Would you marry someone if you get them pregnant?

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My friend and his highschool sweetheart married her because she's knocked up. This guy never had the guts to ask her for a abortion or instead just gave her child support payments. Been a few years now of him whining and it's tough seeing them argue. Just curious what some of you would do if you where in his situation?
 

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depends on the quality of the girl...i can be very irresponsible if the girl is whom i don't really like. and since i am a pooner, i often fuck girls i don't like but find attractive.
 

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Hot sauce in the condom...

No, I wouldn't. Depending on how I felt about the woman I may continue to date her until I felt like proposing or pay child support if she decides to keep it.
 

athaire

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Been there and done that. It doesn't work out in the long run from my experience. Though the kids are wonderful the relationship was doomed from the start. Don't marry unless its for love.......period.......
 

Bartdude

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Been there and done that. It doesn't work out in the long run from my experience. Though the kids are wonderful the relationship was doomed from the start. Don't marry unless its for love.......period.......
Good advice
 

tedsweettangv

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When I was younger I probably would have said no. When I was younger I engaged more often in activities which would make it possible. Now, I am .... mature. It would mean that I met a woman, we got past the stage where I used a condom. I don't have kids, I probably would marry her. At the very least I would suck it up and support the child, it would probably be my last chance at having one.
 

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Been there and done that. It doesn't work out in the long run from my experience. Though the kids are wonderful the relationship was doomed from the start. Don't marry unless its for love.......period.......
Well said.

Why get married and then have the kid(s) deal with a divorce later on?
Be a man, and fulfill your duties as a parent, but marriage is a separate issue all together. I know plenty of people who were never married but are both exceptional parents, and I know couples who are only together because of the kids. The kids with 2 involved, happy, responsible parents are much happier than the kids whose parents resent each other and are in a bad marriage.
 

big k

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I wouldn't get married it's doomed if its under those circumstances.
Pay child support and be there for the kid.They'll be less messed up
than living in a home that parents just got married due to pregnancy.
Half the kids these days are blended families so they can relate to each
other. Pay the support and work something out but pass on the married
part- you and your lawyer will be dealing with it later otherwise
 

70sBratski

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I'm a female, got 'knocked up' and refused to ....

get married. I also refused child support.

I went on to finish my high school all the time working and paying a sitter, thus supporting myself.

I now have a great career in a high profile IT company.

Wouldn't have it any other way.

... come on guys...women don't need you or your money any more.....I am glaaaad he's not in my life.

P.S. She is all grown up now and has her own career .... and we are doing just fine - better than fine actually! Both our houses are paid off and we are FREE to do what we like :)
 
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