much experience, so it's thrilling to try new things and see the results. Quite a turn-on.

Katlyn said:
Sorry if this is a silly question, just wondering about the male brain.
It all depends which one you ask.
 

AA_Train

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" -- by the way, did you read in the news about the guy that was caught, and I mean CAUGHT, making love to a wooden park-bench in Hong Kong? --
Gives whole new meaning to the term woody doesn't it? :eek:

To stay on topic I think warmth is just as important as tightness and I agree with most tight is good, to a point. Warmth comes from wetness which signifies arousal so fingering, DATY, pretty much anything that gets a woman aroused is all good with me :D
 

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I am the anomoly that does not like it tight. I'm not saying that I want it so loose that I cannot feel it, but looser with big lips is awesome to me! With an sp, plenty of lube or an extremely wet pussy is preferable. With a s.o. I prefer lots of slobbery oral with some digits to get things going. For me, "Tight ain't right"! Yes, I am one of the Snailskies ;)
 
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Would you guys rather being allowed to use digits, getting really excited, and then having regular sex or would you rather not be allowed to touch her and have her be tight?
Digits. Absolutely no question. And if the guy does his job right, the lady will tighten up nicely for him at just the right time :D

(insert personal note here) BTW, my return visit with you last week once again introduced me to previously unknown heights of passion.... a visit with you is an experience to dream about for a very long time afterwards ;) (end of personal note)
 
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